The best Anal Sex Toys: Reddit reviews

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Yeah, you definitely should start with flared buttplugs. Start small and work your way up. There's some starter kits out there. (It's very important that the base is flared so you won't end up at the hospital again if it gets stuck.)

A little alcohol can help, but don't do too much because you'll want to make sure you don't ignore any serious pains. I always strongly recommend a safe word!

https://www.amazon.com/LOVENSE-Hush-Powerful-Control-1-75inch/dp/B01FVTA9BO/ (or any equivalent prostate vibrators) https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/2i2k27/a_guide_to_multiple_prostate_orgasms/ youll never want to wank the same way again

I mean, this kind of exists, sort of? It's a vibrator that syncs to music via a mobile app. So you can kind of get the experience if you want?

I see your pump action enema, and offer this as your next suggested purchase:

Shower head enema kit

I know Amazon is really frowned upon in this subreddit but I can personally vouch for this toy.

It is incredible. Just putting it in and flexing your muscles around it can get you there- and the vibe is pretty decent. Plus it is inexpensive.

I think you nailed the two most recommended things.

I have the Aneros prograsm and it was worth every penny. I do understand not wanting to waste the money in case you don't like it (I did the same thing as you and wasted money on a dildo and a vibratory that I didn't like and threw away), but I don't know any specific aneros knockoffs to suggest.

I have a knock off NJoy and it has been fantastic. As stated by another user if you get one that is made with the same grade of stainless steel it should be just fine. This is the one I got from Amazon:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0773GTR7C/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_KCH26PQZR2A6KEJDNX7V?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1

The Njoy wand is a must!! I was EXACTLY as you described... external only orgasms, but enjoyed and was still turned on during penetrative sex. I knew I was missing something.

I bought this https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0773GTR7C?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

It has been directly compared to the Njoy and it is indistinguishable. If the Njoy wand was any better than this, I would kill over.

It not only provided my first direct g-spot and subsequent squirting orgasm, it's more. This part is harder to describe... but it also made my g-spot more sensitive. Kind of like when your mind can detect your thumb without you moving it or anything touching it. That's what it did for my g-spot! Like I discovered a whole new body part. Subsequent couples play and exploration became much more successful in the g-spot hunt and stimulation game.

I still like a little external stimulation along with internal to really take me over the edge. And anal play is awesome in its own right.

I also found that instead of your partner asking "tell me what you like/what feels good", is to have them doing their thing and then say "do you like this OR this", "here OR here". The choice between 2 actions is much easier to define than an open ended question. I hope that makes sense!!

TLDR: Buy the wand; keep experimenting; happy orgasming

Get some toys, and play around. Something like these https://www.amazon.com/Comfortable-Long-Term-Silicone-Training-Beginners/dp/B07RK98NH6/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=butt+plug+trainer+kit&qid=1611907747&s=hpc&sr=1-1

and a dildo. And some lube, but not silicone lube.

I dunno, the top rated reviews on amazon indicate that he is not at all alone in experiencing these issues with the Hush. As I said in another comment this at a minimum points to a lack of quality control.

I've been doing alternative orgasms (prostate, perineum, testicle centric) for 22 years now and I have never used my own fingers for ass play due to having a long torso. So no, you are doing nothing wrong if you cannot orgasm just from your fingers :) Toys are awesome, and can really help. For me I've found that 3 types of toys over the years can reliably hit the spot. First a hard prostate massager, I got mine years back from a local store, and cannot remember the model, but it looks like this, a Doc Johnson P-massager ( https://www.docjohnson.com/media/catalog/product/cache/1/small_image/332x/9df78eab33525d08d6e5fb8d27136e95/0/6/0691_01_bu_2_1_3.png ) I also have a full vibrating one I got off Amazon which produces just amazing sensations. ( https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01EMYJPWS/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o04_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1 ) and lastly I use a plain old wand vibrator for perineum play. You should certainly be able to find some toys within your price range. Remember though, your mileage may vary. If you are a larger person you might need a slightly longer toy, if you have a local sex shop to visit to see the toys in person I find that helps a lot. And remember the three most important things when using toys are, use lots of lube, relax, and be patient ;) I hope this helps.

I use this one. It's 3.34 to 2.94" in circumference and And 4" inches long, according to amazon. Maybe I should try a bigger one.

I always search best sellers on Amazon and I've got quite a few neat toys. The one I recommend is https://www.amazon.com/Silicone-Charging-Vibrating-Prostate-Vibrator/dp/B01EMYJPWS/ref=zg_bs_3777381_17?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=7NFSK5TZ5A0WPBA821B8

It's so good! Also, here's the top sellers on Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/Best-Sellers-Health-Personal-Care-Anal-Sex-Toys/zgbs/hpc/3777381

I would start out small. Whatever size you use it will do as designed. What I use is below. I can now sleep with it and wake up so horny with a need to have my pussy pounded. From there I moved to a butt plug and wake up even hornier.

https://www.amazon.ca/Aneros-VF474-Helix-Prostate-Stimulator/dp/B001AQNSFW

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I've bought this kit a long time ago.

The hose was garbage, get a proper stainless steel one. The large flared nozzle is really more of a novelty than something to use. The smallest one will be the best for douching/enemas. The rubber one is fun if you are into enemas as a kink.

I've found it best to not let go in the shower until you have really gotten the large stuff out of the way. Just seems to work better. Take a little bit of water, hold it for a bit, go to the toilet, repeat.

Also, I recommend getting a 3 way diverter, that will let it go to both the shower and the hose at the same time, that way you have a means of limiting flow to the hose. Going full tilt is not safe.

This is the exact kit that I have. I've had it for years, and use it often without issue.

https://www.amazon.com/All-One-Shower-Enema-System/dp/B00MWB5I9S/ref=sr\_1\_5?crid=2UWH9T85CTZ64&dchild=1&keywords=shower+enema+kit&qid=1621230484&sprefix=shower+enema%2Caps%2C467&sr=8-5

Huh. Funny. My wife was using one of these Phanxy prostate vibrators on me I was pouring out precum just like that.

I’m glad to hear your comfortable in your body! A lot of people also really like the NJOY wand and you can read amazing reviews online from women. Nothing is a guarantee but here’s a cheaper version. It stimulates the g spot!

And I get what you mean now! It’s not so much about the sex but about connecting with your friends. I know that sucks a lot and I felt behind as a teen too. I don’t know what really to recommend besides connecting to them in other ways. There’s so much time for you to have that experience and then be able to connect!

I bought this and the reviews seem to say it’s the same as a normal pure wand, coming in tomorrow so ilyk how it works

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0773GTR7C/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glc_fabc_j1saGbHMZJ7G6

There are all kinds handsfree ways to cum. Depends what you’re interested in, because there are lots of options. You can use chastity cages to keep the temptation at bay. You can also use magic wands and other strong vibrators, treating it like a clit (a fun combo with the cage). You can also try e-stim, which is stimulation by electricity (no hands required).

I recommend looking at “handsfree” porn for ideas. There are a lot of people who can cum without any touch, but I imagine that comes with a lot of edging/abstaining.

But to answer your question, yes, you absolutely can cum just from anal. Get some good lube and toys. Silicone lube is great, and stays slippery — but it can’t be used with some toys.

This is a great one for internal stimulation:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0773GTR7C/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_4vkMFbTWJCSK5?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1

I should also note that these are not things I do myself, but it’s the kind of porn I enjoy watching. 😊

thanks! i found this plug on amazon.

Googling hush plug comes up with this: https://www.amazon.com/LOVENSE-Hush-Powerful-Vibrating-1-5inch/dp/B01FVTA9BO

Is that what you're referring to? From the context of your reply this would allow her to turn it on from her phone to get your attention real quick or to just turn it on to randomly tease you. You'd have to be already wearing it though which I don't think would work in a day to day situation... unless you always just had it in?

Im commenting here mostly so I can follow this post and see if anyone has a good answer because Im in need of a new toy myself. I bought a relatively cheaper prostate vibe on amazon and it was absolutely amazing before it broke... It was my first vibe and wow theres no going back after using one lol. But unfortunately the battery stopped working after its initial charge and wont recharge now. Anyways, if anyone was considering this one I would recommend trying something else https://www.amazon.com/PHANXY-Wave-Motion-Vibrating-Prostate-Controlled/dp/B07GKXF8YR

Seems like everything that people recommend costs $100+ and its hard for me to justify spending that much but it seems like I might have to give in and drop some money

Purchased this knock off on Amazon, replaced Njoy which was lost during a move. It’s medical grade stainless, and identical in weight, shape, and quality of the njoy. Honestly no reason to buy the njoy for 3x the price IMO. Had it for 3 months now, love it https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0773GTR7C/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

The Njoy wand is the gold standard when it comes to prostate stimulation, but they will run you $100. If you want a cheaper alternative, there are dozens of imitators on amazon, I can personally vouch for this one. The only downside is it's really heavy so you have to slow way down while you use it, but the curve makes finding the p-spot a non-issue. As for the sensation itself, it's subtle so you need to slow down to find it. He should feel a lot of pressure and an almost overwhelming need to pee.

Buttplugs are not good for anal training except for using one larger that you can fit to widen your sphincter without actually putting it in all the way.

Instead I recommend you get one like or similar to this.

https://www.ebay.com/itm/232827018132

You use it to gradually and slowly stretch your sphincter for example while touching or perhaps watching a movie. A buttplug won’t stretch your sphincter while in place and when you actually want to put something in it does not matter if you have “only” stretched the inside.

If you want to be able to take larger stuff fast invest also in a dilator kit like this one.

https://www.amazon.com/Master-Piece-Anal-Trainer-Black/dp/B00AU8HZC8/ref=m_pd_aw_vtp_sccl_1/144-6702461-1276464?pd_rd_w=A72eL&content-id=amzn1.sym.cfb5393d-1449-4358-b6f5-81e2d6be89c5&pf_rd_p=cfb5393d-1449-4358-b6f5-81e2d6be89c5&pf_rd_...

This will train both inside and outside and meant to be simply put in place and left there for your body to get used to it.

After stretching remember you can’t just go straight to anal sex even if putting it in now is easy. It also takes a while for your ass to get used to thrusting. Take a small dildo and start slow and go faster and if does not hurt keep increasing the size.

Take it slow since going fast and pushing to hard equals pain and often ruptures that can hurt like a bitch and keep you of anything anal for a couple of days. Using to large of a buttplug showing it in and out will get u hurt so once again stay away from buttplug when it comes to training your ass.

It’s from a training kit we got on Amazon. Plug Kit Link on Amazon

I believe it's this Plug glass plug from Amazon. I bought it a little while ago, and it takes some work getting it in. Definitely on the higher end of intermediate or low end of experienced play.

Thanks for the well thought out reply!! Really appreciate it. Unfortunately I work tomorrow and I’m at work right now, so we have to wait to really sit down and talk about things.

I’m curious, have you used any textured toys? The first training set I got for myself, it was traffic cone shaped, that’s the best way to describe it. I didn’t much care for it honestly. So I suggested starting with fingers and either trying this kit or this kit…

https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/prostate-toys/sp-intro-to-prostate-kit-102333.aspx

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07RK98NH6/ref=cm_sw_r_api_i_W2HZYVGYDYAR1GDAD0FN_0

Not really. There is such a huge variety in material, size, and shape that you need to something that is fun.

Just be aware that not everything out there is a safe product in any scenario. In the case of buttplugs: If you plan to wear it for longer periods of time, get one that has no chance of getting lost in your butt.
And by longer times I mean anything that is not you actively playing with it. I had one of those and was sitting on a cushioned chair when suddenly something felt off. Luckily I grabbed the immedialy after it vanished, otherwise it would've been a hassle with ER digging it up.

In general: Everything where the cross section of the base is not significantly wider than the thickes part of the plug is not safe for "unattended" wear.

I say cross section bc the base does not have to be round. A "strip" works usually better than a full round base bc it is more comfortable while wearing.

These two are good long-term wear examples. Not endorsements, I do not own either.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07RK98NH6/

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09Z6NDV96/

They already make this.

https://www.amazon.com/All-One-Shower-Enema-System/dp/B00MWB5I9S

You can also use a cheap plastic water bottle if you need to clean up in a pinch.