BEFORE YOU BUY! And lessons learned.
Flaccid is flaccid, I'm about 7.5" reg girth, but I'm a grower not a shower, so the standard is actually 2 sizes too be for me. I have to much room to grow, you want flaccid, to be honest I don't know if I had ever seen my dick completely flaccid before.
If you look a related products, rhe v4 is there as well. That's the newer ones I don't know what is better, but I would have prob gone v4 if I did it again.
THIS MOTHERFUCKER HAS FANGS!!! So, I don't know what moron put this thing together but when you slide the rings on, there is razor sharp plastic, YOU HAVE TO SAND THEM DOWN, YES, SAND THEM DOWN....the kit has a piece of sandpaper in it. It takes a minute and I would recommend, I didn't the first time, it wasn't great.
Start big and go smaller with the rings, I ended up in the big dawg, but my ball kept popping out, so I ended up swapping to the next size down (it comes with 4 sizes), well that was great for running in (did 6miles and 1500 vertical yesterday in the cage, no problem.
Glad to answer any other questions
FYJENNICC Lightweight Premium Chastity Device Medical Grade Resin Male Briefs V3 Transparent (Small) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07QW2H7QC/ref=cm_sw_r_u_apa_glt_fabc_57WT34QB72FT2AEHMZBR?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I'm an inch shorter and I went with the ht v3 (although now it's the v4) nano, which works well for me. Currently I'm in the cage at the below link, which is much smaller and more satisfying, but could take some getting used to if you want to wear it long term. With everything though always go with the smallest ring size you can comfortably fit first one ball through then the other. There's a strategy to it haha but idk if everyone does it the same way.
Well, I don't think something like a holy trainer would work, even if it does push back into the pubic area, I would probably go with the standard recommendation of MM (Mature Metal) or even one of those small amazon devices to start, https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01JWH655U/
Personally, I'm only a tad bit larger than you flaccid and I'm using a customchastity.com device with the smallest gap. I must admint, that wasn't smart. With that small of gap (7mm if I remember correctly) I get sores on the bottom of my shaft and am waiting for my 10mm? (I think) gap cage to come in, Hopefully that solves the problems, but I digress. I definitely think a close to custom device is the way to go for you. If you have the funds I recommend trying out one of the custom chastity ghosts. There are some users here that have used the for quite a while.
Paging u/flee_market and u/GilesEnglishCB !
Thanks for your reviews. The reviews on Amazon sucks.
But I did find this one https://www.amazon.com/Utimi-Cock-Chastity-Device-Locked/dp/B075MCMM6N/ref=pd_aw_vtph_121_bs_1/146-3038315-2783444?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B075MCMM6N&pd_rd_r=fa0709dd-8215-11e9-9c4a-ff62a9822dac&pd_rd_w=eWwvT&pd_rd_wg=YgXHn&pf_r...
I think it looks promising. My sub just put in the order so we shall see how good it is soon.
TERNENCE Metal Male Chasti-ty Device... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07F7TFPN5?ref=yo_pop_ma_swf
Not too expensive and I dont really need to take it off for cleaning. I originally got the 45mm ring but that was too big so I got the 40mm and it's perfect
It was one kinda like this. the only downside is sitting to pee (not a huge deal) and needing a water bottle to rinse (sometimes a bit problematic). A more open style worked better. It was definitely easier to pee in. You can also get them a little bit longer too.
I have this cage from amazon and it accommodates much more girth than I expected...
Utimi Cock Cage Male Chastity Device Locked Cage Sex Toy for Men https://www.amazon.com/dp/B075MCMM6N/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_3yI0Ab1YQVTGH
It's a very inexpensive steel device I bought on Amazon, I think I paid about $26 for it? That said, it's far more comfortable for long-term wear than any expensive name brand device I've tried. I'll edit this reply with the link to it in just a bit.
Edit: this one. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07DVKFF7L?ref=yo_pop_ma_swf
There are a few very similar ones on Amazon but this one was listed as a "Ternence" brand, with a shaped ring instead of flat circle base.
The $20 ones from China (I got most ne off Amazon, search for "ternence") are a good way to go smaller and also do it cheaply until you figure out what you want to do long term. I'm about a month (last 5 days continously 24/7 except for a quick shower cleaning) into one of them and it's pretty comfortable once you put some kind of strap/string/band through the ring and around your waist to keep it snug. Being able to get hard in one of these actually hurts because my fat grower will pull like the dickens (harrr) on my balls and then it's painful. Better to just keep it snug and no erection possible.
Measure well (lockthecock.com has a great how-to).
I've had several and this is the best so far. Only 30 bucks on Amazon. I have hardly taken it off for 2 weeks now. Sometimes you get lucky. Steel is the way to go.
TERNENCE Stainless Steel Small... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07GLB124Z?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
I've had several, but this one was actually a cheaper one from Amazon.
TERNENCE Stainless Steel Small Male Chastity Device Ergonomic Design Stealth Lock for Adults Solitary Extreme Confinement Cage S045 (1.77 inch / 45mm) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07GLP4PFM/
I was worried the 45mm was going to be too snug, but it's PERFECT. Still working on a name, but using Wavy for now based on the nice accent curves on the cage. If a tsunami is a giant wave, what's a word for a small one? Maybe "Ripple" instead? 🤣
This is basically what i wear now. Very open and easy to keep clean.
wear one of these things: https://www.amazon.com/UleadeTM-Steel-Chastity-Device-Locked/dp/B01I155M94/ref=sr\_1\_6?crid=1GA4BUTAU5BEQ&keywords=penis+cage&qid=1668286997&sprefix=penis+cage%2Caps%2C106&sr=8-6
I got this one
I got it out of curiosity. I’ve seen a lot of people say it makes your prostate orgasm more intense so I wanted to try it and see.
Good girl…. what did you order?
my last inebriation chastity purchase was this and I couldn’t be happier … I’m hoping it will allow me to FINALLY complete “Loctober “ https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01JWH655U
Other commenters gave good suggestions.
I would recommend considering a cheap metal cage from Amazon. This one is reasonably priced and decent quirky.
Also, on the subject of “He has an average cock (and it should stay this way)”, shrinkage is a myth. Being locked in chastity for extended periods of time does not cause a penis to shrink.
You can find them for relatively cheap honestly, this one is only $25
what should we do to figure out the perfect sizing? Measure frequently and accurately! Also try to find a cage that comes with several ring sizes. I had more probs with my rinf than the cage.
One of my first cages was this Birdcage knockoff, looks good, comfortable and lightweight but bulky.
I've heard good things about lockthecock.com . They've got a Cobra knock off that's $50.
I'd try as many cheap cages as possible before you spend big bucks. If you decided you want to pursue chastity long term I'm a Kink3d man. Very frustrating, turns my horny meter up to a 10 every time I'm locked.
And go slow when you start out. Be nice to your dick. He might not inderstand why he's caged. Give him time to adjust!
would you like metal or plastic?
i had fun with this cage. it is light. real stainless steel so no rust. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01JWH6500/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o01_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
here's a link for a little pink cage for you
You definitely need a smaller cage. I would recommend the one below. I've been using it for over a year and it is great.
TERNENCE Stainless Steel Small Male Chastity Device Ergonomic Design Stealth Lock for Adults Solitary Extreme Confinement Cage S050 (1.97 inch / 50mm) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07GLB124Z/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_VFW8TC82EB03VA9VBAV8?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I've had the below cage for over a year now. I get about 6.5 inches and even though this is a small cage, it works great. It's super easy to keep clean for long periods of time; my wife has kept me locked for 4 weeks at a time, currently at 21 days. Also, I find that sleeping is quite easy in this one, where erections are not painful at all. Some think that this is part of the kink, but after a while, I wanted something that I could wear and forget about. I highly recommend.
Also, after some time, I ordered the 40 mm ring, but this was too small and caused a lot of discomfort.
TERNENCE Stainless Steel Small Male Chastity Device Ergonomic Design Stealth Lock for Adults Solitary Extreme Confinement Cage S045 (1.77 inch / 45mm)
Wow! You are huge. Mine is the TERNENCE Metal Male Chastity Device Small 304 Steel Stainless Comfortable Cock Cage (1.77 inch / 45mm).
I find this is a good starter one I was able to wear it reasonably comfortablly for a week straight.
FYJENNICC New Upgrade Key Lightweight Premium Resin Chastity Device Male Briefs with Discreet Packing (Pink) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B074MFRFJS/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_9T1QQE2MX2W88CB6N5G9?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I absolutely love this cage on my sub, but it does complicate the peeing situation. It's terrible searching for cages on Amazon but if you start with a link and then click around the "people also bought" or related products section you can find more cages for cheap while you figure out sizing.
TERNENCE Stainless Steel Small... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07GLGN33K?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
Both have been comfortable for me
Get this one
this is the one I found, but I’m not sure if it will be worth it