BEFORE YOU BUY! And lessons learned.
Flaccid is flaccid, I'm about 7.5" reg girth, but I'm a grower not a shower, so the standard is actually 2 sizes too be for me. I have to much room to grow, you want flaccid, to be honest I don't know if I had ever seen my dick completely flaccid before.
If you look a related products, rhe v4 is there as well. That's the newer ones I don't know what is better, but I would have prob gone v4 if I did it again.
THIS MOTHERFUCKER HAS FANGS!!! So, I don't know what moron put this thing together but when you slide the rings on, there is razor sharp plastic, YOU HAVE TO SAND THEM DOWN, YES, SAND THEM DOWN....the kit has a piece of sandpaper in it. It takes a minute and I would recommend, I didn't the first time, it wasn't great.
Start big and go smaller with the rings, I ended up in the big dawg, but my ball kept popping out, so I ended up swapping to the next size down (it comes with 4 sizes), well that was great for running in (did 6miles and 1500 vertical yesterday in the cage, no problem.
Glad to answer any other questions
FYJENNICC Lightweight Premium Chastity Device Medical Grade Resin Male Briefs V3 Transparent (Small) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07QW2H7QC/ref=cm_sw_r_u_apa_glt_fabc_57WT34QB72FT2AEHMZBR?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I'm an inch shorter and I went with the ht v3 (although now it's the v4) nano, which works well for me. Currently I'm in the cage at the below link, which is much smaller and more satisfying, but could take some getting used to if you want to wear it long term. With everything though always go with the smallest ring size you can comfortably fit first one ball through then the other. There's a strategy to it haha but idk if everyone does it the same way.
Well, I don't think something like a holy trainer would work, even if it does push back into the pubic area, I would probably go with the standard recommendation of MM (Mature Metal) or even one of those small amazon devices to start, https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01JWH655U/
Personally, I'm only a tad bit larger than you flaccid and I'm using a customchastity.com device with the smallest gap. I must admint, that wasn't smart. With that small of gap (7mm if I remember correctly) I get sores on the bottom of my shaft and am waiting for my 10mm? (I think) gap cage to come in, Hopefully that solves the problems, but I digress. I definitely think a close to custom device is the way to go for you. If you have the funds I recommend trying out one of the custom chastity ghosts. There are some users here that have used the for quite a while.
Paging u/flee_market and u/GilesEnglishCB !
Thanks for your reviews. The reviews on Amazon sucks.
But I did find this one https://www.amazon.com/Utimi-Cock-Chastity-Device-Locked/dp/B075MCMM6N/ref=pd_aw_vtph_121_bs_1/146-3038315-2783444?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B075MCMM6N&pd_rd_r=fa0709dd-8215-11e9-9c4a-ff62a9822dac&pd_rd_w=eWwvT&pd_rd_wg=YgXHn&pf_r...
I think it looks promising. My sub just put in the order so we shall see how good it is soon.
TERNENCE Metal Male Chasti-ty Device... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07F7TFPN5?ref=yo_pop_ma_swf
Not too expensive and I dont really need to take it off for cleaning. I originally got the 45mm ring but that was too big so I got the 40mm and it's perfect
It was one kinda like this. the only downside is sitting to pee (not a huge deal) and needing a water bottle to rinse (sometimes a bit problematic). A more open style worked better. It was definitely easier to pee in. You can also get them a little bit longer too.
TERNENCE Metal Male Chastity Device Small 304 Steel Stainless Comfortable Cock Cage Adult Game Sex Toy D250 (1.97 inch / 50mm) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07F7X358F/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_9251XN9BG22YRB8MP9N1?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1 I have this one. In my defense, the one I bought might be a little too large for me (I thought I did the measurements right) , and I’m still kinda new at this whole thing.
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This is what I use, and it's not the best but it's comfortable, durable, small, and affordable. I wear it 24/7 without issues. 🥰😁
There's also an ergonomic option for 3$ extra but I've never tried it.
I have this cage from amazon and it accommodates much more girth than I expected...
Utimi Cock Cage Male Chastity Device Locked Cage Sex Toy for Men https://www.amazon.com/dp/B075MCMM6N/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_3yI0Ab1YQVTGH
It's a very inexpensive steel device I bought on Amazon, I think I paid about $26 for it? That said, it's far more comfortable for long-term wear than any expensive name brand device I've tried. I'll edit this reply with the link to it in just a bit.
Edit: this one. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07DVKFF7L?ref=yo_pop_ma_swf
The $20 ones from China (I got most ne off Amazon, search for "ternence") are a good way to go smaller and also do it cheaply until you figure out what you want to do long term. I'm about a month (last 5 days continously 24/7 except for a quick shower cleaning) into one of them and it's pretty comfortable once you put some kind of strap/string/band through the ring and around your waist to keep it snug. Being able to get hard in one of these actually hurts because my fat grower will pull like the dickens (harrr) on my balls and then it's painful. Better to just keep it snug and no erection possible.
Measure well (lockthecock.com has a great how-to).
Good girl…. what did you order?
my last inebriation chastity purchase was this and I couldn’t be happier … I’m hoping it will allow me to FINALLY complete “Loctober “ https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01JWH655U
You can find them for relatively cheap honestly, this one is only $25
what should we do to figure out the perfect sizing? Measure frequently and accurately! Also try to find a cage that comes with several ring sizes. I had more probs with my rinf than the cage.
One of my first cages was this Birdcage knockoff, looks good, comfortable and lightweight but bulky.
I've heard good things about lockthecock.com . They've got a Cobra knock off that's $50.
I'd try as many cheap cages as possible before you spend big bucks. If you decided you want to pursue chastity long term I'm a Kink3d man. Very frustrating, turns my horny meter up to a 10 every time I'm locked.
And go slow when you start out. Be nice to your dick. He might not inderstand why he's caged. Give him time to adjust!
would you like metal or plastic?
i had fun with this cage. it is light. real stainless steel so no rust. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01JWH6500/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o01_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
here's a link for a little pink cage for you
Wow! You are huge. Mine is the TERNENCE Metal Male Chastity Device Small 304 Steel Stainless Comfortable Cock Cage (1.77 inch / 45mm).
I wore this inexpensive cage from Amazon for around 16 months before switching to a Baby Cobra.
I find this is a good starter one I was able to wear it reasonably comfortablly for a week straight.
FYJENNICC New Upgrade Key Lightweight Premium Resin Chastity Device Male Briefs with Discreet Packing (Pink) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B074MFRFJS/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_9T1QQE2MX2W88CB6N5G9?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I absolutely love this cage on my sub, but it does complicate the peeing situation. It's terrible searching for cages on Amazon but if you start with a link and then click around the "people also bought" or related products section you can find more cages for cheap while you figure out sizing.
Get this one
this is the one I found, but I’m not sure if it will be worth it
So, the only way to make a chastity cage truly 100% escape proof for most people is full belt systems (like the offerings from Fancy Steel or Latowski for 2 well known manufacturers) or to get a piercing and secure the cage through the piercing (with something like the cages made by rigid chastity or even a non-ring device like made by Lori's or evotion). Many cages can also be used with a lock or ring through the bars with a piercing as well (the kink3d cobra is one I have done this with).
But I'd say most chastity users don't really want or need that level of security, it's reserved for weirdos like me. It looks like the ones you have tried have all been open style cages with pretty big gaps between cage and base ring. Might I suggest trying something with a smaller gap and more rigid support of the cage and see if that works? Don't take this as an endorsement of any seller or specific cage, it's just illustrative, but something like this maybe:
Unfortunately we are all sized and shaped a little different so there's definitely some trial and error to this thing.
One blog that helped us get my cage dialed in right was "denyingthumper". He talks a lot about fit in his reviews of various mostly higher end devices, as well as the journey he and his wife went on to figure out what worked and what didn't.
Hope some of this helps!
Like this one? https://www.amazon.com/Lightweight-Chastity-Male-Briefs-Discreet/dp/B074MFRFJS/ref=pd\_sbs\_2/134-4718384-0959845?pd\_rd\_w=Tfqy0&pf\_rd\_p=3676f086-9496-4fd7-8490-77cf7f43f846&pf\_rd\_r=R5TP7DCDT7S3TRYXBV00&pd\_rd\_r=6136bff3-3f38-494...
The two that intrigue me are 1. https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B08HXWZ6KY/ref=ox_sc_act_image_1?smid=A17Z6O1MQSO1C9&psc=1 2. https://www.amazon.com/Lightweight-Premium-Chastity-Male-Briefs/dp/B074MFRFJS/ref=zg_bs_1243841011_5/131-2512815-3256446?pd_rd_i=B082WWWYLJ&psc=1&th=1
As for size, I’m 6 inches, average girth.
It occurs to me now I probably should have asked around about good beginner cages before buying. Whoops.
Or something like this
It's a device made of metal or plastic that holds the penis and prevents it from getting hard.
It's prime use is to stop getting boners and in the long term it can be used for Dom/Sub play.
UTIMI Cock Cage Male Chastity Device Locked Cage Sex Toy for Men,Key and Lock Included https://www.amazon.com/dp/B075MCMM6N/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apan_glt_fabc_62EBHP3FE654PEYACK0G?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I'm trying on the largest ring.
I managed to fit both balls and cock after wrapping myself in blankets until I got really warm and loose. I managed to lock myself in but it feels like my balls are being squeezed tightly. Could only take it for like 5 mins before I had to remove it all
your best shot is to start with cheapo ones from amazon because theres a ton of variety, and you might get lucky with one that fits super well! Eventually you may want to upgrade to a "higher quality" one but that depends on a lot of stuff like what material you like, what design you like etc. I recommend the Terrence cages on amazon for starters, make sure you check your measurements!
Yes! And thank you for your input! I have:
1) Holy Trainer Nano, with rings 45 and 40. Cage is a little too big all around, but comfortable for the most part, and I believe the 40 ring is best, but too tight at times; yet the 45 was comfortable but would swivel/rotate throughout the day & come away from the body easily. I could overall start to get too hard in it which lead to the most discomfort / chaffing.
2) in an effort to size for my inevitable Cobra I recently got 2 cheap Amazon ones:
2a) HappyGo 1.77/4.5cm
2b) HappyGo 1.57/4.0cm
Both are a little heavy but the rings are comfortable. Cages need a touch of work but length is comfortable, if sometimes too short. There is a little under balls pinching but I think the curved rings of the Cobra would solve that.
Both can be found here
It's some cheap one from Amazon. I wanted to try a smaller one without spending tons of money. Turned out to be the most comfortable one I own. https://www.amazon.com/TERNENCE-Chastity-Device-Stainless-Comfortable/dp/B07F7TFPN5?ref_=ast_sto_dp&th=1&psc=1
I think something like this is probably OK. I have no personal experience with this device, but if I were buying a cheap cage I would try this seller. Make sure to choose the correct size. It took me multiple tries to get it right.
I got the "Happygo Super Small Male Chastity Device" from Amazon. I bought the 1.77/4.5cm ring too but that one falls off :/
I wear this forever how many days my mistress tells me. I'm uncut as well. Hold back the skin and insert just the head. Be very careful not to pinch anything, it's easy to do, take your time. There are times that I forget that I am wearing it.
I wear this cage a lot and really like it as it is so comfortable. If you don't want to go that small they make similar cages that are larger.
Currently shopping for a more comfortable better fitting cage. This one is super hard to get on even when fully soft and with lube. Not sure if it’s normal to have to try and force it on and push my skin into it with a chip stick to get the tip all the way to the end, then it’s very hard to fully engage the cage with out pulling the base ring further from my pubic mound making me think it’s too short?
This is the cage, currently using the middle ring which is also a bit hard to get on in the first place but I can fit a finger under it
UTIMI Cock Cage Male Chastity Device Locked Cage Sex Toy for Men,Key and Lock Included https://www.amazon.com/dp/B075MCMM6N/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apip_9hfkvDFJe6y9B
The thing comes with 4 rings and frankly, even the biggest one doesn't leave me enough room to put the cage part on.
Most of the Amazon options are garbage, but a few are ok… utimi clear is probably the best there, though I am partial to metal like this ternence cage
I got this one on Friday...it’s been a game changer for me. I’ve been locked since Friday and absolutely no issues with swelling and I too have foreskin.
I’m bit new to chastity so mine is not a super small one. Here is link of the one I bought from Amazon
Excellent cage for the price, comes with 3 rings. The cage itself is on the longer side...so it may not be what you looking for. https://www.amazon.com/Utimi-Cock-Chastity-Device-Locked/dp/B075MCMM6N/ref=zg_bs_1243841011_2?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=DNA25HM5THJW8SKATV11
I’m not expert: but..I got this one to be locked n ride plug
Here is one that small, metal and comfortable. There are lots more to chose from if you don't like this one.
That's the one I have. I had gotten it before I met my gf just for myself and didn't experience any problems, but admittedly I didn't wear it that much.
Here is what I wear for a metal cage, I'm almost exactly the same size as you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01JWH655U/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1
But honestly I don't wear that one often at all. When I'm in a cage now it's almost always in my Holy Trainer V3 Nub knockoff. I'm going to be buying a V4 knockoff this week.
Vu les avis il n'y a pas besoin de le hacker pour qu'on ne puisse pas le débloquer, donc ça ne change pas grand chose
That's sounds like a crappily designed or bent cage. My hunch is manufacturers knowingly ship defective cages knowing you won't bother returning a defective $30 cage because it might require explaining things to another person (embarrassment).
I've had some luck with the TERNENCE Chastity Cages from Amazon:
FYJENNICC Lightweight Premium Chastity Device Medical Grade Resin Male Briefs V3 Transparent (Small) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07QW2H7QC/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_fabc_5huVFbP225ZVX?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I got this one here lake flaccid amazon one is good 3 ring sizes
You can always do the stocking chastity method
Or get a cheap chastity device off eBay or amazon. This one's not too expensive and I use it all the time and its awesome if you're interested. Also pretty cheap too! Hope this helps!
I like the Holy Trainer V3. I got a knockoff from amazon for $20 to figure out my sizing and with plans to order a real one. Honestly this knockoff is pretty reasonable. I started with the Small and ordered a Nano to see which one is a better fit for me.
I got a Holy Trainer v3 clone from Amazon for $20 that I would recommend. I am a grower also and this cage has been great so far. It's a clone and has some rough edges, but it comes with sand paper to fix that and for the price it has impressed me so far.
I would recommend he have access to a key for a while.
I previously used a Holy Trainer V2 and it was too long. I was interested in the V2 so before I spent the money I wanted to figure out my sizing. I got a clone from Amazon and it has been a great fit for me so far. From what you describe it might be that he needs a shorter cage. My V2 was a standard length, on this clone I got the Small and it is defiantly better sized for me I have the next size down on it's way to me to try out. I had a testicle slip today and had to correct it, at least I was awake for it.
If he is indeed just too wide for the Holy Trainers though I would try another device.
My cage is open so I have decent access to clean it.
And the temptation is fairly easy to avoid.
I'll take it off to bathe tonight and size up and see if that solves my issues. Otherwise I'll stick with my current size and just take it off for cleaning.
This was the first one I used. Kept it till it started to rust somewhat. Just need to be careful about the prongs if you have a lot of excess skin.
I wear this one now, though it only comes with the one ring so you have to make sure it's sized right. And you can get a few accessories for it.
wow, looks like the tech is there to take this to the next level if you want to go in this direction!
I bought this about a year ago: https://www.amazon.com/Utimi-Cock-Chastity-Device-Locked/dp/B075MCMM6N/
It served its purpose of helping me see if chastity was something I'd be into, so I can at least offer it up as a potential option in that regard (if you don't mind dropping $30), but it does have a few flaws. Namely, the prongs that go into the base ring pose a major pinching hazard since there's a bit of wiggle room and goodness it was painful. I was able to fix it with a zip tie so there was no movement. The cage is also very weighty and droops a bit since it's made of cheap metal. I threaded a shoelace through an opening and tied it around my waste to help with this.
If it weren't for those two things, and if it weren't a little too long for my cock, I would probably be pretty content with using it in a more traditional sense. On the plus side, it does come with 3 base rings which were nice to help determine what size worked for me. I also complained about the pinching in my amazon review and the company contacted me and offered a refund if I removed the review so it ended up being on the house ;).
I am using the FYJENNICC from Amazon in small and I love it so far, 7 hours in on day 1 with no issues. Will need a smaller cage eventually but i want to wait until i can go smaller in ring and get a metal one. I really dont want to leave it on for showering, is it ok to do it with this one?
Get a variation of the Holy Trainer which is the most comfortable. Here's a knockoff on Amazon that is $20. https://www.amazon.com/FYJENNICC-Lightweight-Premium-Chastity-Transparent/dp/B07QW2H7QC/ref=sr_1_3?dchild=1&qid=1588682717&refinements=p_36%3A1253518011&s=hpc&sr=1-3
I'm dealing with morning wood in my old cage on the left, new one on the right. It's got an ergonomic ring, which is more comfortable too.
These are both Ternence cages off Amazon. For those interested this is my original longer one (left) and this is my new smaller one (right).
I've only been in the new one for about 24 hours. I'm considering posting a full review of both, as I often get asked about the cages when I post. Would anyone be interested in that?
Measure around the base of your cock and balls, and your length, hard and soft, although for a good cage you need the soft measure more, you don't want room for any erection. You want a cage with a base ring within a few millimeters of the measurement around.
I got mine from Amazon for about $20, they have several brands on there, often inexpensive and some of the less pricey ones are far better than expensive brand cages. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01JWH6500/
We went with this steel version off Amazon. based off the recommendation from a Redditor in another post. We've been very happy with it so far. Easy to use, pretty easy to get on (def need a bit of lube most times), and K likes the look of metal.
I also picked out this one because of the cost. We're not broke, but we also didn't have hundreds of dollars to spend on something we might not like. Well, K really likes it now, so I'm investigating other devices for her to consider.
Good luck! Feel free to message me (either of you) with any questions!
Thanks dude, it’s utimi from Amazon pretty cheap for good quality UTIMI Cock Cage Male Chastity Device Locked Cage Sex Toy for Men,Key and Lock Included https://www.amazon.com/dp/B075MCMM6N/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_CiEoEbN967GAN
so, i have found this comfy resin one on Amazon, it comes in 5 different sizes, i went with the small because i have a standard-sized one from a similar mold. im considering picking up the nub, soon, honestly. but i've found it rather comfy for wearing at work under the jeans, and they include a little patch of sandpaper to smooth any seams that might bite ya. ive found it pretty comfy long term wear and easy to clean, i can even sleep in it pretty easily.
I used to have that one but found that the opening at the end was too big and the tip of my penis would rub against underwear which was super uncomfortable.
Just recently purchased this one: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07F7TFPN5/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o00_s01?ie=UTF8&th=1
Downside is you have to sit to pee and it can get messy. Also its pretty damn snug imo so that takes a little getting used to. But I absolutely love it.
I plan to move to a cherrykeeper next so if your budget allows, maybe consider that. That has the best of both worlds
Thanks it's actually a pretty cheap cage but at the same time good quality. I've had it for around a year and its def my favorite one I've bought. Here's the link if you're interested.
Utimi Cock Cage Male Chastity Device Locked Cage Sex Toy for Men
Assuming you're in a holy trainer or cb6000 style cage, I'd suggest using a qtip to gently push any excess foreskin. If you want a different cage, I'd suggest one of these styles, it'll keep skin from rubbing against your underwear so much.
Happygo Super Small Male Chastity Device, Stealth Convenient Lock Cock Cage, Penis Ring, Hypoallergenic Stainless Steel Chastity Belt, Virginity Lock, Adult Game Sex Toy (1.77 inch/ 4.5cm) https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B01JWH6500/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_IzyCCbD35R9XS
TERNENCE Medical Grade Stainless Steel Chastity Device Male Comfortable Cock Cage SM Penis Exercise Sex Toys (1.77 inch / 45mm) https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B07DWRWR44/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_xFyCCbCXZ9WM6
I have both, and you can just take the urethal tube off the second one.
Awesome you’re giving away the cage! I don’t need one as I’m ordering my own let me know how it fits if you do all day. I’m currently looking at this one https://www.amazon.com/Utimi-Cock-Chastity-Device-Locked/dp/B075MCMM6N/ref=zg_bs_1243841011_1?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=JJ2BWH9RY05TC3EFS2CV
But I’m afraid of the reviews of the weight for wearing all day.
Those are all way too big for you, and me. You really want one that is just a bit longer than you when completely relaxed. I'm fairly similarly sized and this is what I use that is pretty comfortable. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01JWH655U/ref=oh_aui_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&th=1
Anything longer and you will get partially hard, which hurts much more than not being able to get hard at all. Are you looking for something to wear all the time? Just to try for a day or two? I've worn mine for as long as a week with no issues, even went to the gym and running with it on.
Two ways to measure for ring size:
1) take some string, fabric, or something flexible and wrap around the base of your shaft and balls. Measure that with a ruler or measuring tape.
2) flexible fabric tape
Most rings are measured in diameter. So take that measurement you took around yourself, put it in a calculator, and divide by 3.14. That will give you the diameter of the ring you need. In general, if you can't find a ring the same size, go for the closest ring that is smaller than what you measured.
As for cage size, measure how long you are when flaccid, wait like 30 minutes, do it again, and repeat until you have like 3 or 5 measurements, so you can get an idea of the average. Then subtract like 1/4", and look for a cage with that length.
As a guess, you're probably looking for something like this.
Edit: or this
I just got this one in the mail yesterday.
it's cheap, but shockingly comfortable and secure.
I can't wait to get a PA lock later on, to add to the security.
Explain the slipping issues a bit more please.
The ring is slipping from behind your balls/ away from the base of your body?
Or you cock is literally slipping out of this device?
I typically use this cage
I own 5 cages
I like this the best
Utimi Cock Cage Male Chastity Device... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B075MCMM6N?ref=yo_pop_ma_swf
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B074MFRFJS/ref=twister_B074MFMZSH?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1 It is just like this on except there was a choice between the short and long version I got the short since I dont have a big clitty and it fits my girly little thing perfect. Came with 4 different rings too.
There are some stainless steel ones on Amazon as well. It's more of a cage than a solid tube, so it's easier to clean yourself. Make sure you get the right size.
For 30 pounds, you’re not going to get much, much less adjustable. I don’t know if it’s available in your area, or if you can find something similar, but if I recall, this cage is in your price range. It’s just okay, but should give you a good idea of if it’s something you’d like to continue. When you’re ready to spend more, I highly recommend the KHDx3.
Happygo Super Small Male Chastity Device, Stealth Convenient Lock Cock Cage, Penis Ring, Hypoallergenic Stainless Steel Chastity Belt, Virginity Lock, https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01JWH6500/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apap_QjrzCSLQ6cmN3
Some similar ones below it in related items
This is closest, but probably still too small for you. I'd really recommend a Holy Trainer v2 (regular or small) or a CB6000s, the latter is very adjustable. If you like it, you can go with a custom metal device in the future.
This is the cage I'm in. I'm not even on HRT yet and flaccid I'm less than an inch usually. This little metal cage with the 4.0cm ring is the only cage I've found that I can't slip out of. It's not that cute compared to the pink plastic ones out there, but it's the only cage I can wear. Super comfortable during long term wear as well. Most of the time I forget it's on. I've gone weeks straight with this little baby.
I got it on Amazon.
It was my first. I don't recommend it, because the base rings are solid. I have this one coming in the mail next week.
The ring has a hinge on the bottom of it that allows for a more snug fit. It's supposed to get here next Thursday. I'll let you know how it works.
I almost fill it if its sitting at the base of my shaft. It just slides a bit. And I can fit a finger in top side but not below my testes. I can fit my thumb in up top actually. So I'm hoping I'm its not a risk of blood flow being cut off. I'm probably going to keep this one on till atleast this weekend when I meet up with my top. He's interested in being my keyholder too so that should be fun.
Is daily cleaning going to be an issue? Or rust? Its a metal cage, specifically this one.
Edit: and thank you for the input! That's also what I'm going to be saying this weekend to my top.
The cage in the picture is this one also available here
I had one and it is ok. It is nothing compared to a custom device such as an MM one but if your/his measurements are right (mine weren't) then it will do the job.
I would note though that it's also made from Iron so there have been lots of people saying it rusts badly. I never had a problem but everyone else who owned one seems to have had issues with it. Just check the Amazon page for picture proof.
it is a knock off on amazon. http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00B1Y5X1K?psc=1&redirect=true&ref_=oh_aui_detailpage_o04_s01
for the price, it is great. the craftmanship is not perfect, and does have little play, but much cheaper than the real thing:
the real one has the lock go through the two sections so that they don't spin around. the knock off has two extra little pins, that can pinch every once and a while.
someday, when i have more money i will get the nicely made one with no pinch points....