BEFORE YOU BUY! And lessons learned.
Flaccid is flaccid, I'm about 7.5" reg girth, but I'm a grower not a shower, so the standard is actually 2 sizes too be for me. I have to much room to grow, you want flaccid, to be honest I don't know if I had ever seen my dick completely flaccid before.
If you look a related products, rhe v4 is there as well. That's the newer ones I don't know what is better, but I would have prob gone v4 if I did it again.
THIS MOTHERFUCKER HAS FANGS!!! So, I don't know what moron put this thing together but when you slide the rings on, there is razor sharp plastic, YOU HAVE TO SAND THEM DOWN, YES, SAND THEM DOWN....the kit has a piece of sandpaper in it. It takes a minute and I would recommend, I didn't the first time, it wasn't great.
Start big and go smaller with the rings, I ended up in the big dawg, but my ball kept popping out, so I ended up swapping to the next size down (it comes with 4 sizes), well that was great for running in (did 6miles and 1500 vertical yesterday in the cage, no problem.
Glad to answer any other questions
FYJENNICC Lightweight Premium Chastity Device Medical Grade Resin Male Briefs V3 Transparent (Small) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07QW2H7QC/ref=cm_sw_r_u_apa_glt_fabc_57WT34QB72FT2AEHMZBR?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I'm an inch shorter and I went with the ht v3 (although now it's the v4) nano, which works well for me. Currently I'm in the cage at the below link, which is much smaller and more satisfying, but could take some getting used to if you want to wear it long term. With everything though always go with the smallest ring size you can comfortably fit first one ball through then the other. There's a strategy to it haha but idk if everyone does it the same way.
Well, I don't think something like a holy trainer would work, even if it does push back into the pubic area, I would probably go with the standard recommendation of MM (Mature Metal) or even one of those small amazon devices to start, https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01JWH655U/
Personally, I'm only a tad bit larger than you flaccid and I'm using a customchastity.com device with the smallest gap. I must admint, that wasn't smart. With that small of gap (7mm if I remember correctly) I get sores on the bottom of my shaft and am waiting for my 10mm? (I think) gap cage to come in, Hopefully that solves the problems, but I digress. I definitely think a close to custom device is the way to go for you. If you have the funds I recommend trying out one of the custom chastity ghosts. There are some users here that have used the for quite a while.
Paging u/flee_market and u/GilesEnglishCB !
Thanks for your reviews. The reviews on Amazon sucks.
But I did find this one https://www.amazon.com/Utimi-Cock-Chastity-Device-Locked/dp/B075MCMM6N/ref=pd_aw_vtph_121_bs_1/146-3038315-2783444?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B075MCMM6N&pd_rd_r=fa0709dd-8215-11e9-9c4a-ff62a9822dac&pd_rd_w=eWwvT&pd_rd_wg=YgXHn&pf_r...
I think it looks promising. My sub just put in the order so we shall see how good it is soon.
TERNENCE Metal Male Chasti-ty Device... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07F7TFPN5?ref=yo_pop_ma_swf
Not too expensive and I dont really need to take it off for cleaning. I originally got the 45mm ring but that was too big so I got the 40mm and it's perfect
It was one kinda like this. the only downside is sitting to pee (not a huge deal) and needing a water bottle to rinse (sometimes a bit problematic). A more open style worked better. It was definitely easier to pee in. You can also get them a little bit longer too.
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I have this cage from amazon and it accommodates much more girth than I expected...
Utimi Cock Cage Male Chastity Device Locked Cage Sex Toy for Men https://www.amazon.com/dp/B075MCMM6N/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_3yI0Ab1YQVTGH
It's a very inexpensive steel device I bought on Amazon, I think I paid about $26 for it? That said, it's far more comfortable for long-term wear than any expensive name brand device I've tried. I'll edit this reply with the link to it in just a bit.
Edit: this one. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07DVKFF7L?ref=yo_pop_ma_swf
The $20 ones from China (I got most ne off Amazon, search for "ternence") are a good way to go smaller and also do it cheaply until you figure out what you want to do long term. I'm about a month (last 5 days continously 24/7 except for a quick shower cleaning) into one of them and it's pretty comfortable once you put some kind of strap/string/band through the ring and around your waist to keep it snug. Being able to get hard in one of these actually hurts because my fat grower will pull like the dickens (harrr) on my balls and then it's painful. Better to just keep it snug and no erection possible.
Measure well (lockthecock.com has a great how-to).
I've had several, but this one was actually a cheaper one from Amazon.
TERNENCE Stainless Steel Small Male Chastity Device Ergonomic Design Stealth Lock for Adults Solitary Extreme Confinement Cage S045 (1.77 inch / 45mm) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07GLP4PFM/
I was worried the 45mm was going to be too snug, but it's PERFECT. Still working on a name, but using Wavy for now based on the nice accent curves on the cage. If a tsunami is a giant wave, what's a word for a small one? Maybe "Ripple" instead? 🤣
This is basically what i wear now. Very open and easy to keep clean.
wear one of these things: https://www.amazon.com/UleadeTM-Steel-Chastity-Device-Locked/dp/B01I155M94/ref=sr\_1\_6?crid=1GA4BUTAU5BEQ&keywords=penis+cage&qid=1668286997&sprefix=penis+cage%2Caps%2C106&sr=8-6
I got this one
I got it out of curiosity. I’ve seen a lot of people say it makes your prostate orgasm more intense so I wanted to try it and see.
Good girl…. what did you order?
my last inebriation chastity purchase was this and I couldn’t be happier … I’m hoping it will allow me to FINALLY complete “Loctober “ https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01JWH655U
Other commenters gave good suggestions.
I would recommend considering a cheap metal cage from Amazon. This one is reasonably priced and decent quirky.
Also, on the subject of “He has an average cock (and it should stay this way)”, shrinkage is a myth. Being locked in chastity for extended periods of time does not cause a penis to shrink.
You can find them for relatively cheap honestly, this one is only $25
what should we do to figure out the perfect sizing? Measure frequently and accurately! Also try to find a cage that comes with several ring sizes. I had more probs with my rinf than the cage.
One of my first cages was this Birdcage knockoff, looks good, comfortable and lightweight but bulky.
I've heard good things about lockthecock.com . They've got a Cobra knock off that's $50.
I'd try as many cheap cages as possible before you spend big bucks. If you decided you want to pursue chastity long term I'm a Kink3d man. Very frustrating, turns my horny meter up to a 10 every time I'm locked.
And go slow when you start out. Be nice to your dick. He might not inderstand why he's caged. Give him time to adjust!
would you like metal or plastic?
i had fun with this cage. it is light. real stainless steel so no rust. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01JWH6500/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o01_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
here's a link for a little pink cage for you
I've had the below cage for over a year now. I get about 6.5 inches and even though this is a small cage, it works great. It's super easy to keep clean for long periods of time; my wife has kept me locked for 4 weeks at a time, currently at 21 days. Also, I find that sleeping is quite easy in this one, where erections are not painful at all. Some think that this is part of the kink, but after a while, I wanted something that I could wear and forget about. I highly recommend.
Also, after some time, I ordered the 40 mm ring, but this was too small and caused a lot of discomfort.
TERNENCE Stainless Steel Small Male Chastity Device Ergonomic Design Stealth Lock for Adults Solitary Extreme Confinement Cage S045 (1.77 inch / 45mm)
Wow! You are huge. Mine is the TERNENCE Metal Male Chastity Device Small 304 Steel Stainless Comfortable Cock Cage (1.77 inch / 45mm).
I find this is a good starter one I was able to wear it reasonably comfortablly for a week straight.
FYJENNICC New Upgrade Key Lightweight Premium Resin Chastity Device Male Briefs with Discreet Packing (Pink) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B074MFRFJS/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_9T1QQE2MX2W88CB6N5G9?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I absolutely love this cage on my sub, but it does complicate the peeing situation. It's terrible searching for cages on Amazon but if you start with a link and then click around the "people also bought" or related products section you can find more cages for cheap while you figure out sizing.
Get this one
this is the one I found, but I’m not sure if it will be worth it
So, the only way to make a chastity cage truly 100% escape proof for most people is full belt systems (like the offerings from Fancy Steel or Latowski for 2 well known manufacturers) or to get a piercing and secure the cage through the piercing (with something like the cages made by rigid chastity or even a non-ring device like made by Lori's or evotion). Many cages can also be used with a lock or ring through the bars with a piercing as well (the kink3d cobra is one I have done this with).
But I'd say most chastity users don't really want or need that level of security, it's reserved for weirdos like me. It looks like the ones you have tried have all been open style cages with pretty big gaps between cage and base ring. Might I suggest trying something with a smaller gap and more rigid support of the cage and see if that works? Don't take this as an endorsement of any seller or specific cage, it's just illustrative, but something like this maybe:
Unfortunately we are all sized and shaped a little different so there's definitely some trial and error to this thing.
One blog that helped us get my cage dialed in right was "denyingthumper". He talks a lot about fit in his reviews of various mostly higher end devices, as well as the journey he and his wife went on to figure out what worked and what didn't.
Hope some of this helps!
Like this one? https://www.amazon.com/Lightweight-Chastity-Male-Briefs-Discreet/dp/B074MFRFJS/ref=pd\_sbs\_2/134-4718384-0959845?pd\_rd\_w=Tfqy0&pf\_rd\_p=3676f086-9496-4fd7-8490-77cf7f43f846&pf\_rd\_r=R5TP7DCDT7S3TRYXBV00&pd\_rd\_r=6136bff3-3f38-494...
The two that intrigue me are 1. https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B08HXWZ6KY/ref=ox_sc_act_image_1?smid=A17Z6O1MQSO1C9&psc=1 2. https://www.amazon.com/Lightweight-Premium-Chastity-Male-Briefs/dp/B074MFRFJS/ref=zg_bs_1243841011_5/131-2512815-3256446?pd_rd_i=B082WWWYLJ&psc=1&th=1
As for size, I’m 6 inches, average girth.
It occurs to me now I probably should have asked around about good beginner cages before buying. Whoops.
Or something like this
It's a device made of metal or plastic that holds the penis and prevents it from getting hard.
It's prime use is to stop getting boners and in the long term it can be used for Dom/Sub play.
Uleade Male Chastity Device Cock Cage Steel Metal Silver Locked Cage Sex Toy for Men (3 Rings), Lock and 2 Keys Included https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01I155M94/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_DB1ATMDJWKEP116HXZB9?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
UTIMI Cock Cage Male Chastity Device Locked Cage Sex Toy for Men,Key and Lock Included https://www.amazon.com/dp/B075MCMM6N/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apan_glt_fabc_62EBHP3FE654PEYACK0G?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I'm trying on the largest ring.
I managed to fit both balls and cock after wrapping myself in blankets until I got really warm and loose. I managed to lock myself in but it feels like my balls are being squeezed tightly. Could only take it for like 5 mins before I had to remove it all
your best shot is to start with cheapo ones from amazon because theres a ton of variety, and you might get lucky with one that fits super well! Eventually you may want to upgrade to a "higher quality" one but that depends on a lot of stuff like what material you like, what design you like etc. I recommend the Terrence cages on amazon for starters, make sure you check your measurements!
Yes! And thank you for your input! I have:
1) Holy Trainer Nano, with rings 45 and 40. Cage is a little too big all around, but comfortable for the most part, and I believe the 40 ring is best, but too tight at times; yet the 45 was comfortable but would swivel/rotate throughout the day & come away from the body easily. I could overall start to get too hard in it which lead to the most discomfort / chaffing.
2) in an effort to size for my inevitable Cobra I recently got 2 cheap Amazon ones:
2a) HappyGo 1.77/4.5cm
2b) HappyGo 1.57/4.0cm
Both are a little heavy but the rings are comfortable. Cages need a touch of work but length is comfortable, if sometimes too short. There is a little under balls pinching but I think the curved rings of the Cobra would solve that.
Both can be found here
It's some cheap one from Amazon. I wanted to try a smaller one without spending tons of money. Turned out to be the most comfortable one I own. https://www.amazon.com/TERNENCE-Chastity-Device-Stainless-Comfortable/dp/B07F7TFPN5?ref_=ast_sto_dp&th=1&psc=1
I think something like this is probably OK. I have no personal experience with this device, but if I were buying a cheap cage I would try this seller. Make sure to choose the correct size. It took me multiple tries to get it right.
I got the "Happygo Super Small Male Chastity Device" from Amazon. I bought the 1.77/4.5cm ring too but that one falls off :/
I wear this forever how many days my mistress tells me. I'm uncut as well. Hold back the skin and insert just the head. Be very careful not to pinch anything, it's easy to do, take your time. There are times that I forget that I am wearing it.
I think they're called birdcages or something similar but cages like these I've brought in the past on amazon and they're alright. They're comfortable to wear but they do create a bit of a bulge however and are somewhat heavy, and you can easily get out of them the cheaty way but that's true for most chastity cages.
There are cheap knockoff versions of the HolyTrainer V3 and the CB600 on amazon that are sold under a generic name, did get myself such knockoffs in the past but they're not amazing. The CB600 knockoff was my first ever chastity cage, clear plastic white, not very comfortable for extended wear but for the short term it was fine. The HolyTrainer V3 knockoff I actually brought a couple months ago and honestly it's rather shit, sharp edges and the lock can't even be inserted into the cage most of the time due to the cage's cheap design :/
Currently shopping for a more comfortable better fitting cage. This one is super hard to get on even when fully soft and with lube. Not sure if it’s normal to have to try and force it on and push my skin into it with a chip stick to get the tip all the way to the end, then it’s very hard to fully engage the cage with out pulling the base ring further from my pubic mound making me think it’s too short?
This is the cage, currently using the middle ring which is also a bit hard to get on in the first place but I can fit a finger under it
UTIMI Cock Cage Male Chastity Device Locked Cage Sex Toy for Men,Key and Lock Included https://www.amazon.com/dp/B075MCMM6N/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apip_9hfkvDFJe6y9B
The thing comes with 4 rings and frankly, even the biggest one doesn't leave me enough room to put the cage part on.
Most of the Amazon options are garbage, but a few are ok… utimi clear is probably the best there, though I am partial to metal like this ternence cage
This is one I found to be super comfortable but I got a shorter one now... https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07GLP4PFM/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o03_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
I got this one on Friday...it’s been a game changer for me. I’ve been locked since Friday and absolutely no issues with swelling and I too have foreskin.
I’m bit new to chastity so mine is not a super small one. Here is link of the one I bought from Amazon
Excellent cage for the price, comes with 3 rings. The cage itself is on the longer side...so it may not be what you looking for. https://www.amazon.com/Utimi-Cock-Chastity-Device-Locked/dp/B075MCMM6N/ref=zg_bs_1243841011_2?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=DNA25HM5THJW8SKATV11
I’m not expert: but..I got this one to be locked n ride plug
That's the one I have. I had gotten it before I met my gf just for myself and didn't experience any problems, but admittedly I didn't wear it that much.
Here is what I wear for a metal cage, I'm almost exactly the same size as you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01JWH655U/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1
But honestly I don't wear that one often at all. When I'm in a cage now it's almost always in my Holy Trainer V3 Nub knockoff. I'm going to be buying a V4 knockoff this week.
Vu les avis il n'y a pas besoin de le hacker pour qu'on ne puisse pas le débloquer, donc ça ne change pas grand chose
That's sounds like a crappily designed or bent cage. My hunch is manufacturers knowingly ship defective cages knowing you won't bother returning a defective $30 cage because it might require explaining things to another person (embarrassment).
I've had some luck with the TERNENCE Chastity Cages from Amazon:
FYJENNICC Lightweight Premium Chastity Device Medical Grade Resin Male Briefs V3 Transparent (Small) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07QW2H7QC/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_fabc_5huVFbP225ZVX?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
It is the Terence Cage from Amazon. I saw it recommended on a different thread and seemed like a good fit to try out before looking into any of the more custom/expensive cages.
I measured and still got it wrong the first time. I bought the Ternence cage from amazon. If you get the middle size and get it wrong, it’s just $13 more to go up or down a size.
I initially got the smaller cage and quickly figured out that doesn’t work well for 7”. I upgraded to the longer cage, but it’s still not quite long enough.
I do plan to upgrade and am leaning toward the cage from u/kink3d, but it’s mighty expensive to get it wrong if you get an expensive cage to start.
I’m curious, I have the metal Terence cage (here). I personally like the weight of it. My only problem is that the tip of my dick sticks through and gets rubbed raw by my pants. It’s really sensitive anyway, so it doesn’t take much. My glans are also a target for rubbing. It’s so bad I really can’t even function or walk straight at times.
I’m curious if this kink3d cage might solve that, or if I’m just in too small of a cage. I’m 7” / 1.5”
I got this one here lake flaccid amazon one is good 3 ring sizes
The one I bought on Amazon for 20 bucks is good for a big dick mine is around 5.5 in fully hard and the cage is around 4.7 in so it’s big when I’m soft but the cage doesn’t let me get fully hard which is nice until I can fit into a smaller cage. Amazon link
TERNENCE Stainless Steel Small Male Chastity Device Ergonomic Design Stealth Lock for Adults Solitary Extreme Confinement Cage (1.77 inch / 45mm) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07GLP4PFM/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_lLKpDbKVJM3ZK
Very comfortable, even with my size.
You can always do the stocking chastity method
Or get a cheap chastity device off eBay or amazon. This one's not too expensive and I use it all the time and its awesome if you're interested. Also pretty cheap too! Hope this helps!
I like the Holy Trainer V3. I got a knockoff from amazon for $20 to figure out my sizing and with plans to order a real one. Honestly this knockoff is pretty reasonable. I started with the Small and ordered a Nano to see which one is a better fit for me.
I got a Holy Trainer v3 clone from Amazon for $20 that I would recommend. I am a grower also and this cage has been great so far. It's a clone and has some rough edges, but it comes with sand paper to fix that and for the price it has impressed me so far.
I would recommend he have access to a key for a while.
I previously used a Holy Trainer V2 and it was too long. I was interested in the V2 so before I spent the money I wanted to figure out my sizing. I got a clone from Amazon and it has been a great fit for me so far. From what you describe it might be that he needs a shorter cage. My V2 was a standard length, on this clone I got the Small and it is defiantly better sized for me I have the next size down on it's way to me to try out. I had a testicle slip today and had to correct it, at least I was awake for it.
If he is indeed just too wide for the Holy Trainers though I would try another device.
This was the first one I used. Kept it till it started to rust somewhat. Just need to be careful about the prongs if you have a lot of excess skin.
I wear this one now, though it only comes with the one ring so you have to make sure it's sized right. And you can get a few accessories for it.
wow, looks like the tech is there to take this to the next level if you want to go in this direction!
I bought this about a year ago: https://www.amazon.com/Utimi-Cock-Chastity-Device-Locked/dp/B075MCMM6N/
It served its purpose of helping me see if chastity was something I'd be into, so I can at least offer it up as a potential option in that regard (if you don't mind dropping $30), but it does have a few flaws. Namely, the prongs that go into the base ring pose a major pinching hazard since there's a bit of wiggle room and goodness it was painful. I was able to fix it with a zip tie so there was no movement. The cage is also very weighty and droops a bit since it's made of cheap metal. I threaded a shoelace through an opening and tied it around my waste to help with this.
If it weren't for those two things, and if it weren't a little too long for my cock, I would probably be pretty content with using it in a more traditional sense. On the plus side, it does come with 3 base rings which were nice to help determine what size worked for me. I also complained about the pinching in my amazon review and the company contacted me and offered a refund if I removed the review so it ended up being on the house ;).
I am using the FYJENNICC from Amazon in small and I love it so far, 7 hours in on day 1 with no issues. Will need a smaller cage eventually but i want to wait until i can go smaller in ring and get a metal one. I really dont want to leave it on for showering, is it ok to do it with this one?
Get a variation of the Holy Trainer which is the most comfortable. Here's a knockoff on Amazon that is $20. https://www.amazon.com/FYJENNICC-Lightweight-Premium-Chastity-Transparent/dp/B07QW2H7QC/ref=sr_1_3?dchild=1&qid=1588682717&refinements=p_36%3A1253518011&s=hpc&sr=1-3
I'm dealing with morning wood in my old cage on the left, new one on the right. It's got an ergonomic ring, which is more comfortable too.
These are both Ternence cages off Amazon. For those interested this is my original longer one (left) and this is my new smaller one (right).
I've only been in the new one for about 24 hours. I'm considering posting a full review of both, as I often get asked about the cages when I post. Would anyone be interested in that?
Measure around the base of your cock and balls, and your length, hard and soft, although for a good cage you need the soft measure more, you don't want room for any erection. You want a cage with a base ring within a few millimeters of the measurement around.
I got mine from Amazon for about $20, they have several brands on there, often inexpensive and some of the less pricey ones are far better than expensive brand cages. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01JWH6500/
We went with this steel version off Amazon. based off the recommendation from a Redditor in another post. We've been very happy with it so far. Easy to use, pretty easy to get on (def need a bit of lube most times), and K likes the look of metal.
I also picked out this one because of the cost. We're not broke, but we also didn't have hundreds of dollars to spend on something we might not like. Well, K really likes it now, so I'm investigating other devices for her to consider.
Good luck! Feel free to message me (either of you) with any questions!
Thanks dude, it’s utimi from Amazon pretty cheap for good quality UTIMI Cock Cage Male Chastity Device Locked Cage Sex Toy for Men,Key and Lock Included https://www.amazon.com/dp/B075MCMM6N/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_CiEoEbN967GAN
so, i have found this comfy resin one on Amazon, it comes in 5 different sizes, i went with the small because i have a standard-sized one from a similar mold. im considering picking up the nub, soon, honestly. but i've found it rather comfy for wearing at work under the jeans, and they include a little patch of sandpaper to smooth any seams that might bite ya. ive found it pretty comfy long term wear and easy to clean, i can even sleep in it pretty easily.
It’s my second and favorite one so far. I got it on amazon to replace a heavier cheaper one. The product page is no longer available which is normal for this kind of thing but here’s a link to what looks like an identical one.
UleadeTM Steel Metal Male Chastity Device Locked Cage Sex Toy for Men (3 Rings) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01I155M94/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_rCPEDbS2FY44N
I haven't worn for a week or more.. but some of the more modest metal amazon ones are pretty good. The ones that don't use a padlock and have the insert-and-twist lock are very invisible. Getting the right ring diameter and shape is a big deal for comfort. amazon.com/TERNENCE-Stainless-Chastity-Ergonomic-Confinement/dp/B07GLP4PFM is pretty easy to pee with and doesn't show.
I used to have that one but found that the opening at the end was too big and the tip of my penis would rub against underwear which was super uncomfortable.
Just recently purchased this one: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07F7TFPN5/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o00_s01?ie=UTF8&th=1
Downside is you have to sit to pee and it can get messy. Also its pretty damn snug imo so that takes a little getting used to. But I absolutely love it.
I plan to move to a cherrykeeper next so if your budget allows, maybe consider that. That has the best of both worlds
Thanks it's actually a pretty cheap cage but at the same time good quality. I've had it for around a year and its def my favorite one I've bought. Here's the link if you're interested.
Utimi Cock Cage Male Chastity Device Locked Cage Sex Toy for Men
TERNENCE Stainless Steel Small Male Chastity Device Ergonomic Design Stealth Lock for Adults Solitary Extreme Confinement Cage (1.77 inch / 45mm) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07GLP4PFM/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_2sAeDbQ6VFAK2
Assuming you're in a holy trainer or cb6000 style cage, I'd suggest using a qtip to gently push any excess foreskin. If you want a different cage, I'd suggest one of these styles, it'll keep skin from rubbing against your underwear so much.
Happygo Super Small Male Chastity Device, Stealth Convenient Lock Cock Cage, Penis Ring, Hypoallergenic Stainless Steel Chastity Belt, Virginity Lock, Adult Game Sex Toy (1.77 inch/ 4.5cm) https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B01JWH6500/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_IzyCCbD35R9XS
TERNENCE Medical Grade Stainless Steel Chastity Device Male Comfortable Cock Cage SM Penis Exercise Sex Toys (1.77 inch / 45mm) https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B07DWRWR44/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_xFyCCbCXZ9WM6
I have both, and you can just take the urethal tube off the second one.
Awesome you’re giving away the cage! I don’t need one as I’m ordering my own let me know how it fits if you do all day. I’m currently looking at this one https://www.amazon.com/Utimi-Cock-Chastity-Device-Locked/dp/B075MCMM6N/ref=zg_bs_1243841011_1?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=JJ2BWH9RY05TC3EFS2CV
But I’m afraid of the reviews of the weight for wearing all day.
Those are all way too big for you, and me. You really want one that is just a bit longer than you when completely relaxed. I'm fairly similarly sized and this is what I use that is pretty comfortable. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01JWH655U/ref=oh_aui_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&th=1
Anything longer and you will get partially hard, which hurts much more than not being able to get hard at all. Are you looking for something to wear all the time? Just to try for a day or two? I've worn mine for as long as a week with no issues, even went to the gym and running with it on.
Two ways to measure for ring size:
1) take some string, fabric, or something flexible and wrap around the base of your shaft and balls. Measure that with a ruler or measuring tape.
2) flexible fabric tape
Most rings are measured in diameter. So take that measurement you took around yourself, put it in a calculator, and divide by 3.14. That will give you the diameter of the ring you need. In general, if you can't find a ring the same size, go for the closest ring that is smaller than what you measured.
As for cage size, measure how long you are when flaccid, wait like 30 minutes, do it again, and repeat until you have like 3 or 5 measurements, so you can get an idea of the average. Then subtract like 1/4", and look for a cage with that length.
As a guess, you're probably looking for something like this.
Edit: or this
I just got this one in the mail yesterday.
it's cheap, but shockingly comfortable and secure.
I can't wait to get a PA lock later on, to add to the security.
Explain the slipping issues a bit more please.
The ring is slipping from behind your balls/ away from the base of your body?
Or you cock is literally slipping out of this device?
I typically use this cage
I own 5 cages
I like this the best
Utimi Cock Cage Male Chastity Device... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B075MCMM6N?ref=yo_pop_ma_swf
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B074MFRFJS/ref=twister_B074MFMZSH?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1 It is just like this on except there was a choice between the short and long version I got the short since I dont have a big clitty and it fits my girly little thing perfect. Came with 4 different rings too.
The Curve is definitely a better option, but I'd suggest trying this metal one. It's cheap at $19.99, has dimensions similar to the curve and is a little easier to get into since the metal isn't as "grippy" as plastic. (But you'll want to change the lock as the corners are to sharp.): https://www.amazon.com/UleadeTM-Steel-Chastity-Device-Locked/dp/B01I155M94/ref=sr_1_1?m=AS3ONNPQIORFU&s=merchant-items&ie=UTF8&qid=1520756125&sr=1-1&keywords=chastity&th=1
I have 2 cages. bought them both on amazon. My 1st one, the cage was longer. amazon I not quite the right fit. then I got this one amazon fit much more snug. now I am not a pro at all am just having some fun. really look around, try and get some measurements of yourself. The base ring is important too. have fun!
There are some stainless steel ones on Amazon as well. It's more of a cage than a solid tube, so it's easier to clean yourself. Make sure you get the right size.
Something like this will do you fine.
They're generically sized cages and they're about 100x36mm. The selection of base rings is handy as well. Very comfy cage.
I'm about 7 inches hard, and I fill this cage here comfortably. It's not actually stainless steel and the bars are thin, so it won't work well if you plan on wearing it for long, but it'd probably be an improvement over your current device.
I've never tried it, so I can't speak for the quality, but here's another even larger one that should be comfortable if you still have to squeeze into it.
Oh yeah, it's crazy how much you can spend. To be clear, I don't recommend either of the authentic ones for someones first device unless they really want to spend that much on something that might not fit.
The knockoff ones you linked are actually alright- I'd go with the "The Keep" one because it'll be more comfortable, durable, and discreet underneath clothing (and because it won't split down the seam like the other kind is prone to doing).
Or, if you want something metal, this device is a good litmus test because the tube is big enough to fit almost anybody, and it comes with multiple rings (so one will probably fit you well). It's not made of actual stainless steel, however, so it won't last as long as most (even cheap) metal devices will.
Happygo Super Small Male Chastity Device, Stealth Convenient Lock Cock Cage, Penis Ring, Hypoallergenic Stainless Steel Chastity Belt, Virginity Lock, https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01JWH6500/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apap_QjrzCSLQ6cmN3
Some similar ones below it in related items
This is closest, but probably still too small for you. I'd really recommend a Holy Trainer v2 (regular or small) or a CB6000s, the latter is very adjustable. If you like it, you can go with a custom metal device in the future.
This is the cage I'm in. I'm not even on HRT yet and flaccid I'm less than an inch usually. This little metal cage with the 4.0cm ring is the only cage I've found that I can't slip out of. It's not that cute compared to the pink plastic ones out there, but it's the only cage I can wear. Super comfortable during long term wear as well. Most of the time I forget it's on. I've gone weeks straight with this little baby.