This is a really wide open question. There are theories, but no one has any truly strong evidence. Steven Pinker is an evolutionary psychologist and linguist, and wrote an excellent book on the subject. It goes into several of the more common theories, and then lays out his own theory. Much of the book may be fairly dry if you don't have a real interest in language itself (how language works, as opposed to how it evolved), but I found it very worthwhile and fascinating.
not for real though, if you don't want to talk to someone then I fully support not talking to them
> I'm still not entirely decided what are all its rules and limitations.
This workbook on creating limitations for magic systems might help you.
Restrictions May Apply: Building Limits for Your Magic System
Clark's already written a book that could help you, u/Ammotrix, - Restrictions May Apply: Building Limits for Your Magic System - and he's working on another, The magic System Blueprint.
Prenatal hormones are very important in brain development and might be part of the communication differences.
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Your emotional shift sounds very much like the result of testosterone. The term ‘roid rage came about because even men get more angry and aggressive on steroids.
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I was part of a group that did a two day course on interpersonal communication. I thought it was going to be a total waste of time. It was one of the best things I’ve ever done. Ridge was the company that conducted the training and it was based on the book People Skills by Robert Bolton. Bolton was a founder of Ridge. 10/10 would recommend the book and/or course.
Learn how to communicate effectively. Life will be a lot less stressful once you learn how to effectively communicate with the people in your life.
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There are also quite a few others of the same caliber that get even more specific for non-fiction or particular genres. Let me know if you want any help evaluating others. The issue with books like Millionaire Fast Lane is translating the generic business topics and themes from them apply differently (or not at all) to books.
Recommended reading: Restrictions May Apply: Building Limits for Your Magic System and The Magic System Blueprint by Magic Engineer u/CRRowenson
> I also have a distaste for "Help me create limitations for my magic system" because they've heard a misquoted version of Brando Sando saying "Magic systems are better if you artificially enforce arbitrary limits on top of an existing structure".
Most of the time, I deal with such posts by ignoring them or mentioning Restrictions May Apply: Building Limits for Your Magic System.
> I have some autistic-like personality traits and I get a lot of stress when I don’t know how to broach conversation with a customer
Think about it this way, there isn't any need to stress if you pretend you aren't serving them at the bar. What would you say to someone you just met?
As starters:
Remember that most of the talkers at the bar just come to have someone LISTEN. As a bartender you only have to encourage them to start talking, then give feedback and questions until they get going. If at ANY time you aren't comfortable or need to stop use the, "check on an item in the back," or, "I'll be back I need to take care of those customers."
If you want better tips or how-tos, a good starter book is:
Conversationally Speaking - like an introduction into small talk
OR
How To Speak, How To Listen - a deeper and more in-depth book on small talk
This workbook on creating limitations for magic systems could help you harden radiance.
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Off the top of my head, be careful about doing other people's work for them. There is a tendency for women to support their male colleagues in ways that benefit the team but don't count towards their personal performance indicators, while men tend to focus on their their own role. The woman who is an equal but gets dumped with getting the coffee is the stereotype, which is recognisable enough to avoid. The less obvious things will be when you are expected to be in charge of moral boosting activities like organising get well cards, farewell parties, and other activities which are not part of your job description. This isn't necessarily conscious sexism but women tend to agree to this things more, so they get a reputation for it. And while this extra value added is appreciated generally, it isn't considered when assessing somebody for a raise. If it isn't in your job description, it isn't your priority.
When a co-worker tells you how stressed and busy they are with a task, instead of offering them a friendly ear to whine to, tell them how much more stressed and busy you are or lightheartedly joke about their time management skills and how they might need to come in on the weekend to catch up. Unless you are being paid as the workplace counselor, you don't need to encourage people to come and complain to you about their day.
This is an area I've been generally interested in for awhile, so plenty more tips where that came from. I'd say the best book I've read on the topic is by Deborah Tannen. She explains a lot of the intricacies of gendered discourse and she's one of the most respected academics on the topic. I also recommend Captivate by Vanessa Van Edwards.
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