> I haven't really experimented enough with clothes or pronouns, still have to try out being referred to as "she" or "her" etc.
On the sub TransTryouts it is possible to try out names and pronouns. And many people use a female name online, and try out female avatars in games etc.
And many start with clothes for wonen in neutral styles, like shirts and trousers. They ma ybe available in second hand places or online. Others usually don't notice and they are much softer than those for guys. Concentrating on it from time to time could make for a feeling of happiness.
And a number of people use boy shorts for women. Here may be an example. They may look close enough to those for guys and they are also much softer.
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Well apart from binders looking into some kind of tucking for MTF people may also be an option. There are a number of people who sell gaffs on etsy, there is a company called leolines, etc.
Imo what is missing is some kind of in between ... there are gaffs that give a tight tuck which can be unformfortable and some make for a bulge. Having something that is suitable for everyday use and that is similar to boy shorts for women ( here may be an example ) but also have a padded part included may be a solution for some people.
This is a diy version. Using something like boy shorts with a padding like bras may be an idea. It may also be an idea to make some lacey things this way, with some kind of boy short fabrics underneath that give some tucking and a solid construction and a lacy see through part above for a nice look.
Concerning tucking and also binding the colour can also play a big role. Dark colours of clothing make a surface look much smaller and more even.
And having some swimwear with a bit of built in tucking may also be an idea.
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And here is a link for a similar skirt at Amazon: Balera Dance Brief Ultra Sparkle with Attached Back Panel High-Low Skirt Black Child Large https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01MY32EA0/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_bIJHDbMMX1P8Q
Try searching words like “balera” or “back panel skirt” or “dance brief with attached skirt”
> I don't understand what you're talking about here,
Here is an example. Boy shorts are available in different leg lengths too, going almost down to the knee for example.