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They brought it back, but I feel your pain.
Edit: all I know is that I went on after I got the news late as usual, and they had seemingly masked all the vids, pics, dicks 'n' chicks with NSFW overlays.
Also, y'all should read this. I haven't, but it's a step in the right direction judging by some of your pm's.
Order this and read it at least 3 times. This book will change your life. I have personally seen the benefits in my life.
He also wrote a book for how to pleasure men if anyone (like the OP u/hermionebleth) is wondering "Passionista: Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man (Kerner)"
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0060834390/ref=cm_sw_r_sm_apa_i_daHMFb8VN37TF
Here a link to the book on Amazon.
Thanks for sharing!
Check out The Penis Book
There is an excellent book called Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure which covers all things involved in pegging. It is an excellent source for info (as well as other fun things to try).
Happy second experience :-)
Yes.
Porn takes your neural circuitry that usually lights up with sex, and burns it out. That’s the long and short of it. Check out “supernormal stimulus.”
Also, this book helped me a TON. It’s got a lot of science in it.
Personally? No. I had an ex husband like this and he cheated on every one after me as well. It’s not really about you as much as it is about him. Most people who do this would do it to anyone.
Sex addiction uses the same neural pathways in the brain as drugs to chase that new relationship “high” he will always be seeking that feeling and there is a 0% chance you can continue to be his “drug” so to speak.
No matter how amazing, sexy and beautiful you are as a person you can’t be new for 50+ years. That’s why some of the most beautiful people still get cheated on.
Partners with healthy relationships and boundaries understand this and work together to overcome the issues that come up when the newness fades.
I was sexually abused and that has ZERO to do with his ability to be faithful.
It would be a BS excuse if he ever uses that as a reason and as someone who was also assaulted at a young age I would call him out on that as a shameful POS to say that’s the reason.
This book is really great for understanding how this cycle is working for him. Your Brain on Porn: Internet Pornography and the Emerging Science of Addiction https://www.amazon.com/dp/099316160X/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_ypXkFbK063VN4
Is it this?
Pode ser que com a diminuição na frequência de ereções os "tubos" que se enchem de sangue percam parte da elasticidade. Problemas de circulação e sedentarismo podem contribuir pra isso também, especialmente conforme a idade avança. Aumento de peso e gordura localizada na virilha também aumentam essa impressão do pau encolher.
Se isso começar a te incomodar, vale uma consulta no urologista.
Fonte: li no The Penis Book.
He also wrote a book about manhood and bettering yourself which to the Left practically makes him Hitler.
There are detailed answers on this but, fundamentally, our brains are quite different structurally and hormonally, it impacts how we see the world and these differences are then exacerbated culturally (similar to how we all inherently have cravings for like, fast food, for biological reasons that are no longer applicable like food scarcity, but those ancient cravings will be honed in on and triggered, which has created a very successful industry).
For a variety of reasons- many of them biological- men were initially able to take a position of social dominance, and that certainly hasn’t helped relations/mutual understanding, due to the end result of exploitation of the non-dominant class.
If you really want to dive into the brain science underpinnings of fundamental differences, I highly recommend The Male Brain and The Female Brain both by neuropsychiatrist Louann Brizendine. They are pretty easy reads with concrete examples.
Background for anyone who doesn't know or remember: I found out a month ago I have E.D.
Still taking vitamins but not feeling any difference. Doctor's appointment on Thursday and I'll discuss it with him then and see what he says. In the meantime I bought The Penis Book, written by a urologist. Interesting stuff about how it works (both how it's supposed to and when it doesn't), what can be done, etc. Reminds me that I have to make a modification to my vitamin regimen.
I got some positive feedback from fellow Redditors here the last times I've mentioned this, and want to publicly say thank you and I very much appreciate the encouragement and support.
How to Overcome Premature Ejaculation
The exercises in this book I’ve used since I read it in the late 90s.
Stopped my PE no problem. Was able to control when I ejaculated by the time I was 21.
40 now, still have control.
The book is excellent.
Yes! The penile artery is narrower than others in the body, so ED is often an early sign of atherosclerosis. Same things that clog your heart clog your dick :)
Try this:
https://www.amazon.com/Passionista-Empowered-Womans-Pleasuring-Kerner/dp/0060834390/
I'd be curious to know how it turns out.
Communication is important. Ask them what they like.
Also, try reading this:
https://www.amazon.com/Passionista-Empowered-Womans-Pleasuring-Kerner/dp/0060834390/
The guy who wrote the Bible on cunnilingus (She Comes First) also wrote this: https://www.amazon.com/Passionista-Empowered-Womans-Pleasuring-Kerner/dp/0060834390
I highly recommend reading it on your Kindle or computer or whatever. Seems like a stupid book couldn't help you but if I could I'd bet you money that it will be useful to you!
Give this a shot and report back, please. I'm still waiting for my turn, so I can't comment on the effectiveness of the techniques.
https://www.amazon.com/Passionista-Empowered-Womans-Pleasuring-Kerner/dp/0060834390
Read books: https://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Guide-Anal-Sex-Men/dp/157344121X
Check out an adult toy store online, like Good Vibrations or Adam and Even, and look for small butt plugs and lube. Always get one that has a decently sized flared base (to prevent it slipping fully into the anus).
Sorry.
Does she enjoy receiving oral? If so, I mean, fair's fair. Maybe try talking to her about it to see if she'd be interested in trying something new, to spice things up. Maybe even buy her a book, to help boost her confidence?
https://www.amazon.com/Passionista-Empowered-Womans-Pleasuring-Kerner/dp/0060834390
I caught my nephew looking at the same thing. It’s inevitable.
But, it’s not just the issue of portraying women badly. It messes with their head. Anyone’s really, but much more younger people.
I recommend reading a book called, “Your brain on Porn”
Basically, it creates issues ranging from, ED with a real woman, depression,ADHD, this is much more prevalent in younger people too and takes longer to fix in someone that grew up watching porn. Highly recommend for parents.
Secondly, I’m not sure the age of your son. But, I recommend NextDNS. I used that to block as much as possible. Obviously even they are of age they can do whatever. But, I caught my nephew looking when he was 13. He’s 15 now, and he still finds stuff. But it’s way less because I can see the websites he goes to on next DNS. In two years he’s only found 1 porn site that wasn’t on the block list.
As I've been constantly beating the drum when guys have questions about making a woman cum and telling them to read She Comes First, I will recommend the flip side by the same person who wrote Passionista. Also going to YouPorn or other sites and watching bj tutorial videos
https://www.amazon.com/Passionista-Empowered-Womans-Pleasuring-Kerner/dp/0060834390
I'm sorry for the whole situation, but I want to offer a recommendation for "Your Brain on Porn" by Gary Wilson to you. It's a secular look at the dangers of porn and the neuroscience involved. Although I don't think this situation is ideal, I think porn is a lot more dangerous and harmful than most people realize. I'm speaking from a place of experience and sympathy here. I'm not here to accuse you, but to warn you that these things can be more harmful than is obvious.
Check out the Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men.
It covers everything :-)
Also do some research on what kind of harness you feel may be the most comfortable for you (don't overlook points that rub on you).
Your thoughtful reply sounds as if he is in very good hands! Gently digging into what need he is filling will get easier as you dip into playing.
Please reach out if you need anything or can't find info on something. Also if you're going to head into anal &/or prostate play this is THE book to read.
I am right there with you. I am introverted and I def like keeping my energy in check. It sounds like you may need to find another purpose besides working and building your body. Have you read this book? https://www.amazon.com/Your-Brain-Porn-Pornography-Addiction/dp/099316160X/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=Your+Brain+on+Porn%3A+Internet+Pornography+and+the+Emerging+Science+of+Addiction&qid=1631545195&sr=8-1
The times where I feel the urge I try to meditate and go inside.
Check out The Penis Book by Aaron Spitz MD.
If you're worried about prostate health you might want to consider learning how to clear your prostate (all men should as it is so good for overall sexual health). Also an orgasm that is generated from the prostate is insanely pleasurably from what I have witnessed and help facilitate ;-)
Plus it may give you another realm of orgasm control/denial to play in. As for "not most people's thing" comment - oh you would be shocked at how many men are into it.
I appreciate you wanting to dive in deeper.
I should have been more clear. It's testosterone vs vasopressin.
Testosterone in itself is not so much aggression as drive. Vasopressin creates distrust (particularly in other males or non-sexual interests; arousal has a counter effect to the distrust thing).
The two together create driven anti-social behavior; sometimes this comes out as violence... typically it's some form of competitiveness.
I can't preview the pages for free in this book to show you (https://www.amazon.com/Male-Brain-Breakthrough-Understanding-Think/dp/0767927540) but there's a section on vasopressin, and then a fuckload of studies referenced in the appendix.