I got one of these half fleshlight things that acted as an aid at first, but eventually I realized I could just mimic the toy with my hand and basically just create a tunnel from my mouth and hand and move those in unison. Kind like turning myself into a fleshlight lol. It’s so simple, idk why it took years to figure it out.
It's "the future of masturbation."
Here's the Amazon page for it directly from Tenga. You can read a ton of reviews. Apparently it's pretty awesome.
It's actually this one.
The reason I know this is because my buddy showed me this hilarious Billy Mays style add for it from years ago. Guy even looks like a sketchy Billy Mays.
Everything Tenga I have tried has been awesome. I went on Amazon and got the Tenga Flip Hole Black for the lowest possible price which meant it was a Chinese import with all Chinese characters. But who needs fancy instructions. This won't be the best toy for your BF if his girth is more than 5.5" because the toy won't seal properly. But I use it without the perfect seal and it still feels awesome. Cleanup is easy because it swings open. https://www.amazon.com/Tenga-THF002-Flip-Hole-Black/dp/B002L16IRA/ref=sr_1_6_s_it?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1466426356&sr=1-6&keywords=tenga+flip+hole+black . I also really like this one too. It is not nearly as durable, though and you really need lube because of all the textures. https://www.amazon.com/Tenga-3d-Sleeve-Spiral-Masturbation/dp/B005C2NUY4/ref=pd_sim_121_6?ie=UTF8&dpID=31FRME7h3oL&dpSrc=sims&preST=_AC_UL160_SR160%2C160_&psc=1&refRID=X6MBD87Y1H6XHA5Y531E
If you really want to get through to her, ask her about her parenting plans.
If she wants daughters only. RED FLAG.
If she says she wants to be a young mother, you should be careful. Chances are she wants children from you and can sense you investigating her inner ugliness which can be very off putting in every way. She wants the children as a status symbol and will be fine cutting relations with you after she gets them.
She will probably bounce around a few more white guys before trying to settle with an asian man who she will demand raises her children. If you don't end up killing her from years of a emotionally abusive relationship and the killing the children and yourself first.
If she wants VERY white suburbs with very little other mixed ethnic kids. Then buy the fleshlight I linked you to on amazon and stop fucking her. Get out.
Absolutely reusable. And easier to clean & dry because they flip open. Tenga FlipHole Black
Tenga Flip Orb
WeVibe maybe? Although I have heard they are not always a good fit for everyone. If it has to be a toy to be used during intercourse then you are pretty limited. If it's just something you can use on him, there are lots of options. Fleshlight is probably the most well known brand for sleeves. There's more elaborate machines like Venus2k, made by the same people responsible for the Sybian. You can use a vibe on the tip of his penis or under the balls. There are a couple of attachments for men for a Hitachi magic wand or similar (like this). Nice thing is that the wand is dual purpose and can be used on you as well. I think if you go this route and don't already have a hitachi go with the Doxy which is more powerful and has better speed control. I'm pretty sure the attachment will go on that as well but don't know for a fact.
Hey, do you have a link to the Doc Johnson thing you were contemplating? I looked around and couldn't find much. But I just thought of this also. The Tenga 3D is cheaper than the Fleshlight and the Spiral version is awesome. http://www.amazon.com/Tenga-3d-Sleeve-Spiral-Masturbation/dp/B005C2NUY4/ref=pd_sbs_hpc_1?ie=UTF8&refRID=0CJF2CH3Q8R2XB841FST
This is by far my favorite. Easy to clean, and comes with a stand so it can dry out after you wash it. It feels great, and if you want, you can squeeze it to make it tighter, but I find it's tight enough on its own: https://www.amazon.com/TENGA-THF002-Tenga-Flip-Black/dp/B002L16IRA?th=1
This is the way. Amazon is telling me I have bought 5 of these over the years.
I cut maybe a 1/4" section to use as a ring. A "longer" ring will lift your ballsack more and put more pressure on your PC muscles. After I cut 3 or 4 rings I use the rest of the stroker as...as stroker on the shaft. The combination of the cockring and stroker together is awesome. And of course use real lube not hand lotion.
Looks like you can get it from either Amazon now https://www.amazon.com/dp/B002SQJIXO/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_JHMFZTH48RBX357NE27T
Or the main website
This costs quite a bit but I have bought three. I tried settling for off brands on Amazon of similar size and figure and they can not compare.
It's a Pipedream product, fairly expensive. But there is plenty of retailers that supply them.
Amazon sell them, here's a Link to one.
There’s Doc Johnson’s Good Head. It’s also sold as the Bro Sleeve on FTM sites. There’s a few reviews of it on the FTM subreddits if you search around
I find the only way to cum is to overstimulate your penis. Now, that's not all that easy when trying to stimulate the "shaf-muscles" as that'd require you to have a hard penis, but if you instead only focus on the forehead it's easy to cum if you have the right equipment, like a pocket pussy. I prefer the Quickshot Vantage as that allows you to hold it with your fingers and use pressure with your fingers to overstimulate the head of your penis.
If you haven't achieved an orgasm like this with Speed before, you'll be surprised. It's 2x-3x longer than a normal orgasm, and your body will be flooded with feel-good chemicals afterwards. It's pure bliss basically.
You need to get yourself on of these. It lets you over-stimulate the head of your penis, making it easier for you to stay hard and you'll be able to cum within 20-40 minutes, or faster if you really over-stimulate.
Heres the link! https://www.amazon.com/dp/B008RBKNRO/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_RFTHCWMEZNVEYMSKBHDP?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I just add lube, close the top, squeeze the air out from around my dick, and the suction is fantastic
NSFW link 20 pound one
Seemed popular as we would get pallets of them in every few weeks
I bought one on Amazon back in April for my husband (link below.) Watching while I used this on him was by far one of the sexiest things I’ve seen over the last 15 years.
Prior to this, he had only tried the Tenga eggs (solo) and the I used the Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage on him twice with ok’ish results.
The Pipedream Extreme Fuck Me Silly Mega Masturbator with over 20lbs of Pussy and Ass is $291.
But I guess there are cheaper products out there too.
I got just the regular one. The videos I watched on it seems like it should be pretty fun. Very soft and supple, and the texture inside sounds like it's pretty realistic. I've read you can soak the sleeve in warm water before playtime to add to the feeling, I might try that.
Hmm. Try adding a condom to desensitize a bit. Maybe go heavier on your receiving in foreplay than his.
Take some short breaks on him, maybe practice edging or add permission condition play.
I also recommend this, I have heard really positive things about it and have recommended it to others who had positive results in the past,
https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B0027CU1MQ/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o04_s02?ie=UTF8&psc=1 This was the one I got, its not incredibly high quality but it gets the job done lol
Also known as a fleshlight, it's like a dildo but a vulva and vagina instead of a dick. Instead of sticking it in you, you put you in it. They're certainly better than a hand.
I agree with u/peterpam79 prob not. The case dimensions don't look similar.
You best bet is just to buy an official case. They're not ridiculously expensive.
I purchased the first extender I found on Wish.com for about $20. Here's the wrap I use.
I put the wrap around my shaft and pull down on the bands until it's tight. The bands fit perfectly such that they're secure and don't allow my glands to slip through. I use a 5 lb dumbbell and place it through the loops and let it hang for an hour or so.
Give it a go and let me know what you think!
I purchased the first extender I found on Wish.com for about $20. Here's the wrap I use. Give it a go and let me know what you think!
Some kind of solo-use sex toy and lube is something I legitimately wish is gotten at a younger age?
The Tenga 3D in particular are amazing for male-bodied folks. They feel great, but don't require re-lubing partway though, contain the mess, are durable, and easy to clean.
So like, I personally don’t have the same situation. I don’t mind doing it myself, but I get where you’re coming from. I highly recommend toys like this one.
Well, for when the sex isn't available, you might want to know about this: https://www.amazon.com/Fleshlight-Original-Classic-Smooth-Texture/dp/B0026P3P7M
I'll be back in my own appartment when the semester begins, so getting it sent to my place shouldn't be a problem.
I was going to buy this model. It has pretty good review
It's not just a thing, it's the best thing ever.
The first time someone used one on me I tried to ask what the fuck it was. I was incapable of finishing the sentence once it got turned to max.
I have and really enjoy the doc Johnson "the tube"
It's a simple setup and is easy to clean since it does not have a closed tip. The sensations with it are great, but I can't last too long using it w/o cumming.
I've got one of these (not exactly this though but looks the same) and I'm surprised how well it works: https://www.amazon.com/Masturbator-Massage-Attachment-Hitachi-Massager/dp/B007FZVKQG
You'd need something to remote control the magic wand, like a remote controlable socket.
I support the use of penile masturbating aid to help any man relieve himself sexually that wants to, and think they should be just as acceptable socially as gynological masturbating aids.
If you don't want the social aspect of sexual contact with another person, more power to you and your choice of healthy sexual outlets.
The Tenga Spiral seems a good choice in my experience with male partners.
Tenga 3d Sleeve - Spiral for Male Masturbation https://www.amazon.com/dp/B005C2NUY4/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_q6IbAbNZGNFHK
The video that I saw it put to use in showed the man ejaculating twice in one session, so I mean. That seems like a decent marketing campaign to me. If you're curious:
Cock sleeve extraordinaire!
Here you go!
I cannot vouch for its efficacy. But for what it's worth, I saw it on a gif of a woman making a man ejaculate twice using the sleeve and the Hitachi, so... I mean. That's decent marketing, right?
The one i'm using is this one, not saying its the best but it's what i use :
This is just slightly above your price at $27.95 (USD), but I would highly recommend it:
Fleshlight The Quickshot Vantage Adult Male Sex Toy Masturbator, Clear https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0161NZJVY/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_dXwxyb64HC4V3
The open design makes for easier cleanup, imo. It's also durable if cared for properly. My only warning is: if your girth is 5.5" or more, it may make the sleeve too tight to use properly. So take a moment to measure if you don't know!
I've heard good things about the 3D line. I initially thought about a Fleshlight, and someone here mentioned that the Tenga offerings provided the same pleasure with more options at budget-friendlier prices. Amazon has a 3D Spiral (https://www.amazon.com/Tenga-3d-Sleeve-Spiral-Masturbation/dp/B005C2NUY4?th=1) for about $25...just slightly more than K-Y Yours and Mine.
Of course, I'm open to other ideas; we don't have the open space in our house for a full Liberator setup, or the space to hide it from our kids. <laugh>
Definitely coconut oil, but I've also gotten the tenga sleeve recently and that thing is bonkers (also a bottle of their "real" lube, which has been working great)
It says (Sold through: Amazon EU S.a.r.L) when I look it up in my amazon purchase history. This is the link
It's the Pipedream Mega Masturbator. It's amazing, highly recommend it. Shop around for the best price but here's a link for reference. There's a smaller version and a bigger version you might see. I got the bigger version. http://www.amazon.com/Pipedream-Products-Mega-Masturbator-Silly/dp/B006W00E5S/ref=cm_cr_pr_product_top?ie=UTF8
Is it this one? It looks like it has just ribs in it. He really likes first slipping in and then pulling out really slow as I squeeze, so I think this might be a good one.
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What about sex toy? I want to buy fleshlight here's the link NSFW!, but i wonder if it's safe to import it. cuz you know... it's sex toy.
I've got one but its not EXACTLY a fleshlight. I've got a Tenga fliphole and i 10/10 will recommend this. Its easy to wash and maintain. I mean come on, its engineered by Japs. Japs are known for this sort of kink.
I own THIS which is pretty much the same thing without the VR goggles and no vibration. It's fantastic.
Pros: Feels real, nice weight, firm yet supple like a good ass should be, cures death grip/desensitivty issues. Plus, I can cum inside the pussy all I want and never have to worry about pregnancy.
Cons: Hard to clean. Holding a 30lb ass up to your bath faucet to pressure shoot the cum out of an asshole is harder than it sounds. Gets too rubbery if you don't cornstarch it like a fleshlight, the asshole isn't nearly deep enough (i'm somewhat well endowed and can't imagine how disappointing it would be for anyone who is longer than 8"). I have never been able to fully penetrate/balls deep at speed any girl but with this I can do that (almost) in the asshole and definitely in the pussy part of it. Also it's hard to hide from your SO if they aren't keen on you fucking a giant silicone ass while you're supposedly showering.
Glad to see sex toys are being advanced at such a fast pace. I hope to own a Real Doll within the next couple years once I save up the $8,000 for the model I want with the Shemale attachement.
There is a whole world of stuff out there if you want to get into anal play (it is actually a lot of fun and really pleasurable). I find that fleshlights are over priced and not really that good. I never use mine anymore. I used it a few times when I first got it and that's it. Maybe a more inexpensive masturbating sleeve would be better (since it would be cheaper and easier to use). See amazon link for an example. Most places ship discretely as well.
Fleshlights are not that great (too long, vaginal ribs start too far back, suction is weak). Since you're interested in fleshlights, you might look into the wide variety of pocket pussies and strokers. Things to consider are mainly size, material and open vs. closed ended. Length 5-6'' is fine for most men, 7+ just adds girth to a stroker (which can be fun). TPR and UR3 rubber are the most realistic feeling, I would avoid TPE though. Open ended is easier to clean, but closed ended creates more suction; although some toys you could put your thumb over the ending to create suction.
Beyond pocket pussies / strokers, there are pussy/ass masturbators (like pocket pussies, but larger and meant to be placed on the edge of a table), booty replicas (I recommend Pipedream Extreme FMS), chest replicas (great for titty fucking), and Torso Dolls (basically a solid sex doll without arms, legs or a head). Pipedream even started making transexual torso dolls that you and your bf could use together.