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EVERYONE BUY SUNSTONE RIGHT NOW!!! (:>_<:) That's were this art comes from. Sunstone Volume 1 (Sunstone Tp) https://www.amazon.com/dp/1632152126/ref=cm_sw_r_other_apa_glt_i_FGEDFV2V49RFP2RE7HPP
It's beautiful, lood, and sexy all while being a fun story about different couples/dynamics. Sorry I have to shill one of my favorite artists and they're work.
I'm surprised no one has put this here, but maybe everyone knows about it or maybe it's not exactly what you're looking for.
But I always put down Stjepan Šejić's Sunstone series when I can. But it's more story based I guess...
And buy their books if you wish to find out where these images are from 🥰
Sunstone Volume 1 (Sunstone Tp) https://www.amazon.com/dp/1632152126/ref=cm_sw_r_other_apa_glt_i_D0WPAYTVJDYB1YFGJQEX
Sorry I have to shill for such and incredible artist and writer! 😤 (:>_<:)
It's the artist who did the Sunstone comics (amazon link to the first one). The link before is a link to his deviant art site. It's fairly safe although he does do adult content.
Sana Takeda is the artist who does Monstress (another amazon link)
I write fantasy erotica and fantasy romance mainly, although I have also done sci-fi and horror.
Have you checked out Sunstone yet? It was a great gateway for me to start really learning and understanding the psychological and interpersonal aspects of BDSM, and it remains one of my favorite graphic novel series. It includes plenty of erotica, but its focus is on the relationships between the characters, and that's part of what helped me settle into a better understanding of BDSM.
He could train you to orgasm on command using a trigger phrase he said (orally) or typed.
One method to train you would involve the following:
1) train you to have nonstop, rolling/overlapping orgasms. One method for such training is outlined in Alan Brauer's book:
https://www.amazon.com/ESO-Lover-Extended-Sexual-Orgasm/dp/0446677620
2) while in that state of experiencing rolling/overlapping orgasms, repeat the trigger phrase, over and over, either writing in so that you can see it or saying it to you.
When I train a woman to do this (#2), I write the phrase, in chat, for ten minutes (along with supportive statements like, "Breathe. Good to breathe."). Then, I 'test' for about 20 minutes, to make sure the trigger phrase 'took'.
I know you've already been to thailand but if you do go back make sure you read this book Private Dancer. https://www.amazon.com/Private-Dancer-Stephen-Leather/dp/9810539169
It is a really well done look into the bar scene based in the mid-late 90's but some still applicable today. Very enjoyable wild ride read.
Regarding poems, Anaïs Nin is regarded as being one of the best erotica writers out there for women. A lot of women find psychological turn-ons really appealing, so having your partner copy out stories in calligraphy is a way to fire up her imagination and sexual mind.
Regarding having her wear a toy, an example would be (if she's into a little bit of pain) to have her put on nipple clamps and heels and walk around her space for at least 500 paces before she can touch herself.
Read sunstone if you haven't yet people. It is also available for free on one of their deviantart pages.
But only if you are legally old enough, and are ok with healthy (or well-defined, bad, but correctly worked through or explained) depictions of bdsm, relationships, and sexual orientation realization.
I'll admit it's not Helpful in the sense your looking for but it is a beautiful comic series about different couples and they're different dynamics when it comes to BDSM. It's called Sunstone and I think all doms and subs should read it.
Sunstone Volume 1 (Sunstone Tp) https://www.amazon.com/dp/1632152126/ref=cm_sw_r_other_apa_glc_i_08DCGVGKC0E8XSZE0BDF
There is a free version if you're skeptical on purchasing but I think after reading a few pages you'll Want to own the books physically.
🎩 tossing my own in my book atomic mage has two monster girls and more coming in future books
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08R3TBFRS/ref=cm_sw_r_u_apa_BAZ49MEF0WD9E3FE1Y7F
Please give it a read and review
Back when I was in grad school I was having anxiety attacks and was put on medication. It did not kill my sex drive but it did tame it. I had confessed to the doctor that I masturbated a lot and she suggested I get the ESO book and read up on it. It was an earlier edition than this:
https://www.amazon.ca/ESO-Lover-Extended-Sexual-Orgasm/dp/0446677620
From that book I learned about prostate stimulation. While on the anxiety medication I would have one session each week - starting Sunday at noon, typically not ending until 6 pm. On a few occasions I wasn't done until 9 pm!
In follow up, I told Dr. Stacey about the weekly ESO session. She put me on a lower dose Monday through Saturday with the initial dose for Sunday. Over time she weaned me off the M-S does and then I just had the initial dose for Sunday.
Basically what you describe can have a number of possible reasons.
First checking for meds may be an idea. Some meds, for example for depression, can cause a lower libido and can also cause less ability to be aroused. It may be possible to switch to another one in case.
In general adding bioidentical progesterone might help with libido. It is available as creams ( USP ) and pills ( Prometrium, Utrogestan etc ). If you have a uterus using it at some times in your cycle may be preferable. You might talk this through with an OBGyn.
Next some cis people want a bigger clit but it may be a good idea to think it through if you really want this. There are a number of cis people who try something along those lines :
https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/8r0nkw/im_bigender_and_have_questions_about_bottom/
And lastly there may be some helpful literature. This is a book that may help with o abilities. The title is a bit sensational but its by a therapist pair who have their own clinic. They describe things that can be done to go from pre orgasmic to possibly multi o. They have a holistic approach with detailed drawings and exercises including getting the head free, creating a relaxing environment etc. I know of a number of people where it helped.
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Description (from solicit): Two women deal with modern themes of sex, relationships, and fetishism in this erotic romantic comedy. So beware all who enter, because, to quote a few hundred thousand readers on DeviantArt: "I'm not into BDSM...but this story...I get it."
> If you could have sex with any character...?
I'm a teeny bit infatuated with Black Widow, so watching the new Captain America movie was blissful. Still crossing my fingers that they might consider giving her a series on Netflix or her own movie.
Sam and Dean Winchester from Supernatural are totally crush worthy. I've had many a fantasy in my mind about them. wink wink Individually, Threesome, Cuckholding, BDSM play... oh man, whew!
> Do you read erotica?
Oh yes, when I have time. Lately, my reading/writing has been consumed by scholarly endeavors (with the pinch of DPP thrown in) but when I'm reading for pleasure, I tear through books and love to throw erotica in the mix. Last summer while I was out of the country, I downloaded a ton of works by Anaïs Nin including Delta of Venus, Little Birds, 'Henry and June', etc. While the first two weren't published until the late 1970's, they were written presumably in the 1940's and it's enthralling to read her writing style and viewpoints on sex, kink and fetishes.
I didn't think Private Dancer was a particularly good novel, but it probably something every (male) tourist should read before going to Thailand.
You know that they've released the 4th book, right?
http://www.amazon.com/Beautys-Kingdom-N-Roquelaure-ebook/dp/B00PV0F0VS/ref=sr_1_1?s=books
Average review is 4 stars right now. I have the sample on my kindle but my "to read" list is VERY long.
I've been wanting to read Bear for ages.
The Saint of Impossible Causes sounds good too.