Use a regular Jenga set and just write numbers (not the actual tasks). Then have a sheet with tasks assigned to numbers. That way you can continue to update/change it in case your M doesn’t like something.
My ex and I bought something similar like this on Amazon , but a lot of it is vanilla or just goofy, so I want to do the above with a future partner.
Something to note is there are a lot of Jenga pieces. So you want to leave like half blank to tease, maybe with a couple “anything you want” pieces.
We play a board game called monogamy that’s really good. We always end up having sex before we finish the actual game. It starts off fairly tame and gets steamier as the game goes on
Winner gets to act out one of the fantasy cards that they’ve collected during the game during the following week. Husband once chose one which involved a paddling pool and a ton of baby oil.
Monogamy Game for Couples on Amazon uk
Edit. Added amazon link
Interesting situation. Similar to a recent post where the girl gives a bj, then the guy cums he just leaves, leaving her frustrated. Who does that? So selfish.
The majority of suggestions suggested making sure he made her cum first before finishing the bj. She if she started with a bj, in the middle switch to something else where he has to make her cum.
So if you first go down on her, in the middle change to something where you put her hand on you or even ask for her to go down on you. After you cum, then I am sure you will be more than happy to pleasure her again. The HL person for some reason is more attuned to satisfying their partner.
PS: many times, the LL person may also contribute less to the relationship outside the bedroom also.
If you haven't done so yet, read up on the love languages and do the 5 love languages quiz to determine each other's love languages. Make an agreement to Do at least 2 small gesture of affection in their partner's preferred love language.
If emotional connection is lacking, we have been doing this quiz to improve intimacy. There are others also. https://www.scienceofpeople.com/deep-questions/
Another option I have read would be to try a sex game like Monogamy. However, I don't know of any that would be specific to lesbians. Creative Conceptions Monogamy Adult Couples Board Game https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B0001VVQ3I/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glc_fabc_Q4E3Fb9GFKGHT
Another option in addition to asking for an open relationship would be to explore threesomes.
Good luck.
It is a game. There are also card games with questions and activities to do.
Creative Conceptions Monogamy Adult Couples Board Game https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B0001VVQ3I/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_0ds2Fb1H1VSA8
Hi there!
So sorry about the depression diagnosis, I was there too, sertraline and therapy did a great job for me, hope she can get the help she needs. It’s hard sometimes but I like to think that if someone had a broken leg they will try to find help to fix it, the same happens with mental health for me, you need a Dr and meds sometimes to get better.
About the contraceptive pill, it took me around 3 to 4 months to regain my libido.
Btw have you heard about the game monogamy? https://www.amazon.co.uk/Monogamy-Affair-Partner-Adult-Couples/dp/B0001VVQ3I It helps to remember the bond and feel that intimacy with your partner again and it may eventually lead to sex. Highly recommend it!
Hope I answered your questions!
Sorry if it’s a bit messy, english is my 2nd language.
Have a nice day!
Tantus makes an extremely comfortable butt plug highly recommended. Amazon link but currently out of stock.. Look up on their website they have smaller models with that shape handle.
I bought couplicious for the wife for christmas!
We used it one time to set the mood with a couple... we only got halfway into it and the other wife drew a card that said "everyone has to please you for 60 seconds."
Well... needless to say, we never finished the game... lol.
I don't remember what all the cards said but a couple cards ended up having us:
- his wife had to pick up a tissue from my face without using her hands
- he got a double bj
- roll for 2 partners and take them to the other room for 5 minutes... at that time we were same room only so they f'd with my wife for a bit
It's in stock on Amazon!!!
https://www.amazon.com/Couplicious-Sex-Game-Couples-Group/dp/B01GIVWE1C
On the back of the role play idea (prompted because you don't know how to bring it up). There's a board game my ex and I used to play called monogamy. I recommend it: one to one game that involves drinking, clothing removal and timed foreplay. Throughout the game, you win roleplay fantasy cards and the winner picks their favourite for the finale.
Just a suggestion, it opened up some stuff for me that I wasn't sure on (and some stuff I didn't know I wanted)
It might not be relevant bit here's the link in case it is something you're looking for
Ann Summers Monogamy Couples Board Game https://smile.amazon.co.uk/dp/B0001VVQ3I/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_fabc_JR6SFTMHCZYGS50YE4VX
You could try to improve sexual intimacy with a game like monogamy or a similar game.
Creative Conceptions Monogamy Adult Couples Board Game https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B0001VVQ3I/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glc_fabc_Ooi4FbYY306FC
Why don’t you get a sex book, of lots of different positions? Or sex position dice? Sex Dice Make it a point to try something new every time you have sex. Talk about each other’s fantasy.
Also the other man ain’t shit. Don’t throw it away. Just masturbate. Or imagine your man is him when you’re fucking. Trust. It’s way better.
Been really wanting to try these out.... https://www.amazon.com/Dalliance-Adult-INCLUDING-instructional-Beautifully/dp/B01J416LEO
Seems like fun!
Two fingers rubbing your prostate while using a cordless toothbrush (the back of the head - not the bristles, necessarily) on your frenulum is an explosive combination. Also Icicles has some very non-dildo appearing dildoes.
Wife and I picked up xxxopoly from Amazon. I will say, if you are shy, but willing to experiment a bit, this game will break you out of your shell. We have played it twice since getting it on our date nights, and we had lots of fun. So far, and I'm not sure we have been through all the cards yet, there hasn't been anything overtly gross, abnormally dirty, or extreme, just some stuff you wouldn't normally think of to warm the bedroom up a bit. We tried the sexy dice from another place, and we tend to get pretty dirty in the bedroom...well, these were a little...too dirty for our taste. Having only played it twice (and been unprepared the first time), we still had fun, as long as you are willing to break out of your shell a bit, you'll have fun.
Perfect example, one of the cards has you do a "strip-tease" for your partner or pay 50$, my wife FULLY expected me to pay up, and I could have...but nope, I surprised her.
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Creative-Conceptions-MONOG2-Monogamy-Couples/dp/B0001VVQ3I
Thats a link to where you can buy it online though there are other places as well. Itd essentially a board game, you move around the board and pick up cards etc. There are 3levels to work through so you can start out on soft stuff like kissing ans work your way up ti the other stuff! We only played the once so far, trying to remember some examples. There were some role play ones like teacher and student etc, strip tease, lap dance, handcuffs, food play (like licking cream off etc), some vibrator play some anal etc. As i said i instigated the veto rule from the start so there was no pressure to do something you didnt like the sound of ☺ def worth a shot i think and it might help her figure out what shes comfortable with!
I found that this is the most comfortable plug I own. I haven't tried wearing it all day yet. here
I don't mind, I'm pretty open in general, so no worries. :)
Yes, the toys are all very expensive, I tend to break cheaper toys and I also like using silicone lube which will ruin lesser quality silicone toys.
I have the lelo elise as my main penetrative vibe, and the we-vibe touch as my main clitoral vibe for when we're having sex. The lelo is definitely stronger, so the lelo lily would probably vibe stronger than the touch, but the touch on max setting is still quite strong!
I can definitely vouch for wevibe's customer service, I moved to Australia after purchasing my original wevibe, and it died on me after a few months. I messaged their customer service and they sent me a new one no questions asked. This one too must have come from a bad batch, and after contacting their customer service I was sent yet another one which is going strong almost a year later.
They are also both waterproof which is nice. Well worth saving up for imo.
As for butt plugs, this is a relatively personal thing, you may not be able to handle various sizes etc. For what you're looking for, (make things tighter during penetration) you'll want something silicone, with a "bulbous" end rather than a thin tapered one, and a thin neck so it's comfy once in.
This Tantus is our current favorite, it's long and full through the middle - perfect during vaginal. It is however quite large, so would probably take lube and some time to get used to. Anything sort of this shape will work though, you want it to be long enough to go almost the length of his dick, and rounded through the middle for fullness.
Tantus also uses really high quality silicone, highly recommend them for toys in general. Hope this helps!
As Diverdick recommended, Tantus' Ryder is a good basic plug, although it might be a bit wide for you to start with. If you think that's the case or you'd rather err on the small side, try the Neo or one of their many similarly-designed plugs. Can't tell you much about the prostate stimulation angle since that's not my arena.
Generally just look out for plugs with a significant difference in diameter between the head and neck - if they're too similar it will just slide right out. If it continues to be a problem, look for ones with an even bigger difference in size, or with the widest part of the plug closer to the neck. Unobtrusive bases will make a big difference during intercourse, as they're less likely to get knocked around by thrusts.
The Blueberry Bliss Turbo Glider is a great toy for the price, it is decently strong and is waterproof. Just pick up a set of rechargeable batteries and you are good to go. Unless it is on full blast it is fairly quiet as well.
Also when looking at toys make sure to get quality materials, AVOID JELLY TOYS AT ALL COSTS!
Blueberry Bliss multiple speeds, waterproof, internal/external, easy to clean, and can be used with rechargeable batteries. I mainly use a Hitachi but this baby gets the job done very well when I am in the mood for something with less power. You also can't beat the price.
I love mine, it's a good size, well shaped and waterproof. the best part is that the motor is in the tip so it is excellent for getting a strong buzz on the clit.