These - so comfy! Motherhood Maternity Women's Essential Stretch Full Length Secret Fit Belly Leggings https://www.amazon.com/dp/B013WUE9VA/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_TEY2M7HDP59DR7J207BM?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Depending on what you're looking for (I know that Lu La Roe has a lot of crazy patterns, right?), I'd recommend 90 degrees by reflex from Amazon. I have the yoga pants which are basically long leggings, nice thickness. I am 5'8", size 10 and I have a M that goes all the way past my ankles. I have other leggings by them that are shorter that I use mostly for working out.
It's a trend where women, and some men, get this specific brand of legging that makes their ass look huge. This chick has the same style of thing but it's a body suit.
Not sure about the whole outfit, but for pants the 90 Degree yoga pants on Amazon are amazing and only $20!
https://www.amazon.com/RAYPOSE-Running-Leggings-Workout-Control/dp/B084QDJ4HX?th=1&psc=1 In case anyone is interested in the product. I just started typing the first few words of the comment and the search suggestion popped up, people must have searched for this a lot lol
Not fancy, but I live in these THE GYM PEOPLE Thick High Waist Yoga Pants with Pockets, Tummy Control Workout Running Yoga Leggings for Women https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07HQPKDZB/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_GEJ05HRAFZRT8XCZ8YE4?psc=1
Yeah, my leg warmers always get stretched out over time lol! I've never had them actually rip, but they do start to slip and bunch up! But here is a thicker legging I really like - they're VERY high waisted and pretty compressive through the tummy as well so I wear them for silks (actually, they were recommended by someone on r/Aerials!).
I also saw someone recommended layering joggers over leggings. I wear joggers without leggings all the time and I think that would work quite well! They are a bit baggy but obviously the waistband holds them up so slippage isn't an issue haha.
Motherhood Maternity Women's... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B013WUE9VA?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
These! I’m 6.5 weeks and I have terrible bloating, these fit close to the belly regardless of the size of your bump…and it feels like you have nothing on! 110% recommend!
get those leggings that were seen all over tiktok, they make your butt look more plump. heres an amazon link https://www.amazon.com/Leggings-Control-Lifting-Workout-Running/dp/B08SBHTZLS
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try v necks, collars that are more loose and dont fit around your neck. dont just wear regular sweatshirts, shop for womens ones. from what i noticed, a majority of tops for women hug your stomach more. mens are boxy, womens clothing is more of a hourglass shape.
for makeup, do your eyeliner pointing up for a fem look (when it is pointing down its more masc). i dont know much about makeup but i know that eye makeup is the best thing you can put on. make sure to put blush on your nose and cheeks.
women walk on a straight line whereas men usually walk on two lines. (women put on foot in front of each other, men dont)
even if you got a shiny dollar store wig, there are many different ways you can make it work until you are able to get a more professional one. some things i heard was boiling the wig and putting powder on it to make it less shiny, etc..
oh! shaving your eyebrows to be thin is VERY helpful. when i has thin eyebrows i got misgendered more but having bushy eyebrows makes me pass more as a trans guy.
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im sorry if any of this came off as insensitive or rude, and you dont HAVE TO do any of this! i suggested what i thought was best from my own personal experience and i have lots of trans women as friends so sometimes i recall when i was pre transition and give them tips on my life back then.
This has become my new uniform and I adore them. Pair with long shirt/dress with high boots and they’re super cute and comfy. I’ve challenged myself not to wear real pants again until I go back to work after maternity leave fall 2022 lol….
[these are my new favorites]<Motherhood Maternity Women's Essential Stretch Full Length Secret Fit Belly Leggings https://www.amazon.com/dp/B013WUE9VA/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_AEH5YDFPPZEY4QPNSW0M?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1>
Have you tried these? https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B071HWL8L6/
Another Redditor suggested them and they are SERIOUSLY high waisted - I bought a pair and I like them a lot!
These are the only leggings I use now a days. Thick, absolutely not slick, and very high waist.
Homma Premium Thick High Waist Tummy Compression Slimming Leggings https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071HWL8L6/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_fabc_8V1J58094Z39X0TCQHFZ?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
https://www.everlane.com/products/womens-high-rise-straight-jean-tall-faded-midblue2 in tall (they're not tall though - need to wear with booties.
favorite leggings for leisure but more flattering than comfy -- Homma Premium Thick High Waist Tummy Compression Slimming Leggings https://www.amazon.com/dp/B072LNF3GY/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glc_fabc_BeUZFb9PVB143
I look good in flares but I need to get size tall and they're harder to come by right now.
I cannot pull off ripped jeans
Looked at your posts and we have similar body types. Maybe my recommendations would work for you too
Since you've had one you may already know this, but compression leggings and other clothes are still my go to at 5 weeks PP from my c section. Everyone claimed I'd want loose clothing that didn't irritate my incision but what I ended up wanting were leggings that made me feel glued back together. Blanqi has a great postpartum tank top I wear all the time and I love these leggings: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B072LNF3GY/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_fabc_yZFPFbWWHWC8F?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Also this is very specific but try to pee as soon as you can when they take your catheter out. My bladder got too full and was bruised from surgery and they had to do another catheter on me because I couldn't go. It was horrible after being poked and manhandled all day.
There is an Instagram account called expecting and empowered that has some great story highlights on c sections as well!
I also shop online - I almost exclusively wear these working from home:
Motherhood Maternity Womens Essential Stretch Full Length Secret Fit Belly Leggings Leggings
Are you looking for workout leggings? If so, I love these from Amazon. They stretch a lot. When you open the package, you think that they couldn't possible fit, but they do. They are supersoft and not too thin. I like that they hold in my squishy tummy. Also, please look at the customer photos for a laugh. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07HQPKDZB/?coliid=IX9CKRORUHUIB&colid=14RAWVGIN64XV&psc=1&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it
i got these from amazon and love them i just ordered a second pair, they are $20 and i sized down to really squeeze everything in
Homma Premium Thick High Waist Tummy Compression Slimming Leggings https://www.amazon.com/dp/B072LNF3GY/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_azLrFbBZ9QV14
no pockets though
I have a different model of Baleaf and I love them too, I need more pairs! Feel like the sizing was true to the chart.
you can get 90 degree pants for cheap on Amazon.