https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B08HPZ3RHR/
Amazon has a custom size tee shirt shop. You let it scan your body and put in fit preference and it sends something supposedly designed to fit you.
Returns free. I just tried it out, we’ll see.
I got it from a shop on etsy but when I tried to find it now, I couldn't. Stripper supply stores are another good spot. But amazon should work, here's a link:
Yeah, my husband is like 5'10 and about 200 give or take. He's in the XXL and we have to line dry everything so they don't shrink. He's got a long torso and lots of t shirts are just cut too short.
btw, we both just tried this new custom t shirt service on Amazon. You specify things like the style of shirt (men's or women's) the neckline, the sleeve length and whether or not you want a loose or slim fit. You submit two pics of yourself from front and profile through their fit app and they custom make you a shirt, in the USA of 100% cotton (except for the heathered versions which have a poly blend). We got ours back and they were a really good fit. They came with a card offering to tweak the fit for free with a new t shirt, you just have to go in and specify where you want it bigger or longer or shorter etc. The cotton is nice, the shirts looked well made and I was impressed. Before I tweaked my fit, I washed and dried the shirts and measured them before and after....there was only 1/4 to 1" shrinkage on the shirt depending on the area. I highly recommend giving it a shot. Also, they allow you to make a custom label...I put the date on mine so if I buy several I can see how they wear over time. And no, I don't work for Amazon. :)
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Product name: Just My Size Women's Plus-Size Short Sleeve V-Neck Tee, Black, 1X
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Highest price ever: $15.05
Lowest price ever: $5.12
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Previous price: $11.17
Current price: $5.00
Last price change: -56%
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The item was in stock as of 03/05/2021 13:03:00 (UTC)
Im Same exact height and oddly enough same exact weight. I usually wear a small or a medium F cropped top. I can fit in xs but i like the “flowiness” of an “oversized” top. Because my feminine pants, shorts, and skirts are quite form fitting to go with it. But i just ordered this today in S. https://www.amazon.com/SweatyRocks-Womens-Butterfly-Striped-Sleeve/dp/B08LN5Y2K6/ref=pd_aw_fbt_img_1?pd_rd_w=HDXZv&pf_rd_p=22b1663e-f425-4a35-a7b0-d21faab2902e&pf_rd_r=F688MPN6V6R5WF135X2D&pd_rd_r=a927fa38-7c00-4025-847d-2be13ebed26e&a...
I'm a fairly muscular rock climber, so I can totally relate to this. Muscles are not inherently masculine, and wearing the right clothes can totally hide them if you want (but there's really no need to). I've found that tight see through mesh shirts (see link below) totally hide muscles and look super cute.
As for skirts, you can find pantyhose or leggings to wear under them that should hide any cuts and bruises. In my opinion though, cuts and bruises have nothing to do with being feminine.