https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07RY2TP5B/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_LVqgFbMCKRSKK
Found these from another post awhile back, big sweaters are also cute
A AGROSTE Women's Butt Lifting Workout Shorts Ruched Booty Yoga Biker Shorts High Waist Scrunch Sports Leggings(UP Graded) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08FBXCPQ6/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_fabc_oKBQFbGFQ803M?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1 💕💕
Check out Baleaf High Waisted Bike Shorts on amazon. I wear a 16ish (big old hips) and I got the xxl. I love them. Lots of tummy control.
Baleaf compression running shorts on amazon. They come in two lengths. I have the shorter. I wear them the most of all the shorts I have. Super inexpensive, high waist, great pocket. If I can’t convince you...they have over 2k reviews on Amazon.
BALEAF Women's 5" High Waist Workout Yoga Shorts Tummy Control Side Pockets Black S https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07LF3FYY9/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apip_3mOIWJCd9SHrm
I tried these out yesterday and I was pretty happy with them. I have big thighs and these didn't ride up at all. I just wish they were a little higher waisted
I wear sports bra and short gym short, hides the bulge perfectly.
Something like these: http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00QZIQTT2?keywords=gym%20shorts%20for%20women&qid=1457364432&ref_=sr_1_30&s=sports-and-fitness&sr=1-30
These are my go-to shorts: Adidas
They're a bit thicker/heavier than normal pocketless shorts, but I only really notice when it's super hot out or I'm running a lot.
As for music, I'm so all over the board I can't wait to see what everyone else recommends!