{"product":{"product_id":"0345816021","title":"12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos","price":"18.21","image_url":"https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/41kspFBwVxL._SL500_.jpg","url":"https://www.amazon.com/dp/0345816021"},"comments":[{"body":"Rule #2 in Jordan Paterson's book [12 Rules of Life](https://www.amazon.com/12-Rules-Life-Antidote-Chaos/dp/0345816021/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8\u0026amp;qid=1534713532\u0026amp;sr=8-3\u0026amp;keywords=jordan+peterson+12+rules+for+life):\r\n\r\n\u0026gt;Treat yourself like someone you are responsible for helping\r\n\r\nI suggest OP reads the book if he hasn't already.","subreddit_name":"TheRedPill","author":"Drift3rHD"},{"body":"1- Arrume um emprego - vai conhecer pessoas, ganhar seu salario, e conhecer mais de si mesmo sobre que tipo de trabalho você quer fazer pro resto da sua vida ou não. Se não gostou do que trabalhou, mude. Ou, se não gosta mas paga bem e é algo suportável, fique. Essa história de trabalho dos sonhos é utopia. Você não precisa necessariamente amar seu trabalho, você pode gostar bastante do salário deste trabalho e as coisas que este salário te proporciona fazer, como viagens etc... Basta não ser um trabalho que te deixe louco por você odiá-lo.\r\n\r\n2- Vá pra uma academia e cuide de sua aparência - vai melhorar sua auto estima\r\n\r\n3- Faça algum esporte que goste ou tem interesse em fazer - outra boa forma de conhecer pessoas e criar amizades\r\n\r\nEnfim, foque no seu desenvolvimento pessoal e social, não tem como você conhecer pessoas, ter amigos, conhecer potenciais namoradas sem sair de casa.\r\n\r\nAlso, leia este livro:\r\nhttps://www.amazon.com.br/12-Rules-Life-Antidote-Chaos/dp/0345816021\r\nVeja os vídeos dele, é um psicólogo professor da universidade de toronto e um cara muito foda que ja me esclareceu muita coisa.\r\nAcredito que falta pouco tempo pra chegar o traduzido.","subreddit_name":"brasil","author":"matlockmatt"},{"body":"Boken släpps inte förens den 23 och är nu på förbeställning. Jag vet inte när den kommer till svenska återförsäljare men kan rekommendera att du beställer den från Amazon. Den blir att kosta ungefär 200-250 kr inkl. frakt i bundet format. Inget dåligt pris enligt mig, handlar alla mina böcker från Amazon i princip. Leveranstiden kan vara rätt lång dock, uppemot 4 veckor. Jag vet inte om den kommer släppas i Sverige tidigare än det så den avvägningen får du göra själv. Jag bifogar en länk också, https://www.amazon.com/12-Rules-Life-Antidote-Chaos/dp/0345816021","subreddit_name":"sweden","author":"Dermasol1632"},{"body":"Don't try to overpower yourself--learn to work together. Be a boss you'd want to work for. What makes you feel \"well-paid\"?\r\n\r\nA year or so ago, I learned that I hated myself, and would have left my self a long time ago if I could have. I never celebrated successes, always put the desires of others before my own, almost never stood up for myself. I owed myself a huge apology for being a horrible boss for twenty five years, and I needed to ask myself for forgiveness, reintroduced me to myself and spent some time getting to know who I was.\r\n\r\nWe're on much better terms. It's not perfect, like any relationship, but we work together a lot better, now.\r\n\r\nI highly recommend reading \"12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos\" (https://www.amazon.com/12-Rules-Life-Antidote-Chaos/dp/0345816021/ref=nodl_), Chapters 1 and 2 in particular.","subreddit_name":"Enneagram9","author":"jinkywilliams"},{"body":"Curious, where did you get the link from? Unless I'm mistaken, there's a referral in the un-shortened link. I don't mind if it was from Peterson himself, but it's otherwise a dick move of whomever is trying to cash in by using a referral link without being affiliated.\r\n\r\n\r\nHere's one without it and also Amazon donates a portion of your purchase to a charity of your choice: https://smile.amazon.com/12-Rules-Life-Antidote-Chaos/dp/0345816021","subreddit_name":"JordanPeterson","author":"Just_made_this_now"},{"body":"We can't negotiate with our own weakness until we accept that it's there, and we won't negotiate with that part of ourselves if we treat it with contempt. Exploring these feelings with the right therapist can be very beneficial. \r\n\r\nIf you want to explore them on your own, I found [12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos](https://www.amazon.com/12-Rules-Life-Antidote-Chaos/dp/0345816021) to help me grow as a person and negotiate with that part of me that constantly felt inadequate. It does take plenty of practice and daily conscious decisions, but there is no reason you can't change your mentality.","subreddit_name":"AskReddit","author":"mar504"},{"body":"Unironically, this might be helpful for you and help explain why the whole anti-natalist movement is so regarded\r\n\r\nhttps://www.amazon.com/12-Rules-Life-Antidote-Chaos/dp/0345816021\r\n\r\nEspecially since you seem to be going about trying to create friendships the wrong way - a friendship shouldn't be based on hating something (especially not when that something is the future of humanity itself) but on common interests and goals. Maybe join a sports club or something, do blacksmithing or woodworking (both fun, and both have a good mix of ages of people involved). Be a part of the community - and maybe then you'll also realize that a family is the tightest and most meaningful community you can be a part of - especially when it's your own. There's no one who will care about you (or who you will ever care about) in the same way as your own children.\r\n\r\nProbably going to have an even longer comment timeout after this one (last one was half hour lol) so I'll just leave it with - I sincerely hope you find something meaningful to be a part of that can fill the void the lack of a family has left in your life. Maybe one day you'll understand and still have time to bring your own family into the world.","subreddit_name":"antinatalism","author":"Always_Late_Lately"},{"body":"https://www.amazon.com/12-Rules-Life-Antidote-Chaos/dp/0345816021\r\n\r\nWell I tried saying goodbye, and I clearly got under your skin, so here we are. To be honest, my kink is having someone be obsessed with me. So please keep responding to me as sign that you crave my attention. I promise that from here on all out, you'll only get the link from me. Let's see who gets tired first LMAO","subreddit_name":"LeopardsAteMyFace","author":"Baby_blue_95"},{"body":"I'm actually trying to help you. Is this projection? Bc I'm getting strong \"unable to leave without the last word\" vibes from you. Here I'll say it so you don't have to. Goodbye stranger, have a good one. Feel free to NOT respond since this interaction is over. Ignore it or don't, this link will help you with what you're going through.\r\n\r\nhttps://www.amazon.com/12-Rules-Life-Antidote-Chaos/dp/0345816021","subreddit_name":"LeopardsAteMyFace","author":"Baby_blue_95"},{"body":"I was in a similar position a few years ago. Quit my job with no security of finding another , but I just could not take it any more. Took a month of to rethink a little and read '[12 Rules For Life - An Antidote for Chaos](https://www.amazon.com.au/12-Rules-Life-Antidote-Chaos/dp/0345816021)'. It changed my life, and i highly recommend it. Might be useful for you. \r\n\r\nAll the best mate. I t will get better.","subreddit_name":"AusFinance","author":"chaussie17"},{"body":"I’m sorry to hear that. That must be difficult. I hope you can get either better professional treatment or any professional treatment at all. In the mean time, I can only tell you what helped me. [12 Rules for Life - An Antidote to Chaos](https://www.amazon.com/dp/0345816021/ref=cm_sw_r_awdo_navT_a_62GH9VKHA97Q4W6NM45H) by Jordan Peterson. Reading that book was like drinking cold water from an Oasis in the desert.","subreddit_name":"mentalhealth","author":"StarWarder"},{"body":"[12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos: Peterson, Jordan B](https://www.amazon.ca/12-Rules-Life-Antidote-Chaos/dp/0345816021) was really good. But some of it was a little preachy. \r\n\r\nMaybe not about taking responsibility mainly. I also thought \"How to win friends and influence people\" was really good.","subreddit_name":"Advice","author":"TurpitudeSnuggery"},{"body":"Good question.  \r\nGee, if only some psychologist had spent years of his life studying just that subject, studied many different psychologists and philosophers, as well as authors and mythologies, and then written some kind of, oh I don't know, maybe a book to follow that lays out how you can at least improve your life in some small way.\r\n\r\nSorry for the sarcasm, but I can't tell if you're being serious here. I mean, if you know anything about Peterson or about people who are helped by his lectures and ideas, I'm sure you can already guess they are going to suggest [12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos](https://www.amazon.com/12-Rules-Life-Antidote-Chaos/dp/0345816021/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8\u0026amp;qid=1608827863\u0026amp;sr=1-1).  \r\nIn the words of Joe Biden, \"Come on, man.\"","subreddit_name":"JordanPeterson","author":"Wolfman_Black"},{"body":"\u0026gt; Jordan Peterson appears very profound and has convinced many people to take him seriously. Yet he has almost nothing of value to say. \r\n\r\nThen....\r\n\r\n\u0026gt; His [*12 Rules for Life*](https://www.amazon.com/12-Rules-Life-Antidote-Chaos/dp/0345816021/ref=zg_bs_books_3?_encoding=UTF8\u0026amp;psc=1\u0026amp;refRID=6JYRFD7QWG8BCJ7Q6KAP) is the #1 most-read book on Amazon, where it has a perfect 5-star rating.  \r\n\r\nRemind me who in this scenario has nothing of value to say?!..","subreddit_name":"JordanPeterson","author":"SpicyOnion90"},{"body":"[12 Rules for Life](https://www.amazon.ca/dp/0345816021/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_hOSLFb0XRZ6EX) by Jordan Peterson is another good one. I know there's been a lot of controversy surrounding the author, but the book is legitimately a good resource. There's a reason it's sold millions of copies and has been translated into dozens of languages.","subreddit_name":"starterpacks","author":"SuperCleverPunName"}]}