Here is the one i was mentioning:
https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B00G7P3734/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1
I have a few of them in a photo on my profile here.. They are strong and super light... The 64TI/20 is the small luggage sized one, i think about the size of yours for the inner labia.. love your piercing btw!
It's the little silver looking one locked onto the gag here:
https://fetlife.com/users/1670285/pictures/124035911
Anyway hope it helps!