This one by the same brand has the lighter aluminum poles (and more mesh so better breathability?) but I had mostly ruled it out for costing so much more. Would you say it's worth the extra money to lose that little weight?
Bf is about your height, so we had to go pretty big for our tent as well. We went with this:
https://www.amazon.com/ALPS-Mountaineering-Lynx-Person-Tent/dp/B00B7N6R0Q
Not super light but kept us completely dry in a severe thunderstorm!