What is Reddit's opinion of Anal Fantasy Remote Control Silicone Plug, 4 Inch, Waterproof, Black?

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I love this one!. It isn't too big, but if he's never done any anal play, you'll wanna do a nice foreplay night at home before trying it out in public.

Just keep searching "remote control","vibrating", "for him" for male specific, however just searching anal toys in general might help widen your results.

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