I actually have a special brush that I use for detangling/ styling and it makes my curls soo defined. Its helped me grow out a flat top https://www.amazon.com/BESTOOL-Detangling-Natural-Detangler-Detangle/dp/B08GK63ZKZ?pd_rd_w=TKR3w&content-id=amzn1.sym.fea327c4-5fbe-469f-b9dd-c809442d925d&pf_rd_p=fea327c4-5fbe-469f-b9dd-c809442d925d&pf_rd_r=GZ4268QM13DQA706DYYX&pd...
Cant go without it. I use it in the shower to detangle my hair. I then follow with one of these to style my hair
This brush, lots and lots of conditioner, and bribery. I can detangle my 5 year old daughter's hair in 3 minutes and she'll still cry like I'm killing her.
BESTOOL Detangling Brush for Natural Hair, Detangler for 3/4abc Curly, Coily, Kinky Hair, Detangle Wet/Dry Easily with No Pain (Purple) https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B08GK63ZKZ/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apan_glt_fabc_XMQ9HEAPS331GA0ZJFF1?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Try out this brush if you haven’t already.