I've got some new padding that works better now. I've got gel toe tip pads for my big toes, lamb's wool to fill up the empty space in front of my other toes and one of those gel tip toe pillows for just my left foot (since I guess its slightly shorter than my right foot).
I also put my big toe spacer in a slightly different spot now. I put it higher up near the end of my big toes and not near the bottom. My big toe only slightly curves at the top and gets squashed further if I don't have a toe spacer there.
https://www.discountdance.com/dancewear/style_BH1051.html
https://www.discountdance.com/dancewear/style_GTTP.html
https://www.discountdance.com/dancewear/style_LLW.html
https://www.capezio.com/space-packr
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B002DYLVEU/
is all the stuff I currently use. Not in pain anymore.