Hey there, just ran across this post. Being a teen is hard even without SEDC. What helps make you attractive to other people is your confidence in yourself. People are attracted to confident people. Here is an example outside of the realm of LP.
A single guy goes out to a bar looking to meet someone. He has the appearance of being nervous, or perhaps he is trying too hard and not being genuine. People will tend to shy away from him.
Now imagine a married man going to the same bar to hang out with friends. He is more attractive to others as he is happy and himself as he doesn’t appear to be looking for a mate.
So instead of trying to meet people randomly. Think of something you enjoy or might like to try. Something you are enthusiastic about. And go someplace where other people do that. Your excitement and confidence will show, making you more attractive to possible new friendships and maybe even a relationship.
Give this book a read: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1542629357/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_XQV8KMWM5AW2BW9KXBXX