https://www.amazon.com/Calculus-Ron-Larson/dp/1285057090
I'm in high school taking Calc 1 and this textbook has lots of practice and guidance for each unit and subunit. Should be easy to find online
I also have this one (10th ed) but its not the one you want :/ https://www.amazon.com/Calculus-Ron-Larson/dp/1285057090
There isn't going to be a canonical list. Basically anything in a year and half college level Calc classes except div/grad/curl and epsilon/delta crap.
If you are a person that has never taken calculus or needs a review. Acetex made an actuary focused calc review. https://www.actexmadriver.com/OrderSelection.aspx
EDIT I Just looked over the table of context of a popular calc text. http://www.amazon.com/Calculus-Ron-Larson/dp/1285057090 I would do at least Chapters 1 to 9 Chapter 10 the part with polar coordinates. I remember at least one problem that could be solved easy with finding the area with polar coordinates. Chapters 13 and 14
so basically everything but vectors and some conics. But you don't know what weird area's they could throw at you so I would cover all of 10 just in case.
I'm not sure why the spam filter caught your comment; sorry about that. Stewart's Essential Calculus is basically an abridged version of the first three semesters of calculus. I've never actually gone through that one before, but it looks like it covers the most essential concepts. You might find it to be a useful supplement as you go through a more comprehensive text, or it might be the only text you need for a comprehensive review if you just need a refresher.
So there are a number of choices for introductory calculus textbooks, but Stewart is the giant in the room. He became quite wealthy publishing the by-far-most-often-used calculus textbook. However, people who self-study calculus often seem to feel that it is not pedagogical enough for their learning needs. That's why I recommend Larson's calculus textbook over Stewart's for people studying on their own (Larson also has extensive online resources you may find helpful). Hope that helps you make a choice! Good luck in your learning.