I don't know if you have a vibrator but to try it out get a Butterfly Kiss Vibrator from Amazon for really cheap. It's a great clitoral and g-spot vibrator that is gauranteed to give you an orgasm. I bought two for my lady friends and both told me they have had mind blowing orgasms. CalExotics Original Butterfly Kiss Vibrator - Multi-Speed Waterproof Vibe – Adult Sex Toys for Couples - Clitoral G Spot Massager – Pink https://www.amazon.com/dp/B001H55N7C/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_ztJwCbEPPR09D
I was 18. Bought this. It's a vibrator with a part that is supposed to vibrate against your g-spot too. Wanted one and this seemed like something simple and easy to hide. I grew out of it quickly and moved on to something else. I have quite a collection now.
For me, I've only been able to come with my hands while watching porn and high (I usually use a vibrator to get off). That tree makes all the difference in my sensitivity and my mental arousal (I can actually stay mentally aroused when I'm high, not so when I'm sober). I'll also note that when I masturbate with my hands I tend to prefer pressure, and normally using my hands for a long enough time (like 15 minutes) can make me feel kinda sore and irritated the next day, and my clit feels overly sensitive too. But when I'm high I don't need as much pressure or time to get off so I don't get that way the next day. Just my experience, but I'm really glad I found out that body hack for me.
Also, if you want more powerful orgasms, DEFINITELY try a vibrator :). I just got a new one (this one) and I really really like it. Good beginner vibe (since it's not very intimidating) and not too expensive. There's also a silicone model that's even more body safe, but costs a little more.
thank to her first and all that. but I don't think its weird at all. think it's nice you're taking her into consideration.
my suggestion 'bout to get real on you so, it hits all the right spots on me, its not obnox big/scary looking/etc, AND, bonus, the boy likes it too! hits all his nice places. Only real drawback is that in terms of an LDR, skype is kinda hard, because it blocks all the parts you wanna see.
The only toy I know that she uses to masturbate is a little egg like vibrator I picked up for her about a year ago from Babeland. I did pick up another for her a Butterfly Kiss recently. I used that on her and had to hold her down she squirmed so much, but I don't know if she uses that one on herself or not.
I live with my parents too so I understand. So I did a deep dive on my amazon purchased items list and here are the sex toys I own and recommend. I bought them because they all have tons of great reviews, are all 30 US dollars or less, and are the most innocent and not suspicious as sex toys can look lol. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B001H55N7C?tag=bfkaty-20&ascsubtag=4908649%2C3%2C29%2Cd%2C0%2C0%2Cgoogle%2C901%3A2%3B900%3A2%2C377798%2C0&th=1
If you can drive, having packages deliver to Amazon Hub Lockers is the best option to prevent your parents opening a package that they shouldn't. Here is a link to a page explaining how it works https://www.amazon.com/ulp Hope this helps cause I put way to much time into researching and writing this lol
Have a look at its reviews
So glad you asked! I'm creeping on all the other replies because I'm back in the market for a new one.
Because.... I bought what I consider to be an expensive one ($40). It was amazing- 7 speeds, silicone, small and discreet (it looked like a wide pen), water proof, DEFINITELY got the job done, silent, and it detached into a USB so it was rechargeable. The waterproof part was a bust and the USB rusted over. No big deal, it still worked. For about a week. Now it doesn't hold a charge at all. I bought it in spring of this year and it's garbage already. http://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=26627
However, I also bought a butterfly kiss (they're pretty popular) from The Red Door for $17, over a year ago) It's amazing to use alone (doesn't work well with a partner though because it's bulky and you insert it). It's waterproof and It takes 2 AAs and lasts pretty long. I think it has 3 or 5 speeds or something. http://www.amazon.com/California-Exotics-Butterfly-Kiss-Pink/dp/B001H55N7C
My best friend has a small bullet that I'm about to buy because she just loves it and it's small enough to slip between yourself and a partner during PIV relations, or for fun alone. She's had it about a year and claims it works "like a charm". Also it's so pretty! http://www.spencersonline.com/product/naughty/vibrators/bullets-egg-vibrators/golden-passion-bullet-vibrator/pc/2352/c/2355/sc/2359/24534.uts?thumbnailIndex=9
This thing https://www.extremerestraints.com/rabbit-vibrators_172/4-speed-bullet-bunny-vibrator_6013.html ....It's unbelievable. Like cum in two seconds unbelievable. But it's also hella loud. So make sure you're home alone or not bothered by everyone knowing exactly what you're up to. Also the non-remote part is water proof and it's great on battery. I forget what it takes (I think one or two AAAs).
Yea I have "butterfly kisses" http://www.amazon.com/California-Exotics-Butterfly-Kiss-Pink/dp/B001H55N7C
But I assume I just need to buy a better, more expensive one bc it was pretty much ineffective. What kind do u use?
Start small
My wife loves that one, sends her into deep convulsions
Thanks for the recommendation! I've heard great results about this http://www.amazon.com/California-Exotics-Butterfly-Kiss-Pink/dp/B001H55N7C The platinum edition is even better. It was always sold out!
Got this for my gf and she loves it.
http://www.amazon.com/California-Exotics-Butterfly-Kiss-Pink/dp/B001H55N7C
Bonus: It's ridiculously cheap and, therefore, suitable for your first playtoy experience.