Your #2 is getting toward Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, which I always recommend for people with generalized anxiety. It focuses on recognizing the anxious thoughts and accepting them as the product of your anxiety (to vastly oversimplify). You can learn/practice CBT with a traditional therapist, or on your own with books, podcasts, probably some Youtube videos. For instance, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Made Simple: 10 Strategies for Managing Anxiety, Depression, Anger, Panic, and Worry
Good luck!
Hey, sorry for the late reply. Books are: https://smile.amazon.com/Cognitive-Behavioral-Therapy-Made-Simple-ebook/dp/B07CH2PS4K/ref=sr_1_6?crid=3O2R6VAZQOTL4&dchild=1&keywords=cognitive+behavioral+therapy&qid=1635197965&s=books&sprefix=cognitive%2Cstripbooks%2C138&sr=1-6
Two of those are free with kindle unlimited if you have that. I have not ventured into Acceptance and Commitment therapy yet so I have no books to recommend but an easy search on amazon can help you find ones with the best reviews.
For subreddits I suggest: r/cbt r/CBTpractice r/act r/psychology r/PsychotherapyHelp r/psychotherapists r/therapists r/therapy r/PsychologicalTricks r/AcademicPsychology r/acceptancecommitment
Glad to help.
When I was studying CBT, I found that the books that gave anecdotes from patients to be helpful. It helped me learn that I wasn't alone with the feelings I was having.
I tried this book, but I didn't care much for it. I'm a bit intellectual, and the writing felt kinda dumbbed down to me.
I read this book, it was good an bad. It's more of a training manual for therapists, but the writing was to my liking.
I don't exercise as much as I should. It's the sort of thing that you need to make into a routine. Force yourself to do it 3 times a week, for a month. Once it's a habit, you will feel off if you don't do it.
Also, be careful with weed if you do give it a try. It's a mood amplifier. It's great when you're in a great mood, but terrible when you're not. and as with any drug, learn the dosage/usage instructions, the side effects, and contraindications (which things not to mix it with)
I recommend a sativa heavy strain. Avoid anything where users have reported "couch lock". Check leafly.com