Np, weddings do bring out the nutty when the people that love us most are involved.
Btw, I don't know if you're familiar with this, but Conscious Bride's Wedding Planner had a tonne of information to help with all the 'unsaid stuff' regarding weddings, as well as being excellent functioning planner/agenda. I heard the companion book may be too spiritual/wishy-washy for some, but the planner really helped me get my wedding focus on. Perhaps worth checking out - even if you do one of those vegas style chapels :D Congrats again!