{"product":{"product_id":"0385347375","title":"Dataclysm: Who We Are (When We Think No One's Looking)","price":"1.56","image_url":"https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/519eV1eNJlL._SL500_.jpg","url":"https://www.amazon.com/dp/0385347375"},"comments":[{"body":"The graph is from [Christian Rudder's *Dataclysm*](http://www.amazon.com/Dataclysm-When-Think-Ones-Looking/dp/0385347375), he is a skilled data scientist and he has access to the largest and most detailed collections of data regarding how we date and form interpersonal relationships.  It's a very interesting book and much of it is especially relevant to the subjects of this sub.","subreddit_name":"PurplePillDebate","author":"relationshipdownvote"},{"body":"Interesting, I think 10 million is a pretty high approximation. Generally speaking, startups (like Tinder) do a shitty job at leveraging (and monetizing) their data. OkCupid on the other hand... [nails it](http://www.amazon.com/Dataclysm-When-Think-Ones-Looking/dp/0385347375). Then again, it was founded by mathematicians.","subreddit_name":"Tinder","author":"KarmaCatalyst"},{"body":"The OKCupid studies she's referencing can be found in [this book written by one of the site's founders](http://www.amazon.com/Dataclysm-When-Think-Ones-Looking/dp/0385347375). It's much better thought out than the rambling speech in this video and even has better jokes. ","subreddit_name":"todayilearned","author":"UniverseCity"},{"body":"Did you know that the founder of OkCupid wrote a book... using all of the data he collected from the site. It's quite possibly one of the most fascinating dissections of human behavior. It's appropriately titled, ['Dataclysm: Who We Are (When We Think No One's Looking)'](http://www.amazon.com/Dataclysm-When-Think-Ones-Looking/dp/0385347375).","subreddit_name":"OkCupid","author":"KarmaCatalyst"},{"body":"Women talking\r\n\r\n [https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/089858989290018R](https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/089858989290018R) \r\n\r\n [https://timedotcom.files.wordpress.com/2017/06/d3375-genderandlanguageintheworkplace.pdf](https://timedotcom.files.wordpress.com/2017/06/d3375-genderandlanguageintheworkplace.pdf) \r\n\r\nWomen going for people roughly their own age\r\n\r\n [https://www.businessinsider.com/dataclysm-shows-men-are-attracted-to-women-in-their-20s-2014-10](https://www.businessinsider.com/dataclysm-shows-men-are-attracted-to-women-in-their-20s-2014-10) \r\n\r\nSource book:  [https://www.amazon.ca/dp/0385347375/ref=sr\\_1\\_1?keywords=dataclysm\u0026amp;ie=UTF8\u0026amp;sr=8-1\u0026amp;linkCode=gs2\u0026amp;tag=bica09-20](https://www.amazon.ca/dp/0385347375/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=dataclysm\u0026amp;ie=UTF8\u0026amp;sr=8-1\u0026amp;linkCode=gs2\u0026amp;tag=bica09-20)","subreddit_name":"Feminism","author":"Eager_Question"},{"body":"Youth? Funny how data shows that men of almost any age prefer women in their early 20s while women have a more proportional age preference\r\n\r\nSource: https://metro.co.uk/2019/02/22/men-regardless-age-will-always-attracted-women-early-20s-8718590/\r\n\r\nThis is the book they got it from: https://www.amazon.com/Dataclysm-When-Think-Ones-Looking/dp/0385347375/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8\u0026amp;qid=1412948960\u0026amp;sr=8-1\u0026amp;keywords=dataclysm","subreddit_name":"IncelTear","author":"dummy-but-loves-math"},{"body":"I suppose you mean this [graph](https://i.pinimg.com/originals/71/20/31/712031e5d7e0bf2a4e884782a0b844f6.jpg).\r\n\r\nAlthough I couldn't find the source for it, I think it's an easier-to-read version of the graphs on these articles:\r\n\r\n[https://www.businessinsider.com/dataclysm-shows-men-are-attracted-to-women-in-their-20s-2014-10](https://www.businessinsider.com/dataclysm-shows-men-are-attracted-to-women-in-their-20s-2014-10)\r\n\r\n[https://metro.co.uk/2019/02/22/men-regardless-age-will-always-attracted-women-early-20s-8718590/#:\\~:text=In%20short%2C%20heterosexual%20men%20will,to%20be%20into%20older%20men](https://metro.co.uk/2019/02/22/men-regardless-age-will-always-attracted-women-early-20s-8718590/#:~:text=In%20short%2C%20heterosexual%20men%20will,to%20be%20into%20older%20men).\r\n\r\nWhich come from the book [Dataclysm: Who We Are (When We Think No One's Looking) by Christian Rudder](https://www.amazon.com/dp/0385347375/).","subreddit_name":"worldnews","author":"SparklyMonster"},{"body":"https://metro.co.uk/2019/02/22/men-regardless-age-will-always-attracted-women-early-20s-8718590/\r\n\r\nIgnore the article, check the graphs. When, on the whole, men of literally all ages find 20-21 year old women the most attractive, him saying that as a 25-26 year old isn't all that suspect.\r\n\r\nYou can google it, you'll find numerous sources but that one is from here apparently:\r\nhttps://www.amazon.com/Dataclysm-When-Think-Ones-Looking/dp/0385347375/","subreddit_name":"relationship_advice","author":"zBodacious"},{"body":"Le tableau est une remake de ce tableau ci-dessous, qui provient du livre Dataclysme.\r\n\r\nL'article qui a le nouveau tableau :  [https://blogs.sas.com/content/sastraining/2014/10/16/how-do-men-rate-women-on-dating-websites-part-2/](https://blogs.sas.com/content/sastraining/2014/10/16/how-do-men-rate-women-on-dating-websites-part-2/) \r\n\r\nLe livre d'ou est tiré les données :\r\n\r\n [https://www.amazon.com/Dataclysm-When-Think-Ones-Looking/dp/0385347375/ref=sr\\_1\\_1?ie=UTF8\u0026amp;qid=1413466610\u0026amp;sr=8-1\u0026amp;keywords=dataclysm](https://www.amazon.com/Dataclysm-When-Think-Ones-Looking/dp/0385347375/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8\u0026amp;qid=1413466610\u0026amp;sr=8-1\u0026amp;keywords=dataclysm) \r\n\r\nUn article de reddit avec la source du livre :\r\n\r\n [https://www.reddit.com/r/OkCupid/comments/2pac0i/men\\_youre\\_ugly\\_women\\_80\\_percent\\_of\\_men\\_are\\_below/](https://www.reddit.com/r/OkCupid/comments/2pac0i/men_youre_ugly_women_80_percent_of_men_are_below/) \r\n\r\n\u0026amp;#x200B;\r\n\r\n\u0026amp;#x200B;\r\n\r\nLe tableau a tellement été un choc, que je crois me souvenir que OkCUpid l'a enlevé de son blog, qui contient par contre plein d'autres tableaux intéréssants :\r\n\r\n [https://theblog.okcupid.com/a-womans-advantage-82d5074dde2d](https://theblog.okcupid.com/a-womans-advantage-82d5074dde2d)","subreddit_name":"MGTOW_SuisseRomande","author":"MGTOWch"},{"body":"A cool book about exactly that: [Dataclysm](https://www.amazon.com/Dataclysm-When-Think-Ones-Looking/dp/0385347375/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8\u0026amp;qid=\u0026amp;sr=\u0026amp;dpID=519eV1eNJlL\u0026amp;preST=_SY344_BO1,204,203,200_QL70_\u0026amp;dpSrc=detail)","subreddit_name":"technology","author":"ABaseDePopopopop"},{"body":"Only in older (35ishish +) women. Even then, they prefer older men in general but not necessarily older than themselves.\r\n\r\nhttp://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/the-case-for-an-older-woman/\r\n\r\nhttp://www.amazon.com/Dataclysm-When-Think-Ones-Looking/dp/0385347375   \r\n\r\nhttp://fivethirtyeight.com/features/christian-rudder-dataclysm-okcupid/","subreddit_name":"movies","author":"Jibrish"},{"body":"They didn't. He's the founder of the company and he wrote a book on the subject of dating preferences.\r\n\r\nhttp://www.amazon.com/Dataclysm-When-Think-Ones-Looking/dp/0385347375","subreddit_name":"AskMen","author":"birdwontquit"},{"body":"* [Maxing my base in Clash of Clans.](http://www.clashofclansguidehq.com/th8-upgrade-order/)\r\n* [Propagating cacti and succulents.](http://www.themarthablog.com/2013/04/rooting-cut-succulents.html)\r\n* [Finding new ways to prepare prosciutto.](http://slice.seriouseats.com/archives/2012/02/top-this-cherry-jones-a-la-paulie-gees.html)\r\n* [Watching \"Deadman Wonderland\".](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Deadman_Wonderland)\r\n* [Reading about how creepy OkCupid is.](http://www.amazon.com/Dataclysm-When-Think-Ones-Looking/dp/0385347375)","subreddit_name":"AskWomen","author":"lifeisfractal"},{"body":"K  \r\n [https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2018/08/online-dating-out-of-your-league/567083/](https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2018/08/online-dating-out-of-your-league/567083/)   \r\n [https://metro.co.uk/2019/02/22/men-regardless-age-will-always-attracted-women-early-20s-8718590/](https://metro.co.uk/2019/02/22/men-regardless-age-will-always-attracted-women-early-20s-8718590/)   \r\n [https://www.amazon.de/dp/0385347375/ref=sr\\_1\\_1?keywords=dataclysm\u0026amp;ie=UTF8\u0026amp;sr=8-1\u0026amp;linkCode=gs2\u0026amp;tag=busines06-21](https://www.amazon.de/dp/0385347375/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=dataclysm\u0026amp;ie=UTF8\u0026amp;sr=8-1\u0026amp;linkCode=gs2\u0026amp;tag=busines06-21)   \r\n [https://www.nytimes.com/2018/08/15/style/dating-apps-online-men-women-age.html](https://www.nytimes.com/2018/08/15/style/dating-apps-online-men-women-age.html)   \r\n [https://theblog.okcupid.com/the-case-for-an-older-woman-99d8cabacdf5](https://theblog.okcupid.com/the-case-for-an-older-woman-99d8cabacdf5)","subreddit_name":"TIHI","author":"[deleted]"},{"body":"Christian Rudder's book, [Dataclysm](https://www.amazon.com/Dataclysm-When-Think-Ones-Looking/dp/0385347375), estimates about 5% of the population is gay (around 1 in 20), with a good explanation of the methodology used.  The [wikipedia article](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_sexual_orientation) gives much lower estimates, with an explanation of why those numbers are the way they are.\r\n\r\nIf you're willing to use 5% as a baseline, divide the *Enterprise's* crew total by 20, and that's your [expected value](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Expected_value) for gay crew.","subreddit_name":"movies","author":"Surprise_Buttsecks"}]}