What is Reddit's opinion of Date or Soul Mate?: How to Know if Someone is Worth Pursuing in Two Dates or Less?

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I went through a useful exercise of "must haves/can't stands" because you can only select 10, and then prioritize. They can be found in this book: Date or Soulmate. If you like worksheets, this is a helpful exercise.

All that said, I suspect you might be like many of us women, you can meet a ton of fabulous single women, who have their lives together, friendly, attractive, oh to be a guy. But the male population that has "dateable" qualities, usually only wants a much younger woman. That means the ones willing to date their own age, that meet your criteria, are going to be very popular.

Your experience may be completely different than mine, and I hope it is. I wish I was sexually attracted to women, but I am not. That said, I may end up at some point in my life, living with a friend (ala Golden Girls).

Vetting is a woman’s greatest tool for making probably the biggest determiner for the happiness of her daily life—who she marries. I know you know that, just that it bears repeating. :) Yeah, vet that man like your mother or grandmother. Look for all the flags you can. Ask the questions. I wished someone would have asked me, “Yeah, it feels like a drug feeling wanted by someone you also like. But do you really want and desire this, deep down in your gut, with peace that is different than the butterflies. And what are your dreams and vision for life, before you even met this guy? You owe it to yourself. A book that helped me to figure out what I wanted is by Neil Clark Warren, the founder of eharmony.com, one of the first online dating sites. Good luck!