Hmm. So that takes everything I was thinking about recommending off the table (sex toys can be pretty expensive!) For under $20, the only thing I can personally recommend would be the original pocket rocket. It's small and discreet, but packs a powerful punch for clitoral stimulation. There is a reason it's a classic.
http://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Original-Pocket-Vibrator/dp/B0007N5DSO
I had a $10 generic pocket rocket that was surprising strong. I replaced it with another type when it broke, not quite as strong but still good.(one setting though) this is not the brand but it looks like this.
Just upgraded to a We Vibe Tango, multiple mode, clitoral vibe. Very strong, deep vibrations and we are very pleased with it so far but its on the pricey side.
Have a look for something called the "Pocket Rocket". It's the first one my wife ever had, and it absolutely revolutionized her feeling toward masturbation.
Here's the one:
http://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Original-Pocket-Vibrator/dp/B0007N5DSO
I've actually had that exact vibrator before. But after a while (few months maybe) the on/off switch at the bottom stopped working properly and eventually the whole thing stopped working. For some reason, they toys I've gotten seem to be novelty only and poorly made. Even the $50 toys eventually broke for no real reason besides "wear and tear" lol.
My personal favorites are the ones that look like this. They're relatively cheap, they work great, and they last. They've outlasted all my other toys and I'm not devastated if it does break.
As far as lube goes, I like water based because I don't feel gross and oily "down there" once everything is over. Some toys "recommend" a certain type of lube, though.
Good luck on your journey! Trial and error seem to be the best thing for this kind of stuff. I hope the two of you have lots of fun. My guess is, anything you buy her will be a good night for you both. :)
This topic is irrelevant. Modern technology has solved the female orgasms. Every man needs to spend the $14.95 for one of these..
http://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Original-Pocket-Vibrator/dp/B0007N5DSO
so that their women can orgasm. Every. Single. Time.
http://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Original-Pocket-Vibrator/dp/B0007N5DSO Introducing the Pocket Rocket Vibrator (I have recommended this so many times in the last few days) A wonderful assist during sex or for you to use by herself. During sex, you use this on your clit while you're on top and are rocking front to back. This combination always got me off with my ex even when nothing else would. Or just use it in any other position. But I found that to be the best for myself.
I used to feel the same way as you until I met my current boyfriend. It's as if we are sexually made for each other. I am now (as you said) "screamingly excited by intercourse". Before him, I often was meh on sex. But now I'm fiendish. I don't want this to make you think that your boyfriend is not a good sexual partner for you though. You could just be a person who is not screamingly excited by intercourse ;-) Sorry if this was useless advice...
http://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Original-Pocket-Vibrator/dp/B0007N5DSO Pocket Rocket Vibrator (I think this is the 4th time today I have recommended this) A wonderful assist during sex or use by yourself. During sex, use this on your clit while you are on top and are rocking front to back. This always got me off with my ex. Or try doggie with your legs together with or without the vibrator. These are positions that work great for me.
http://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Original-Pocket-Vibrator/dp/B0007N5DSO Introducing the Pocket Rocket Vibrator (I have reccomended this so many times in the last few days) A wonderful assist during sex or for her to use by herself. During sex, she uses this on her clit while she's on top and is rocking front to back. This combination always got me off with my ex even when nothing else would. One that's been working great for me recently is doggie with my legs together with or without the vibrator. I highly recommend giving that first position with the vibrator a try. This vibrator is cheap and great (although a bit loud). I've been using mine for almost a year.
I use to have that happen when I was in my early teens. Try the Pocket Rocket Vibrator on your clit.. Warning, it's a bit loud. http://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Original-Pocket-Vibrator/dp/B0007N5DSO If you're having sex, use this on your clit while you're on top and are rocking front to back.
http://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Original-Pocket-Vibrator/dp/B0007N5DSO <<< Pocket Rocket Vibrator is what i use solo and during sex. It's amazing and cheap. It's a bit loud though... but then again, most of the good, cheap vibrators are. I have been using mine for about a year now and I absolutely love it.
http://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Original-Pocket-Vibrator/dp/B0007N5DSO Introducing the Pocket Rocket Vibrator (I have reccomended this so many times in the last few days) A wonderful assist during sex or for her to use by herself. A long time ago, for a period of time, I took a medication that killed my libido and all sexual function. I took a female libido pill for a little while to help it come back and while it was dripping back, there was only one technique that would get me off. During sex, she uses this vibrator on her clit while she's on top and is rocking front to back. One that's been working great for me recently is doggie with my legs together with or without the vibrator. This vibrator is cheap and great (although a bit loud). I've been using mine for almost a year.
>pocket rockets
Get her an Original Pocket Rocket too! (linky sorta SFW)
If you're looking for strictly clitoral stimulation, it's hard to beat the original pocket rocket for the price.
https://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Original-Pocket-Rocket/dp/B0007N5DSO
If money isn't a concern, try the lelo line up.. They have pretty much every kind you would want, and they're a very premium product.
Hope that helps!
I have, the Pocket Rocket takes just one AA
I've heard great things about those pocket rockets
My girl loves her pocket rocket; simple but very effective. She claims to use it twice a day! http://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Original-Pocket-Vibrator/dp/B0007N5DSO and inexpensive $17. She will thank you over and over and over again.
http://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Original-Pocket-Vibrator/dp/B0007N5DSO
is one of my favorites... They're very cheap, and use easily available AA batteries. It's not the best, but an inexpensive option that usually works for me.
Try a Pocket Rocket. Very cheap.
http://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Original-Pocket-Vibrator/dp/B0007N5DSO
http://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Original-Pocket-Vibrator/dp/B0007N5DSO Introducing the Pocket Rocket Vibrator! Use it solo or during sex. During my previous relationship towards the end when my sex drive died and I was no longer physically attracted to my boyfriend I could still get off every time we fucked by being on top, rocking back and forth, and using this vibrator on my clit.
Also, try making sex not boring/predictable. Role playing, new locations, BDSM, threesomes, new positions, toys, etc.
For a dead sex drive maybe try rekindle the romance in the relationship. Go on romantic dates to remind yourself why you found him so sexy in the first place. Try a male pheromone roll-on/spray or female libido pills. I took a medication awhile ago that killed all sexual function so my doctor told me to take these libido pills called Prime Time: Female Libido Formula http://www.nutrametrix.com/tymd/index.cfm?action=shopping.nSearch
Hope this helps!
http://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Original-Pocket-Vibrator/dp/B0007N5DSO Introducing the Pocket Rocket Vibrator! Use it solo or during sex. I have been using mine for almost a year now. It's cheap and awesome.