Film Lighting by Kris Malkiewicz is a great book that explains the uses and technical aspects of different types of lighting and interviews world famous DPs and gaffers about each type of light and has set-up diagrams and on-set and production photos. Lots to learn from this book.
The first thing that came to my mind is the book Film Lighting by Kris Malkiewicz. The book is largely a discussion with various DPs and gaffers, so it may be helpful for you. It was about 20 years old when I first read it in college 20 years ago, so you're looking at big names from the 70s and early 80s. I see that there was a new edition published in 2012, so that may be more relevant to you.
https://www.amazon.com/Film-Lighting-Hollywoods-Cinematographers-Gaffers/dp/1439169063
Some people have mentioned the Team Deakins podcast. One that stands out to me is the interview with Rachel Morrison--she talks about working with gaffers the division of responsibility varies with different relationships.
Read this book. It's fantastic!