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It's a cheap one on Amazon, here is the link:
Thanks for the input!
I looked on amazon, and this was the closest I could find (link).
Is that the one you got? If not, can you link the one you got?
Waist strap is definitely a game changer for growers. For first timers I usually get a knockoff on Amazon - they come with multiple rings and are fairly inexpensive, but you also get what you pay for. That being said, have had no problem with them and is a good way to determine if you want to spend extra to get the real thing (which is always better).
Will usually get one of these for a new sub:
For the flaccid size you provided, the large in the first link, or standard in the second, is probably a good place to start.
They also have a strap of dubious quality on amazon, but etsy might be a better bet:
I got this one from amazon
for real, you can get a decent cage for $20, I wore it for a week straight (with daily cleaning)
Even if not long term every sissy should have a cage for just play time. As a sissy myself I'll buy you the one I have, no strings attached.
Pick a color and size and message me.
I just grabbed a cheaper one on amazon, it's my first one, and it seems like a pretty fun starter! I'm loving it already