Not sure why people are making fun of the OP. The OP asked how he can have this style. He didn't ask for people's opinion.
Anyways... it seems like you need to get your hair short and use hair product. I found this the other day, it's called "Gatsby Hair Wax." I think you can only get it on Amazon since it's a Japanese product.
GATSBY MOVING RUBBER SPIKY EDGE Hair Wax, 80g/2.8oz https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000V2ACH8/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_i_QB0FA0STY3X3D60DNH0P
I personally haven't used it gatsby hair products but I have seen someone use it on youtube and the videos provided on Amazon. This may be what you're looking for.
This hair wax is light and hold great. I recommend it for your hairstyle
I use about an pea size amounts. Maybe 3-4 for you but don't necessarily work it into your hair. It's more of a shield for the outside and holds all day. I beg you to try it at least. I've purchased many and this one makes your hair look fuller and thicker
you should check out the Gatsby Spike Edge Wax here. I have used it before, really good for creating spikes! Pretty sure would work on you since you mentioned that you have thin hair as well
I'd suggest Gatsby (pink container). It's strong enough for me to easily mold my straight Asian hair!
I use one index finger worth of this gatsby, spread it between the length of my index/middle finger tip and lightly run those 4 fingers (2 on each hand) over my head. I think this is a tiny amount, at the rate I go I could probably do a few years with 1 purchase. I don't touch my scalp at all but by the end of the day though my scalp feels like it's had product through it and I feel horrible if I go to sleep with it. If I shampoo it out, the scalp feels like the product combined with the water to sink into the scalp which is why I'm questioning if there's something I'm doing wrong. Because of this I rarely style my hair (once a month if not at all).
Your reminder that the hair past the follicle being dead does make me feel better though if my hair is styled, the scalp is noticeably uncomfortable at the end of the day. Do you wash your hair everyday (with shampoo) to get the product out? What does your day to day look like? I should probably visit a dermatologist too but that last one I saw was a waste of time as he didn't do anything just repeating that I'm fine
look into Gatsby Wax. it's $10 and I would choose the pink color. It has another hold
Another popular is a Clay from Hanz De Fuko. That one is a bit more harder to obtain on the internet.
I see you've tried HDF did you try claymation that's a good one.
This stuff has really really strong hold if you want something for super strong hold and matte check out the reviews some guy did a video and im sure you can find more videos on youtube.
http://www.amazon.com/GATSBY-MOVING-RUBBER-SPIKY-2-8oz/dp/B000V2ACH8
it's commonly referred to as pink gatsby.
Probably some sort of wax, clay or paste.
I remember Gatsby was pretty popular back in the early 2010s (my observation, at least). https://www.amazon.com/GATSBY-MOVING-RUBBER-SPIKY-2-8oz/dp/B000V2ACH8
So uh, no reply from OP yet. Anyways, here's the video of the Gatsby Pink I was talking about from Style06com on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YSP9tmfViNw
You should check out more of his reviews to get a sense of what might work for you. Again, he says that he has finer hair and recommends that if you do have thicker hair, try to thin it out. Try investing in your own hair clipping kit too to maintain your hair in between cuts or to do it yourself: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YPw0mtnxBns
Additionally, the most helpful review on Amazon is a video which really sold me on to trying out Gatsby Pink. http://www.amazon.com/GATSBY-MOVING-RUBBER-SPIKY-2-8oz/dp/B000V2ACH8/ Unfortunately, it looks like this product is now an add-on item. I was able to get my with Prime shipping before. About the same price though, I think.
Both products, Perfect Hold and Spiky Edge, don't make your hair rock-hard so they won't leave any white solidified flake. You can even re-style your hair after awhile you first apply them- this may make you think that these waxes are not strong but they really are(especially the spiky edge). It's hard to describe their texture so see this video FYI: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UH6SUHBIy9c
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Moving Rubber Spiky Edge is definitely on the strong side of holding. If strong hold is your priority, I'd say try Spiky Edge first. If you want natural style and yet strong hold for a day, I recommend style with wax/cream first and finish with spray.
Where you can buy:
Moving Rubber Spiky Edge: https://www.amazon.com/GATSBY-MOVING-RUBBER-SPIKY-2-8oz/dp/B000V2ACH8/ref=sr_1_2_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1538966536&sr=8-2&keywords=gatsby%2Bspiky%2Bedge&dpID=51j0gvw558L&preST=_SY300_QL70_&dpSrc=srch&th=1
Perfect Hold Wax Extra Hard: https://www.amazon.com/Gatsby-Perfect-Hold-Wax-Extra/dp/B001GQ2ED8/ref=sr_1_1_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1538966703&sr=8-1&keywords=Gatsby+Perfect+Hold+Wax+-+Extra+Hard&dpID=41sprgdTXgL&preST=_SY300_QL70_&dpSrc=srch