Anything by Margaret Neale. http://www.amazon.com/Getting-More-What-You-Want-ebook/dp/B00X2ZW8FK/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1463988935&sr=1-1&refinements=p_27%3AMargaret+A.+Neale
(That's an example, non-commissioned link and I have no association with her other than that I've seen her speak)