He was saying, I was acting elitist. And I agreed with him.
Somehow you, a third party got confused with our basic interaction.
Also nice shot in the dark with the backstory. Interesting but I think you can add some more layers to it.
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Aw, telling me I don't need to write paragraphs. The thing is, I do need to. So it's easier for others to read and understand. It's called formatting. Try it sometime?
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That should help too :)
I'm having trouble deciphering your point from all of this noise.