{"product":{"product_id":"B07W1PVNFC","title":"Couples Game Deck by BestSelf ― 150 Engaging Conversation Starters for Couples to Strengthen Their Relationship, Romance, Trust \u0026 Openness ― Best Couples Gifts, Romantic Gift and Couple Game","price":"24.7","image_url":"https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/41Kf-xdBQ4L._SL500_.jpg","url":"https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07W1PVNFC"},"comments":[{"body":"I was in your shoes just a few weeks ago. I get what you mean my poor husband has not had sex since we had our child more then once twice a month. What helped us and me change this is by me telling my husband my fantasy. I have told him how to turn me on. In return that has turned me into a sex freak again. I cannot get enough of him. Maybe it is just time for a conversation of how can I get you into the mood. What is your sexual fantasy. Also best self cards have changed it as well. Intimacy Deck by BestSelf — 150 Engaging Conversation Starters for Couples to Strengthen Their Relationship, Romance, Trust, Openness and Vulnerability — Best Couple Card Game and Romantic Gift https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07W1PVNFC/ref=cm_sw_r_fm_apa_fabc_J1AWA47E2F5ADNR3GVTN?_encoding=UTF8\u0026amp;psc=1 these cards have changed my sex life. Also be patient with her. She is not happy with her lack of sexual drive for you. It is very emotional for her to not want you asuch as she once did. It is just as hard for her to not want you as it is for you. Please do yourself a favor buy the cards and try to get into what emotionally you can do to help her. Also another thing is the five love languages book https://www.amazon.com/dp/080241270X/ref=cm_sw_r_fm_apa_fabc_RYEK8AC13427MN978FT0 both of you read this and then talk about how you two can get closer. It is possible to come back from this as long as you start to talk now and wait for it to get worse.","subreddit_name":"Marriage","author":"AdIntelligent8494"},{"body":"https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07W1PVNFC/ref=cm_sw_r_fm_apa_fabc_J1AWA47E2F5ADNR3GVTN?_encoding=UTF8\u0026amp;psc=1","subreddit_name":"Marriage","author":"AdIntelligent8494"},{"body":"I'm going to give you some LDR advice from someone who was in the same boat (actually worse because no direct flights and it was a 10-12 hour drive) and some life advice here:\r\n\r\n* LDR - before you move, figure out a schedule for how often and in which ways you want to stay in touch. A good morning text? Daily video call before bed? You can always talk about changing it later as your lives change but this will give you something to look forward to and set expectations so it's one less thing to worry about, and will help with the missing him part.\r\n* LDR - Have something in common other than your lives to talk about. Maybe each read a chapter of the same book a week and talk about it. Or pick a news story to talk about. My boyfriend and I bought [these cards](https://smile.amazon.com/Intimacy-Deck-BestSelf-Conversation-Vulnerability/dp/B07W1PVNFC?sa-no-redirect=1) I saw on Amazon; he'd text me the day's question in the morning and we'd talk about it in the evening. Whatever floats your boat.\r\n* LDR - don't get frustrated if he doesn't remember the previous things you talk about or you have other communication issues (e.g. \"what do you mean you don't remember who Ella is, that one grad student that walked in on my lab that one time?\") because no matter how much you try, it's harder to focus when not in person and you lose a lot of body language even on video calls.\r\n* Life/LDR - the fact that you worry when you see each other daily is something you're going to have to really REALLY work on by yourself. Dig into what that worry is coming from, since you said it's not cheating. You're going to face a lot more of that when you have less contact and it'll be a relationship killer as well as distract you from your studies and new life.\r\n* Life - It's totally ok to be scared but don't let the fear hold you back in trying new things or fully living your life just because you're worried about change. Change is inevitable and if you keep yourself from embracing that change, you'll set the pattern for your life to always be afraid of it and in the meantime, will have lost so many opportunities for growth and fun. I gave up a dream job because I would have to move away from my boyfriend and I was scared; I still think about that almost 20 years later.\r\n* Life - even living together, people grow and change and often not in ways that are compatible. If you do find yourselves in a position where you just have nothing in common anymore except history, be the braver person and let him go. It'll be easier now than when you graduate because you'll be able to immerse yourself in school and you're so far apart. Vet school is HARD and time consuming; even in person there's a good chance that you won't have time to dedicate to a relationship.\r\n* Life - you're young, he's young. You have your whole lives ahead of you. Your brains haven't even finished developing. Most relationships at this point don't last because you're changing so fast and so much at this age that you grow into very different people very quickly, let alone survive distance. It's ok. It sucks, it hurts, but you will be ok. But if you do use this chance to learn to communicate well with each other, allow yourselves to support and be supported while still growing in your own ways, and to love wholeheartedly, you will set yourself up for success whether with him or in the future with someone else.","subreddit_name":"RelationshipsOver35","author":"AotKT"},{"body":"Gamechanger right here\r\n\r\nhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B07W1PVNFC/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_HJ6HH5YG4R9QVPXP9A64?_encoding=UTF8\u0026amp;psc=1","subreddit_name":"MDMA","author":"aiden_p1"},{"body":"This is their website: https://bestself.co/products/intimacy-deck?variant=29444525654085\u0026amp;gclid=EAIaIQobChMInozb4ufj6QIVEtvACh1s-ADmEAQYASABEgJ-KPD_BwE. \r\nBut you can also find it on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Intimacy-Deck-BestSelf-Conversation-Vulnerability/dp/B07W1PVNFC","subreddit_name":"LDR","author":"purpleflower-1608"}]}