Yeah as a barber it tied a few tonics on myself and clients but I generally needed something with alcohol in it so idk if I could recommend one. There’s a brand called Jack Black that is pretty expensive but their bump stopper and their oil called “MP-10” are phenomenal on my scalp. The bump stop is totally better than Bactine and if I remember correctly witch hazel might be an ingredient.
Edit: Jack Black MP 10 Nourishing Oil, 2 Fl Oz https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00CUF29WU/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glc_fabc_dlC_TxuZFbXQ43BRF?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I have (I think) similar hair. I highly recommend Jack Black Epic Moisture Nourishing Oil, it has worked wonders for me.
https://www.amazon.com/Jack-Black-Epic-Moisture-Nourishing/dp/B00CUF29WU