As a destroyerman myself, I highly recommend "Japanese Destroyer Captain" by Tamaichi Hara.
Japanese Destroyer Captain: Pearl Harbor, Guadalcanal, Midway - The Great Naval Battles as Seen Through Japanese Eyes https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00CW0T4HQ/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_70MC1FYMK4GMYXBH527G
He was one of Japan's most successful destroyer commanders in WWII and helped pioneer long range night torpedo tactics before the war.
The obvious book from the American perspective is "Last Stand of the Tin Can Sailors" but that's just one of the best history books period!
The captain of the cruiser Yahagi, Captain Tameichi Hara, beat the odds and survived the war. His memoirs Japanese Destroyer Captain are an excellent read and glance into a side of the war most westerners don't hear about.
Not really sure about US Navy, but there are quite a few on the Japanese Navy that could be turned into a mini-series.
Japanese Destroyer Captain comes to mind for me - https://www.amazon.com/Japanese-Destroyer-Captain-Tameichi-Hara-ebook/dp/B00CW0T4HQ
Uh, there is one already? Just pick the correct edition in the link I posted, or just check here ?