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Logitech g pro wireless is the best mouse I've ever owned. Just saying. It has no latency issues even in 360 fps shooters
Combine that with this lap desk or similar.
Alternatively, you could just get the actual Xbox wireless dangle for pc around 40 bucks
I kept having this problem since I would do work in bed and it would overheat like crazy. I started using a lap desk and having a hard surface helps a lot! I would definitely recommend. Something like this