{"product":{"product_id":"B00005M1WE","title":"Magic Wand Massager","price":"54.99","image_url":"https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/31cJwUMeddL._SL500_.jpg","url":"https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00005M1WE"},"comments":[{"body":"my bad, misread.\r\n\r\nA little silver bullet can do the trick but if you really want to save up and surprise her one day try [this](https://www.amazon.com/VIBRATEX-HV-260-Magic-Wand-Massager/dp/B00005M1WE). Comes down to preference but basically most powerful/high acclaimed \"massager\" on the market.","subreddit_name":"trippinthroughtime","author":"Shroffinator"},{"body":"srs I do not understand the cult following of the Lelo products. they look weird, the performance is suboptimal, and they're EXPENSIVE.  but then again, I'm a fan of [the actual Punisher](https://www.amazon.com/VIBRATEX-HV-260-Hitachi-Magic-Massager/dp/B00005M1WE), so take my advice with several grains of salt. ","subreddit_name":"ffacj","author":"thatswhatthisisanegg"},{"body":"I'm going to expand on my comment a bit. \r\n\r\n[This](https://www.amazon.com/VIBRATEX-HV-260-Magic-Wand-Massager/dp/B00005M1WE) is the current version of the Magic Wand. Hitachi sold to rights to the manufacturer (Vibratex I believe) a number of years ago. The true Vibratex produced version has two setting Low (5000 RPM) and High (6000 RPM) and the bezel around the switch is square with a blue insert. \r\n\r\nMany Amazon listings show the Wand with a speed controller, or other accessories. I'd highly recommend avoiding those as the wand manufacturer is unknown. If you decide you need attachments or (for whatever reason) a speed control purchase those as a separate item but use the link I posted for the purchase itself. \r\n\r\nNow, none of this helps you if you're outside of North America. There is no Euro version of the Hitichi. Vibratex never made a model that was directly compatible with the 220v-240v standard found throughout most of the world. There are plenty of other manufacturer producing wind type massagers, but I can't speak to their quality of effectiveness. \r\n\r\nIf you're in Canada you can still order from Amazon, just select other sellers and order from *etailz* they sell the correct product and ship internationally, though it'll cost a few dollars more for shipping, and the trip take 7-14 days. ","subreddit_name":"sex","author":"demons8mybaby"},{"body":"My husband and I had a really long dry spell after our second kid. It was terrible and the longer it went on, the more we both built it up in our heads. It was over a year as well OP and i wasn’t sure we’d ever find that kind of intimacy together again. We did. What worked was scheduled sex. For you guys I’d just set aside some time each week to be together. Having the set time took any guess work out of it and gave me time to get my head in the game. Those days I made sure to shave my legs, etc. I would also gift her a vibrator. They have these big wand ones that don’t look like sex toys. Something like this…\r\n\r\nhttps://www.amazon.com/Original-Magic-Wand-HV-260-Massager/dp/B00005M1WE\r\n\r\nSo she can orgasm alone and get comfortable on her own. Then maybe you can use the vibrator on her someday when she’s ready for that. Your poor wife. (poor Christians really and their shame about sex) It’s a lot to unpack, but I hope you guys can figure it out. You both deserve a healthy sex life to feel desired. I would just set aside the time for now, and make sure she knows there is no pressure to do the deed. Y’all are just reconnecting, spending time together. Prioritize the time. Can you get a bottle of wine? If you guys drink a little wine or a cocktail can help to loosen up. I think if the opportunity is there regularly you guys will figure it out. Good luck! My husband and I have a great sex life now, believe it or not! With our busy lives it’s not so much quantity, but quality.","subreddit_name":"Marriage","author":"anxiousturtle23"},{"body":"The classic \"Magic Wand Massager\" may meet your requirements and then some.    \r\nwww.amazon.com/Original-Magic-Wand-HV-260-Massager/dp/B00005M1WE    \r\nI would specifically recommend ALSO buying the matching speed controller.   \r\nwww.amazon.com/Wand-Massager-Speed-Controller-Hitachi/dp/B001TJ6MWQ/    \r\n\r\nI have recommended this combination to others in the past because the wand has an amazing motor but simplistic power switch, and the Speed Controller gives you infinite adjustability DOWN to massive thumpy low rhythms that are mind-blowing.     \r\nBUT in your case, the most important things may be: (1) The Magic Wand itself has a simple two-position slide switch that is easy to control without much coordination, and doesn't require holding it down. (2) The Speed Controller puts the control several feet down the power cord, allowing control to be up near your hand while the action is down below.  Also in this case, the power cord is an advantage rather than a hindrance, since it is securely attached and can help with keeping the Magic Wand in position if you position it between cushions, or simply sit on it. \r\n\r\nHitachi still manufactures this item, however it is sold under the \"Vibratex\" brand and the packaging just says \"Original Magic Wand\" as Hitachi decided years ago they didn't want the brand associated with such a notorious sex toy.  Model HV-260 is the one to get; later models have smaller motors/batteries/momentary switches/other issues.   \r\n\r\nOne other note though: Fakes of this item are common, so I recommend buying this from Amazon directly or at least from a seller that ships through Amazon (pay attention to the \"ships from\" field), as whatever else may wrong with the 'zon, they do a pretty good job of not shipping counterfeit items from their warehouses.","subreddit_name":"SexToys","author":"jon_esp"},{"body":"So that site may or may not be an authentic Magic Wand distributor, but it's definitely not \"Hitachi's site\". For one, they say in their \"About\" page that they're a \"California-based retailer\" that has been around for \"10+ years\". Hitachi, of course, is a huge Japanese company, and the Magic Wand alone has been around for *fifty* years. \r\n\r\nAnd again, the name Hitachi is no longer associated with the product. The Magic Wand is made by Vibratex, and distributed by a bunch of people, but Hitachi themselves have nothing to do with it anymore. So it would be strange that \"HitachiMagic.com\" would be the definitive website for the product. You'll also notice that the Amazon page you linked has a total of two reviews, and they're not awesome. Again, not a great sign that this is the authentic listing for the world's most popular and iconic vibrator.\r\n\r\nNow, in general, it's a really bad idea to buy sex toys on Amazon. Amazon is known in this industry for being full of fake, counterfeit, or even used products. However, if we're talking Amazon, I'd point you towards [this listing](https://www.amazon.com/VIBRATEX-HV-260-Hitachi-Magic-Massager/dp/B00005M1WE), which at least points out that the item is made by Vibratex, and is far more heavily trafficked and reviewed. I do acknowledge that the title of that page \"misleadingly\" uses the word Hitachi, although the clarify in the description that it's \"now known simply as the Magic Wand\". When looking at any of the well-known reputable toy retailer websites though, either online ones like SheVibe or hybrid online/brick-n-mortar like Adam\u0026amp;Eve, notice that none of them refer to the item in any meaningful way as the Hitachi, except to say in their descriptions that the item \"used to be known as the Hitachi Magic Wand\".","subreddit_name":"NSFW_GIF","author":"microcosmic5447"},{"body":"Are you massaging afterward? My husband massages for a few minutes right after he gives me the shot -- and HARD, like it hurts. Then I use a [handheld massaging wand](https://www.amazon.com/Original-Magic-Wand-HV-260-Massager/dp/B00005M1WE) for ten minutes on each side. I also sit on a heating pad while I work at my desk during the day. I also heard walking or doing squats after helps but I stopped after a while and don't think I can tell a difference but it might be worth a try! And as others say, try different spots and talk to your doctor/nurse to make sure you are targeting the right area, I found that we could go a bit higher than we were going which hurt less for me. Good luck!","subreddit_name":"IVF","author":"psychgrad88"},{"body":"Yeah.. his reaction to me getting some shit like that is what I'm trying to avoid in the first place. If he were any other person I wouldn't give a shit at all but he's the kind of person that will tease you with it for the rest of your life. Now that I have my Fleshlight I want one of these and I can't get it shipped it here. https://www.amazon.com/Original-Magic-Wand-HV-260-Massager/dp/B00005M1WE","subreddit_name":"NEET","author":"margobisbee"},{"body":"I agree with Lmn_41: you probably want to figure out how to cause her to have an orgasm.\r\n\r\nVibrators work. Get one that adjusts in intensity - the right intensity is different for different women. If it plugs into the wall, one way to adjust the intensity is to use an extension cord with a built in dimmer switch in-between. [Hitachi Magic Wands](https://www.amazon.com/VIBRATEX-HV-260-Magic-Wand-Massager/dp/B00005M1WE) work well, but without the dimmer switch it is too intense for my wife.If you don't trust the electrical safety of that situation, there are fine battery powered vibrators.\r\n\r\nAnd if you get that to work reliably and are bored with it, try removing the vibrator once her orgasm is clearly underway. Her reaction will not be boring.","subreddit_name":"sex","author":"fqrh"},{"body":"The ladies out there may be able to attest to this, [but there can only be one.](https://www.amazon.com/VIBRATEX-HV-260-Magic-Wand-Massager/dp/B00005M1WE) (NSFW)\r\n\r\nAnything else is just a novelty.   \r\n\r\nA surprise might be fun, or you can tell her that you're buying it for her. The anticipation is kind of fun too.","subreddit_name":"AskMen","author":"ishitwhataburger"},{"body":"+1 to the [Hitachi](https://www.amazon.com/VIBRATEX-HV-260-Magic-Wand-Massager/dp/B00005M1WE) recommendation. But you shouldn't have to spend $80. It's about $45 on Amazon. If you don't mind spending more, you can get the cordless version, which has more fine-grained intensity control and a silicone head for easier cleaning... but not really necessary.","subreddit_name":"sex","author":"thecupcakeconspiracy"},{"body":"To clean, soap and water then dip in rubbing alcohol you can get at the drugstore.\r\n\r\nBattery vibes go through batteries fast.  Get your own batteries and use them when you play so you won't wear out hers or she'll know. \r\n\r\nBut if you really want to good toy, you should go for a plug in vibe mail order.  Easy to do: https://www.amazon.com/VIBRATEX-HV-260-Magic-Wand-Massager/dp/B00005M1WE\r\n","subreddit_name":"incest","author":"paulpinecone"},{"body":"Go middle of the road on price and try the [Hitachi Magic Wand](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00005M1WE?psc=1\u0026amp;redirect=true\u0026amp;ref_=ox_sc_act_title_1\u0026amp;smid=ATVPDKIKX0DER).  You can get it on Amazon for about $45 bucks and I'm pretty sure you'll see the quality difference.. and probably a few dead relatives by the time you finish your first round with it.\r\n\r\nIf you buy one make sure you only buy it direct from Amazon not any of the 3rd party sellers because so many of these are sold (about 250,000 a year last I heard) they're being counterfeited now.","subreddit_name":"sex","author":"TNAgent"},{"body":"I'm the exact same way! I used to only be able to orgasm by grinding against a pillow/rolled up blanket stuffed tightly in between my legs (usually takes less than 5 minutes). Always thought it was the strangest thing because I couldn't get off during PIV, plus I was pretty embarrassed about it. I think my problem was the amount of pressure I required because I had been using that method for years. When I met my current boyfriend, he had this [Hitachi Magic Wand](http://www.amazon.com/Hitachi-HV-250R-Magic-Wand-Massager/dp/B00005M1WE) that vibrates at fast speeds and, when pressed against your clit, can be pretty intense. The first time we used it, it took me a good hour before I could even feel an orgasm building up. Months later, if I can concentrate hard enough, I can get off in 10 to 15 minutes, but even then it's still a bit of work. Maybe you should invest in one! My boyfriend says that when I'm using it and he's in me, it feels good for him too.\r\n\r\nAnd on an additional note, I used to feel like a total weirdo for grinding, but then one day I was just honest with him. Turned out that he wasn't freaked out at all! Even encourages it when we're together sometimes.\r\n\r\nEDIT: I'd also recommend using a vibrator inside you as well as the wand on your clit. Having both of them has always made it less difficult for me. I wish you luck!","subreddit_name":"sex","author":"drlemonberry"},{"body":"Amazon has then for around the same price there's one for $61 that comes with two attachments also. \r\n\r\nHitachi Magic Wand Massager\r\nhttp://www.amazon.com/dp/B00005M1WE/ref=cm_sw_r_an_am_ap_am_us?ie=UTF8\r\n\r\nIf you have amazon Prime it's free two day shipping. If you don't have prime and are a student they have a prime trial membership you can take advantage of. \r\n","subreddit_name":"sex","author":"Pat_ron"}]}