just try some empathetic parenting. Obviously, this has hit a cord for you. Peace while you are seeking some answers.
Give empathetic parenting a try, i promise you it really does work. here is a book to help start this new journey:
https://www.amazon.com/Magical-Child-Joseph-Chilton-Pearce/dp/0452267897
Since this is a witch board: i give you something else. Tell you daughter (all children) that you love and support them no matter what.
Let the negative energy go. It has nothing to do with your sweet girl. Try something positive and new to change up the energy.
Peace and Healing.