I use this one seated: Mapex S800EB Armory Double Braced... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00K544J6C?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
Use this stand for putting a marching drum on, it is strong as hell, pretty heavy, and feels like a tank and is the perfect height for putting a snare drum on while standing. It is practice pad height for maybe a younger, smaller person but I don't use it for that purpose. I also like that it is adjustable so that your drum can go at ANY angle you need to
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This is closer to practice pad height, I own both and use both regularly, great options
This might be what you are looking for.