I would go with wearing guys skinny jeans and a plain black womans top. The kind of shirt that looks like a nice t-shirt not a plain T-shirt. I would go to Amazon and look at women's tops and search for the keyword 'drape' and find a nice thin black t-shirt that drapes. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B002KPMVIM/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_.F3aCb5A67A3Q ...