https://www.amazon.com/Manners-Guide-Surprisingly-Dignified-Wedding/dp/0393069141/ref=nodl_
This book was very helpful to me.
The keys to a great wedding are good food, good music, an open bar, greeting and interacting with your guests and being gracious hosts. If you plan your wedding keeping your guests comfort and enjoyment in mind, you’ll be fine.
A sampling from a quick web perusal:
The best book dealing with subject, including what etiquette is
You should be able to read enough of the basic principles in the preview to get an idea of the content.
Just plain good, and an interesting extension of the concept
Hope that helps!