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Check out a book called "Modern Batch Cookery" put out by CIA. It has professionally scaled recipes for about 50pax, scaled by weight. It would put you in the right direction for a lot of your menu planning and ordering.
I seem to have misplaced my own copy, so I can't confirm that is has alfredo for 50, but it likely did. It's a really solid base for what you're going for.