We play a board game called monogamy that’s really good. We always end up having sex before we finish the actual game. It starts off fairly tame and gets steamier as the game goes on
Winner gets to act out one of the fantasy cards that they’ve collected during the game during the following week. Husband once chose one which involved a paddling pool and a ton of baby oil.
Monogamy Game for Couples on Amazon uk
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Hi there!
So sorry about the depression diagnosis, I was there too, sertraline and therapy did a great job for me, hope she can get the help she needs. It’s hard sometimes but I like to think that if someone had a broken leg they will try to find help to fix it, the same happens with mental health for me, you need a Dr and meds sometimes to get better.
About the contraceptive pill, it took me around 3 to 4 months to regain my libido.
Btw have you heard about the game monogamy? https://www.amazon.co.uk/Monogamy-Affair-Partner-Adult-Couples/dp/B0001VVQ3I It helps to remember the bond and feel that intimacy with your partner again and it may eventually lead to sex. Highly recommend it!
Hope I answered your questions!
Sorry if it’s a bit messy, english is my 2nd language.
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On the back of the role play idea (prompted because you don't know how to bring it up). There's a board game my ex and I used to play called monogamy. I recommend it: one to one game that involves drinking, clothing removal and timed foreplay. Throughout the game, you win roleplay fantasy cards and the winner picks their favourite for the finale.
Just a suggestion, it opened up some stuff for me that I wasn't sure on (and some stuff I didn't know I wanted)
It might not be relevant bit here's the link in case it is something you're looking for
Ann Summers Monogamy Couples Board Game https://smile.amazon.co.uk/dp/B0001VVQ3I/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_fabc_JR6SFTMHCZYGS50YE4VX
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Creative-Conceptions-MONOG2-Monogamy-Couples/dp/B0001VVQ3I
Thats a link to where you can buy it online though there are other places as well. Itd essentially a board game, you move around the board and pick up cards etc. There are 3levels to work through so you can start out on soft stuff like kissing ans work your way up ti the other stuff! We only played the once so far, trying to remember some examples. There were some role play ones like teacher and student etc, strip tease, lap dance, handcuffs, food play (like licking cream off etc), some vibrator play some anal etc. As i said i instigated the veto rule from the start so there was no pressure to do something you didnt like the sound of ☺ def worth a shot i think and it might help her figure out what shes comfortable with!
Interesting situation. Similar to a recent post where the girl gives a bj, then the guy cums he just leaves, leaving her frustrated. Who does that? So selfish.
The majority of suggestions suggested making sure he made her cum first before finishing the bj. She if she started with a bj, in the middle switch to something else where he has to make her cum.
So if you first go down on her, in the middle change to something where you put her hand on you or even ask for her to go down on you. After you cum, then I am sure you will be more than happy to pleasure her again. The HL person for some reason is more attuned to satisfying their partner.
PS: many times, the LL person may also contribute less to the relationship outside the bedroom also.
If you haven't done so yet, read up on the love languages and do the 5 love languages quiz to determine each other's love languages. Make an agreement to Do at least 2 small gesture of affection in their partner's preferred love language.
If emotional connection is lacking, we have been doing this quiz to improve intimacy. There are others also. https://www.scienceofpeople.com/deep-questions/
Another option I have read would be to try a sex game like Monogamy. However, I don't know of any that would be specific to lesbians. Creative Conceptions Monogamy Adult Couples Board Game https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B0001VVQ3I/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glc_fabc_Q4E3Fb9GFKGHT
Another option in addition to asking for an open relationship would be to explore threesomes.
Good luck.
It is a game. There are also card games with questions and activities to do.
Creative Conceptions Monogamy Adult Couples Board Game https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B0001VVQ3I/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_0ds2Fb1H1VSA8
You could try to improve sexual intimacy with a game like monogamy or a similar game.
Creative Conceptions Monogamy Adult Couples Board Game https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B0001VVQ3I/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glc_fabc_Ooi4FbYY306FC
I have one called Monogamy we both liked it but I can't compare with others as I haven't tried another kind.