This one? I've used it a lot and it's quite good. Edit: Amazon says "May 31st 2007" so I'm not sure if that's the publication date or just the date it became available on Amazon but that makes me think it's probably not this one. This is a good guide so if you can't find the one you had in the 90's I'd recommend either this one or the Kaufman field guide.
I use the National wildlife federation's field guide. It is by no means exhaustive but it helps me identify most things. The pictures are great. https://www.amazon.com/National-Wildlife-Federation-Insects-Spiders/dp/1402741537/ref=pd_sim_14_3?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=1402741537&pd_rd_r=CYNBQ573JKYM4SCS4W21&pd_rd_w=7e5Oe&pd_rd_wg=VTINW&psc=1&refRID=CYNBQ573JKYM4SCS4W21
I personally do NOT like Kaufman. The lay out is funny and the pictures are okay. I am a big fan of the National Wildlife Federation's Field Guide to Insects and Spiders of North American.
It all depends on your area. I'm in Virginia and really like this one: http://www.amazon.com/National-Wildlife-Federation-Insects-Spiders/dp/1402741537