{"product":{"product_id":"0425279995","title":"Psychopath Free (Expanded Edition): Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships With Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Other Toxic People","price":"15.99","image_url":"https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/41WxM1D1huL._SL500_.jpg","url":"https://www.amazon.com/dp/0425279995"},"comments":[{"body":"You will go back to your normal healthy self, it will just take time. I think you are experiencing a short-term coping mechanism as a result of trauma. \r\nRemember, sociopaths have a brain disorder were certain parts of their brain do not function correctly or at all and crucial connections aren't are there and the dysfunctional brain developed in utero or within the first 4 years of life. You are an adult with a fully formed normal brain and it won't change (short of brain damaging injury.) \r\n\r\nIt's actually pretty common to think you might be a sociopath after ending a relationship with one. And wonder if those close to you are paths too. Hard to trust after getting involved with one, ya know? What you knew of human beings got turned on it's head but just remember they're only 1% the remaining 99% are not socio/psychopaths so your chances of running into one again are slim plus you now have KNOWLEDGE and are aware of the warning signs and can make a quick exit if you suspect. \r\n\r\nYou're in a more strategic and aware place than most of humanity as the majority of people are completely naive about this god-awful predatory disorder that wrecks havoc on peoples' lives. You know now and can protect yourself.\r\n\r\nI'm pretty logical/scientific and don't read self-help books or bs like that but i found this book incredibly helpful. I mean, check out the most helpful comment.\r\n\r\nYou're gonna be okay :)\r\n\r\n(https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0425279995/ref=oh_aui_search_detailpage?ie=UTF8\u0026amp;psc=1)\r\n\r\n","subreddit_name":"sociopath","author":"stimber"},{"body":"I highly highly highly recommend this book. If you can afford it get it from Amazon or go to the authors website message boards. This book is what finally helped me understand narcissism in a relationship.\r\n\r\nThat’s great that you blocked her on Facebook. Block her everywhere  and go no contact. That’s the only way I got over my narcissistic ex. Now I’m in a relationship that’s 1 million times better. Better is out there but you have to cut your emotional ties with her!\r\n\r\nI picture it like this. If you have tendrils of energy reaching out toward her, it’s going to prevent you from meeting somebody great.\r\n\r\nI made a calendar and crossed off for every day I did not contact him. It was really really hard for about eight days and then it got easier. I gave myself a reward every five days I went NC. \r\n\r\nWe’ve been broken up 2.5 years and I STILL sometimes feel a strong urge to stalk his social media and see what’s going on with his new wife because I really want them to have problems! Which is so selfish because she’s a kind woman and she deserves better. But I distract myself by coming on Reddit or doing something else!\r\n\r\n\r\nPsychopath Free (Expanded Edition): Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships With Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Other Toxic People https://www.amazon.com/dp/0425279995/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_tJB3AbK2355YY","subreddit_name":"LifeAfterNarcissism","author":"aloysiusxl"},{"body":"https://www.amazon.com/Psychopath-Free-Expanded-Emotionally-Relationships/dp/0425279995\r\n\r\nThis book has been a blessing for me as someone who used to date a narcissist. This helped me in more ways than one. I’m consistently going back to this book to remind myself why I left in the first place and that it’ll get better.","subreddit_name":"abusiverelationships","author":"Stable-Unstable"},{"body":"$10.99 paperback on Amazon delivered in two days, or $9.99 Kindle version. Free Audible Audiobook with Audible trial.\r\n\r\nPsychopath Free (Expanded Edition): Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships With Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Other Toxic People https://www.amazon.com/dp/0425279995/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_T7AMzbST28YSN","subreddit_name":"BPDlovedones","author":"NamasteTacos"},{"body":"Please please please go by this book “psychopath free”. It’s what enabled me to leave my narc abuser.\r\n\r\nYou are not the problem here. He is. That’s the definition of gaslighting. The narcissist makes you feel like you were crazy and everything is your fault.\r\n\r\nThis relationship will only get worse. That is a 100% GUARANTEE. For your sake and your baby you have to get out.\r\n\r\n\r\nPsychopath Free (Expanded Edition): Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships With Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Other Toxic People https://www.amazon.com/dp/0425279995/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_BSGzFb7HR0XCV","subreddit_name":"FemaleDatingStrategy","author":"Status-Battle5826"},{"body":"Yep!!! Sounds familiar!! I’m going through the exact same thing too right now with my breakup- wondering where the hell this other person came from etc etc , if you can speak to a therapist I would recommend it, it’s really helpful especially when dealing with breakups with (potential) narcissists. If not reading up is always great too. I couldn’t recommend the book below enough. I had no idea what I was experiencing/going through after the breakup and this book every page was like an oh my god moment. Very easy to grasp and read too. It really highlighted that the signs of this behaviour had been lingering for a long time but narcissists (in my case i don’t want to label your ex partner) are extremely good at hiding it/ manipulating you. I blamed myself for a long time for not seeing it and this book definitely helped me have some closure that I never got from him and our situation, as to how this person I was with for so long could just flip and be a whole other person. You don’t deserve any of this please remember that, and your not alone. Hope this helps!\r\n\r\n\r\nPsychopath Free: Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships With Narcissists, Sociopaths, and other Toxic People \r\n https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/0425279995/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_MT306BDBM3Y27MJMSDRC?_encoding=UTF8\u0026amp;psc=1","subreddit_name":"relationship_advice","author":"beaverburps123"},{"body":"Yep!!! Sounds familiar!! I’m going through the exact same thing too right now with my breakup- wondering where the hell this other person came from etc etc , if you can speak to a therapist I would recommend it, it’s really helpful especially when dealing with breakups with (potential) narcissists. If not reading up is always great too. I couldn’t recommend the book below enough. I had no idea what I was experiencing/going through after the breakup and this book every page was like an oh my god moment. Very easy to grasp and read too. It really highlighted that the signs of this behaviour had been lingering for a long time but narcissists (in my case i don’t want to label your ex partner) are extremely good at hiding it/ manipulating you. I blamed myself for a long time for not seeing it and this book definitely helped me have some closure that I never got from him and our situation, as to how this person I was with for so long could just flip and be a whole other person. You don’t deserve any of this please remember that, and your not alone. Hope this helps!\r\n\r\n\r\nPsychopath Free: Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships With Narcissists, Sociopaths, and other Toxic People \r\n https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/0425279995/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_MT306BDBM3Y27MJMSDRC?_encoding=UTF8\u0026amp;psc=1","subreddit_name":"relationship_advice","author":"beaverburps123"},{"body":"Oh my god. This is so much worse than I imagined. First of all you need to get it out of your head that this is poly. He was cheating on his pregnant fiancé with you, leading you on to think that you were the only woman in his life, and then manipulated her into accepting his infidelity and manipulated you into thinking that his deception was justified. This guy sounds like a narcissist/sociopath and you need to get the fuck out before you get in deeper. I hope his wife can get some help as well.\r\n\r\nI'd recommend checking out this book to deprogram your mind from his manipulation.\r\nPsychopath Free (Expanded Edition): Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships With Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Other Toxic People https://www.amazon.com/dp/0425279995/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_fabc_KCSQQTADAV1SYCW4GQWX","subreddit_name":"polyamory","author":"vladimir_poontangg"},{"body":"Consider this book.\r\n\r\nPsychopath Free (Expanded Edition): Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships With Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Other Toxic People https://www.amazon.com/dp/0425279995/ref=cm_sw_r_em_api_glt_fabc_V746FNP4QX1P86973G0Y?_encoding=UTF8\u0026amp;psc=1","subreddit_name":"NarcissisticAbuse","author":"Solid-Introduction-7"},{"body":"https://www.amazon.com/Psychopath-Free-Expanded-Emotionally-Relationships/dp/0425279995/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?adgrpid=55689229603\u0026amp;dchild=1\u0026amp;gclid=CjwKCAjw7J6EBhBDEiwA5UUM2iHLyqXBPWoFXDpzkmI1rZdSWsvsKwVF4RLeBS2RODNOlPk3Lh3i0xoCNYMQAvD_BwE\u0026amp;hvadid=274702921082\u0026amp;hvdev=m\u0026amp;hvlocphy=9021319\u0026amp;hvnetw=g\u0026amp;hvqmt=e\u0026amp;hvrand=6797206178137970112\u0026amp;hvtargid=kwd-301026993033\u0026amp;hydadcr=28819_10734876\u0026amp;keywords=psychopath+free\u0026amp;qid=1619556508\u0026amp;sr=8-1\r\n\r\nRead this book. Seriously it is an eye opener.","subreddit_name":"survivinginfidelity","author":"anteru"},{"body":"Psychopath Free (Expanded Edition): Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships With Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Other Toxic People https://smile.amazon.com/dp/0425279995/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_W9CH91RCZ042EPHVWWWX\r\n\r\nI found that helpful.","subreddit_name":"nextfuckinglevel","author":"Daniel-B"},{"body":"People may not realize that [Psychopath Free]( https://www.amazon.com/dp/0425279995/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_BQRsDb8HTAEDM) is a book by Jackson Mackenzie. Any one who's had a crazy person in their lives (everyone) should read that book to better identify crazy and how to handle it.","subreddit_name":"AskMen","author":"stonewall1979"},{"body":"No. I got it at the library. But it would have been WELL worth the $8 to buy it on Amazon:\r\nhttps://www.amazon.com/Psychopath-Free-Expanded-Emotionally-Relationships/dp/0425279995/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8\u0026amp;qid=1488683667\u0026amp;sr=8-1\u0026amp;keywords=psychopath+free","subreddit_name":"LifeProTips","author":"colinbradleyjones"},{"body":"Well...what you have described there is an abusive relationship. I know you don't believe it so its going to be a rough ride until to come to accept it. here's a good book you might consider reading:\r\n\r\nhttps://www.amazon.ca/Psychopath-Free-Expanded-Emotionally-Relationships/dp/0425279995/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8\u0026amp;qid=1476387635\u0026amp;sr=8-1\u0026amp;keywords=psychopath+free+book\r\n","subreddit_name":"relationship_advice","author":"zoomzoom42"},{"body":"*Psychopath Free* was extremely helpful in supporting my initial efforts to understand the abusive environment I was entwined with. \r\n\r\nhttp://www.amazon.com/Psychopath-Free-Expanded-Emotionally-Relationships/dp/0425279995/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8\u0026amp;qid=1442089972\u0026amp;sr=8-1\u0026amp;keywords=psychopath+free\r\n\r\nThey also have a website with forums and additional resources, though the community is mostly female. However they do support a smaller male community/forum on the site as well. Check out those materials and they'll know whether or not they're in a pickle. 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