This one comes to mind. though there are a few.
>And I'm sure you know this but personalized items can be super cute (and as someone with a weird name I always wished I had personalized stuff but my name was never on the rack) but be sure not to put your child's name on things like backpacks/lunchboxes where someone could see it and then know your child's name
yeah the big thing was the mural in his room and the letter blocks for decoration for my wifes baby shower. still though sometimes with children the small little pieces of things you can prepare for occasionally are the only things you sometimes feel in control of.
Plenty of material on the subject. I recommend starting here: https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Boys-Third-Different-Well-Balanced/dp/1607746026