https://www.amazon.com/dp/1626258244/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_j3HfFbPDZ02DY
This book really helped me when my wife of 6 years basically said the same thing. “I love you but I’m not IN love with you.” Didn’t want to try to fix it. Just wanted out. It’s been 8 months of growth and self-discovery and I feel so much better than I did. I probably won’t try to date until 2021 at least, but that’s ok. Maybe we’ll run into each other.
Rebuilding (When Your Relationship Ends)
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1626258244/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_0NEB12R0JZH0J8HJYAYG
This book was amazing. Highly recommend.
I personally also read The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem as well.
Yes, I remember the nightmare feeling well. It gets better. Then another wave of emotion hits and it hurts like it’s day 1 again. But it subsides faster. You’ll deal with grief, anger, rage, fear, all the things. Just read this book, do the work, make some friends (there are subreddits for that), and you’ll be fine in time. Just hang in there. And you’ll be fine on the income front. He’s going to owe you alimony.
I highly recommend this book:Rebuilding: When Your Relationship Ends Along with some good therapy, this book helped me cope with my own divorce, and I’ve recommended it to everyone who asks since. Hang in there; you can totally move past this!
Take your time. It isn’t a rush. Just keep a running list as you think of them.
Also, I highly recommend this book:
Rebuilding: When Your Relationship Ends https://www.amazon.com/dp/1626258244/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_fabc_O1eQFbCEE4MN2
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Fisher's book Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends will help you recover your composure.
I'm so sorry. It hurts like a mother in the beginning, but over time, it gets better. I rarely ever cry anymore. That's something.
I found this book helps: https://www.amazon.com/Rebuilding-When-Your-Relationship-Ends/dp/1626258244