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hey there! I used to have a similar problem of not being able to orgasm in general, even with toys. it took me a bit of finding the right area and pressure I applied to the toy for me to orgasm. I was clueless the first several tries but after really trying out all sorts of areas, I found my “sweet spot”. hope that helps somewhat!
btw, I’ve tried other vibrators but this simple one on Amazon works best for me
Boyfriend just got me this for exactly that application: https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B07YVQC4DR/
Rechargeable, so easy to use (no cord in the way). Waterproof, so fun in the tub, and easy to clean. Powerful enough to get the job done. Very happy with it.
Yay! So excited for you, there’s a whole new world before you of pleasure & fun! Here’s one I’ve got for a few of my girlfriends who opened up to me about wanting a toy but not knowing what to get: personal massager
Reading the reviews is always a good time, too! Lol
Rechargeable Personal Massager - Quiet & Waterproof - 20 Patterns & 8 Speeds - Travel Bag Included - Men & Women - Perfect for Tension Relief, Muscle, Back, Soreness, Recovery - Hot Pink https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07YVQC4DR/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_D9EY9DRSRKZD9Z4PC57F?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Something like this is inexpensive and works like a charm
Amazon literally has everything, or you can go straight to the top of the line and get a Womanizer toy. They’re priced high but they really are exceptional.
Start with a vibrator for her from Amazon though. Personally I have 3 of these from Luna… I accidentally ordered 2 and then I bought a 3rd one bc it was glow in the dark haha thought it’d be fun.
Rechargeable Personal Massager - Quiet & Waterproof - 20 Patterns & 8 Speeds - Travel Bag Included - Men & Women - Perfect for Tension Relief, Muscle, Back, Soreness, Recovery - Hot Pink https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07YVQC4DR/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_TF5D2CDYKVV8PGDCGJNW?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Not really that reliable of a technique, take this for example:
smile.amazon.com/Luna-Rechargeable-Personal-Wand-Massager/dp/B07YVQC4DR/ref=sr_1_11?dchild=1&keywords=magic+wand&qid=1629244706&sr=8-11
(delinkified because scammy)
This product, from a brand no one has ever heard of, has 34 thousand reviews, while all the listings for the legendary Hitachi/Vibratex Magic wands, have about 15 thousand reviews combined.
This is pink It’s easy to use It won’t break the budget if you find you don’t like it It’s very quiet It has lots of power settings so you can start of gentle. It’s more for surface than insertion
Luna Rechargeable Personal Wand Massager - Quiet & Waterproof - 20 Patterns & 8 Speeds - Travel Bag Included - Men & Women - Perfect for Tension Relief, Muscle, Back, Soreness, Recovery - Hot Pink https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07YVQC4DR/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_6YW38PZAKPG6MTJQCHS7 I have the older version of this one and it is amazing!
To add to everybody else - use a vibe. I’ve found that for me big rumbly ones like the Hitachi Magic Wand / Vibratex magic wand are amazing because I can hold it against my underwear tucked or not, and keep everything small but the vibrations go everywhere.
If you want something cheap, this one was great for a year at 1/5the the price of a good one. Then it died.
Luna Rechargeable Personal Wand Massager - Quiet & Waterproof - 20 Patterns & 8 Speeds - Travel Bag Included - Men & Women - Perfect for Tension Relief, Muscle, Back, Soreness, Recovery - Hot Pink https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07YVQC4DR/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_67S17KF3Q1NSHN29S2SN?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Highly recommend the Shibari Halo! Has different settings to have different “beats” and also different strengths of pulses. Rechargable, easy to clean, turn it on and setting 1 is the highest buzz with a constant persistent buzz and can easily bring me to multiple Os in a matter of minutes. You can also cycle through the settings to have set “beats” or “rhythms” like Morse code almost. Charges very quickly and lasts very long. 10/10! Hope this helps.
Rechargeable Personal Wand Massager - 20 Patterns & 8 Speeds - Travel Bag & Manual Included - Perfect for Muscle Tension, Back, Neck Relief, Soreness, Recovery - Hot Pink https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07YVQC4DR/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_zTRGFbB9D1B32
The annoying answer is: it varies
Cheaper vibrators will typically have a less expensive motor which may sound quieter but the housing might be a bit noisier. It depends on what type you can find. A simple rechargeable wand like this or a small discreet bullet might work for you. I doubt you'll be waking up the neighbors with an introductory toy
More expensive toys have nice perks like a longer battery life, fancy designs, vibration settings, power, and durability. I'd say the biggest difference though is certain motors produce a "rumble" rather than a " buzz": many girls prefer rumbly because it's quieter, feels better, and doesn't cause a numbing effect after a while. Of course, the more power it has the harder it is to muffle at the highest setting
Not that this should discourage you from shopping for a cheaper one. Budget toys can be surprisingly nice. If anything, try to get one that's made of silicone and is recheargeable. Being waterproof comes in handy too
I love my vibrator, best tool in my toy box.
Have fun, good luck!
Love this for compact size and travel as well. A bunch of brands make a low cost, conspicuous version like this.
Get something like this. It was so good we got a second one.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07YVQC4DR/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_imm_t1_yUl8Fb5TBE5NN
Then just explore how it’s best together. That’s the most fun.