Do you want them to be warm? SATINA High Waisted Leggings for Women - Soft Women’s Leggings in Capri & Full Lengths - Regular and Plus Sizes in 25 Colors https://www.amazon.com/dp/B074R27W46/ref=cm_sw_r_awdo_navT_g_R4YFFNBPZ2KATKNQ2ATQ
Those are stupid soft after hundreds of washes, stay up, all things you said but are not warm. I have multiple pairs for under skirts or under shorts. I wear them with tunics. I love them for summer hikes in tall grass. Not warm enough though past Halloween unless you're layering but I haven't had an issue with being see through.
I have multiple pairs of these and wear them all day everyday. They are the BEST leggings I have ever owned and super soft. They’re also completely opaque so no one can see your bum!
Got these leggings these leggings from Amazon and they are AMAZING. And so cheap. They are 'one size' and they look so so tiny when you get them, but I'd say they could fit xs/s/m/and prob large. I'm a s/m usually and these are fantastic. SO SOFT.
What kind of leggings did you try? If they are athletic ones I think those would be difficult to work with. I buy these ones off amazon and they're super soft like pajamas and I'm able to pull them low below the bump and they don't tug or bind on me at all.
there are these leggings on amazon that are not compression leggings and dont have a tight waistband. I have a hiatal hernia and they don't cause me any issue. i swear by them. every semester I order a 7 pack of these leggings. they are cheap, very stretchy and have no compression. i feel your pain, i miss wearing tight clothing and tight belts.
https://www.amazon.com/SATINA-High-Waisted-Leggings-Colors/dp/B074R27W46/
I love the Auden nursing bras at Target (https://www.target.com/p/women-s-nursing-wirefree-bra-auden-8482-pearl-tan-40d/-/A-53929197) and I got some “one size fits most” leggings on Amazon (SATINA High Waisted Leggings - 25 Colors - Super Soft Full Length Opaque Slim https://www.amazon.com/dp/B074R27W46/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_xMDZEbB3XECNQ) that are high-waisted but not compression, so I lived in those until I officially “popped” and had to switch to actual maternity leggings