Use a regular Jenga set and just write numbers (not the actual tasks). Then have a sheet with tasks assigned to numbers. That way you can continue to update/change it in case your M doesn’t like something.
My ex and I bought something similar like this on Amazon , but a lot of it is vanilla or just goofy, so I want to do the above with a future partner.
Something to note is there are a lot of Jenga pieces. So you want to leave like half blank to tease, maybe with a couple “anything you want” pieces.
Apparently someone else had the same idea...