May I recommend a book called Splitopia? http://www.amazon.com/Splitopia-Dispatches-Todays-Good-Divorce-ebook/dp/B010MHAH08/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1458742112&sr=1-1&keywords=splitopia
Divorce doesn't have to be horrible, in fact it can be great. But you have to start a conversation with your husband.