{"product":{"product_id":"0943358191","title":"Taoist Secrets of Love: Cultivating Male Sexual Energy","price":"18.9","image_url":"https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/41cwU4GEq1L._SL500_.jpg","url":"https://www.amazon.com/dp/0943358191"},"comments":[{"body":"\\\u0026gt; but that and orgasm together is better than that alone, haven't you tried both together? If not why not?\r\n\r\nDepends on the context. Yes I have done certain practices that incorporate both. Those practices obviously do exist, some of which are potent. But not in jhana meditation, for reasons already mentioned. Sensuality and jhana are mutually exclusive, it's a different kind of pleasure withdrawn from sensuality.\r\n\r\nFor the time you're in jhana, there's an absence of sensuality, you simply can't mix the two while in that state.\r\n\r\nIf you're after sexual types of meditations specifically, you won't find that in Buddhism (except perhaps in fringe elements of Vajrayana Buddhism maybe?). Perhaps Taoism? Maybe try [Taoist Secrets of Love](https://www.amazon.com.au/Taoist-Secrets-Love-Cultivating-Sexual/dp/0943358191/ref=sr_1_3?crid=6UOUQOSG5665\u0026amp;keywords=mantak+chia\u0026amp;qid=1654582840\u0026amp;s=books\u0026amp;sprefix=mantak+chi%2Cstripbooks%2C269\u0026amp;sr=1-3) by Mantak Chia perhaps? I read it years ago, although I'm not sure whether this is considered orthodox in the Taoist religion.","subreddit_name":"Buddhism","author":"etan_ashman"},{"body":"It's not any more detailed than what's written above, really. I'm reading Mantak Chia's Taoist Secrets of Love: Cultivating Male Sexual Energy https://www.amazon.com/dp/0943358191/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_WrPcCbTNYNV4H\r\n\r\nBut I'm basically just edging, and when i get close, I'm using my pc muscles, focusing on the positive feeling in my genitals, and trying to move that up my spine to my brain and the rest of my body.\r\n\r\nHave you tried any of this before? Are you reading anything related to SR?","subreddit_name":"Semenretention","author":"NoFapstronaut3"},{"body":"You can strengthen some muscles in your groin area that can be clenched at will to stop ejaculation during orgasm. Prior to developing the necessary muscular control, you can pinch off the pathway with two fingers, right before you cum, by pressing on a point in your taint area. It sounds weird but it works.\r\n\r\nCheck out this book. It presents the technique with some spiritual hocus pocus, but the physical processes are real:\r\n\r\nhttp://www.amazon.com/Taoist-Secrets-Love-Cultivating-Sexual/dp/0943358191/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8\u0026amp;qid=1442852381\u0026amp;sr=8-1\u0026amp;keywords=toaist+secrets+of+love","subreddit_name":"NoFap","author":"turd_possum"},{"body":"A buddy of mine turned me on to a book that you might like: http://www.amazon.com/Taoist-Secrets-Love-Cultivating-Sexual/dp/0943358191  I have not read it entirely but my buddy says that he talks about practicing things like you are working on namely semen retention and orgasm without shooting.  It might be of interest to you..  All the best!","subreddit_name":"NoFap","author":"higherpowered"},{"body":"After reading [\"Taoist Secrets of Love: Cultivating Male Sexual Energy\" by Mantak Chia](http://www.amazon.com/Taoist-Secrets-Love-Cultivating-Sexual/dp/0943358191/ref=sr_1_4?ie=UTF8\u0026amp;qid=1434431161\u0026amp;sr=8-4\u0026amp;keywords=mantak+chia\u0026amp;pebp=1434431162317\u0026amp;perid=0D67F39832254B48B0BA), this article reads similar to \"drinking bleach can regulate blood alkalinity\"","subreddit_name":"todayilearned","author":"Feegert"},{"body":"Hang in there bro!  A buddy of mine turned me on to this book this week:  http://www.amazon.com/Taoist-Secrets-Love-Cultivating-Sexual/dp/0943358191  I ordered it but it has not arrived yet.  He says it is about how to transmute that energy into building life force energy.  All the best!","subreddit_name":"NoFap","author":"higherpowered"},{"body":"Our relationship with our body, the opposite sex and with the act of sex is something that is completely natural. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you wanting to date, kiss or sleep with a woman. Please don’t feel disgusting or gross! \r\n\r\nWhat was your relationship like with your parents growing up? What were their views on sexuality? I grew up in a family where I was taught that premarital sex is bad and I’ll burn in hell for engaging in it. I developed a very negative view about my body and sex/sexual expression. It took me a long time to realize how damaging those beliefs were to relationships with not only myself but with my partner too. \r\n\r\nSex is part of life. It is literally the driving force behind life. I recommend you read this book, this author has a few different books and I honestly think everyone should read both. \r\n\r\nhttps://www.amazon.com/Taoist-Secrets-Love-Cultivating-Sexual/dp/0943358191\r\n\r\nhttps://www.amazon.com/Healing-Love-through-Tao-Cultivating/dp/1594770689/ref=pd_aw_fbt_img_1/147-4696262-4923451?pd_rd_w=tpaQp\u0026amp;pf_rd_p=76328f70-5fff-49b7-869a-94bfdaa768fc\u0026amp;pf_rd_r=A4XVFYFZDQ5FWWS8WJKF\u0026amp;pd_rd_r=762972d4-0cde-4b7e-9651-a750e50221fc\u0026amp;pd_rd_wg=KZSrR\u0026amp;pd_rd_i=1594770689\u0026amp;psc=1\r\n\r\nhttps://www.amazon.com/Awaken-Healing-Energy-Through-Tao/dp/0943358078/ref=pd_aw_fbt_img_2/147-4696262-4923451?pd_rd_w=OwBqN\u0026amp;pf_rd_p=76328f70-5fff-49b7-869a-94bfdaa768fc\u0026amp;pf_rd_r=JN1YRA5XNF4ERZGQP3TE\u0026amp;pd_rd_r=a5560f1d-6c67-4f0d-b446-9afbff2ebf4c\u0026amp;pd_rd_wg=onA7i\u0026amp;pd_rd_i=0943358078\u0026amp;psc=1","subreddit_name":"seduction","author":"labyrinthlilith"},{"body":"the buck breaking society fears accession through semen retention.  [https://www.amazon.com/Taoist-Secrets-Love-Cultivating-Sexual/dp/0943358191](https://www.amazon.com/Taoist-Secrets-Love-Cultivating-Sexual/dp/0943358191)","subreddit_name":"biology","author":"SugAr_Cause"},{"body":"When this started for me in meditation i later found Mantak Chia's book which was very interesting. For me the intense sexual energy started when i started to let go in my meditation, letting go of forced effort and just \"being still\". I remember in the past when i got aroused during meditation i thought i was doing something wrong or that this shouldn't be happening, this is not the case. It's a heavenly thing :)\r\n\r\n[https://www.amazon.com/Taoist-Secrets-Love-Cultivating-Sexual/dp/0943358191](https://www.amazon.com/Taoist-Secrets-Love-Cultivating-Sexual/dp/0943358191)\r\n\r\nThe Whole book here in pdf: [https://archive.org/details/taoistsecretsoflovebymantakchia1984/mode/2up](https://archive.org/details/taoistsecretsoflovebymantakchia1984/mode/2up)\r\n\r\n[https://www.commonsensekundalini.com/science\\_spirituality/sexual-sublimation.html](https://www.commonsensekundalini.com/science_spirituality/sexual-sublimation.html)\r\n\r\n\u0026amp;#x200B;\r\n\r\nSitting Quietly\r  \r\n\r  \r\n兀然無事坐、春夾草自生\r  \r\n\r  \r\n\"Sitting quietly, doing nothing,\r  \r\n\r  \r\nSpring comes, and the grass grows by itself.\" Zenrin Kushû (The Way of Zen 134, 222)","subreddit_name":"Meditation","author":"birkirvr"},{"body":"It's described here - [https://www.amazon.com/Taoist-Secrets-Love-Cultivating-Sexual/dp/0943358191/](https://www.amazon.com/Taoist-Secrets-Love-Cultivating-Sexual/dp/0943358191/)  \r\n\r\n\r\nGood luck.","subreddit_name":"NoFap","author":"-I-Will-Not-Fap-"},{"body":"Hi brother, I don't know much about your condition, so it's better if you could ask a medical doctor, is better if he's open minded. \r\n\r\nHaving said that, maybe you could try the testicular breathing, mantak chia explains it, it's like the mind directing the flow of energy upwards. Also the prostate contractions help. \r\nhttps://youtu.be/CnOg_ZS4eSE .\r\n He has explained also the microcosmic meditation, I highly recommend it. https://www.amazon.com/-/es/Mantak-Chia/dp/0943358191/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?dchild=1\u0026amp;keywords=mantak+chia+books\u0026amp;qid=1609199910\u0026amp;sprefix=mantak+chia\u0026amp;sr=8-3#\r\nThis book I also recommend\r\nhttps://www.amazon.com/-/es/Daniel-Reid/dp/067164811X/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?dchild=1\u0026amp;keywords=the+tao+of+health+sex+and+longevity\u0026amp;qid=1609200050\u0026amp;sprefix=the+tao+of+he\u0026amp;sr=8-3#\r\n\r\nHope this can be of help to you. If you have a question about it, please let me know. Peace.","subreddit_name":"Semenretention","author":"izzyvzla"},{"body":"[Skip the ceremonial part and go to the source](https://www.amazon.com/Taoist-Secrets-Love-Cultivating-Sexual/dp/0943358191).\r\n\r\n[And for women](https://www.amazon.com/Healing-Love-through-Tao-Cultivating/dp/1594770689).","subreddit_name":"occult","author":"coyoteka"},{"body":"This is the one I read last year... it was pretty authoritative on the subject.  Good luck!\r\n\r\nhttps://www.amazon.com/Taoist-Secrets-Love-Cultivating-Sexual/dp/0943358191","subreddit_name":"NoFap","author":"paulmattheww"},{"body":"https://www.amazon.com/Taoist-Secrets-Love-Cultivating-Sexual/dp/0943358191","subreddit_name":"NoFap","author":"ThereMustBeAPlace"},{"body":"https://www.amazon.com/Taoist-Secrets-Love-Cultivating-Sexual/dp/0943358191/ref=sr_1_7?ie=UTF8\u0026amp;qid=1501158547\u0026amp;sr=8-7\u0026amp;keywords=sexual+energy\r\nThe book he told me to buy","subreddit_name":"NoFap","author":"cantstop0031"}]}